Thanks girls.
Well...he came home and found me in a crying mess on the sofa. The good thing about us is we have always been able to talk things through.
I confronted him straight away and i wasn't expecting the response, seeing as i've been in this situation before with previous ex's and know how it goes.
Ryan admitted to me that he knew about the account as he used it before we got together over 2 years ago, but never deleted it as he had forgot all about it once he met me. He very honestly told me that this morning he had been on it as for the last few weeks he had been receiving emails from this dating site and wanted to investigate.
It turns out someone had been using this dating account as him, sending messages to girls and then receiving them back.
Luckily Ryan is very much a computer geek and can find out information with a few clicks of the mouse. He tracked the IP Address of where this person had been logging on to the site.
Turns out it's where he used to live with his Ex girlfriend. Now, i'm not surprised as she has been causing us problems for months. I don't know why she's doing it, it's probably to get his attention.
He then goes on to show me the messages that had been sent, and they are hilarious. All of them are basically..."Hey babi, fanc meating up for sum fun sumtime?"
Now, Ryan can for 1, spell and 2 use correct grammar and not "chav" talk....if you know what i mean.
He then goes on to show me the times and dates these messages had been sent, mainly times when i have been on here nattering to you ladies and he is busy doing odd jobs around the house, or when he has been at work, where he has no access to a computer.
So, basically, his ex is trying to come between us again, probably not the last time she will try to either. As he stated to me though, if he was on dating sites looking for whatever, he wouldn't leave the browser open and he would delete all evidence of him using the sites etc.
I feel much better now after talking it through and i do feel bad for doubting him, as like I've said before in previous posts he is one in a million and wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
Now...just got to sort out how to deal with his Ex as it can't go on!!
Sorry for the massive post, and thank you girls for your support
xx