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My DH definitely doesn't see clean/dirty in the same way as I do, and I'm by no means a super-clean type! He's alright at tidying & will happily do the dishes (although sometimes not very well), and he'll 'clear up' stuff, but if I left it to him, it would never truly be *clean*
But I totally get where you're coming from, if my DH made no attempt to clean & help out, particularly if he's at home & not working, I'd be pissed at him. I'm grateful that he tries, even though he's not always successful!
I'd swab the place with cotton wool to show him the dirt that he seems to think is fictional!
lol on the cotton wool!! Now, I'm in no way a neat freak.. He's just a number of steps below me is all. He's not college dorm bad, but it's still bad enough. If it were up to him every table would be piled with papers and junk at all times, overflowing to the floor. The dishes would remain in the sink for 2-3 days each time, and the laundry would never get done. Nevermind dusting. I'm not sure he's ever heard of it! And, he only sweeps if he can see things on the floor. There is a general dirtyness to the floor and it's hard now for me to do the floor because of the bending involved. So frustrating. Maybe he'll be a champ about baby care. One can only hope! If it works out for us, that is. For some reason he sees the end of our relationship as the end of his relationship with his son. I am guessing that'll change quickly once he sees him!