Shan, that's great news!!!
AFM, if anyone cares, for my posts seem to get overlooked or ignored quite a bit...
(pity party)
My post always gets ignored as i feel i dont fit in here and few other nov girls feel the same, hence why i hardly come on ne more, and as shows i posted today and said hope all u girls are well etc and still get ignored so i jus pop and read now i think as sometimes makes ya feel pants more when ignored
Hope all is goin well for u
xx
Yeah, I feel like I don't really fit in either at times. Some seem to keep to their own friends/bump buddies. I know of others that have PMed me regarding this too. I hope we can all change this and make everyone feel more welcomed!
I hope all goes well for you too hon!
anyone else had baby wiggling its ass inside? my stomach moved side to side and hurt! I was on the ground panting thought it was labour and had cramps after. such a strong one!
Bryelle hurst me at times too. She seems to make it a game hen I need to bend over and I can't go far because she pushes her butt up under my right ribs and won't budge away!
DF, wow, you must enjoy your own company! I find on days when I am not scheduled to meet up with anyone I have to go for a walk to the shop just for a bit of human contact. Sad aren't I?
As for girls feeling left out or ignored, I don't think it is ever intentional. It's just not easy to namecheck *everyone* who has posted (especially when there are several pages to catch up on) so sometimes I just read and run, terrible I know but it's hard to pick who to reply to without leaving other people out. Some ladies just update about themselves without really commenting on other people, which is fine as well (guilty!), or just make a short comment that doesn't look like it needs a reply. I know I have gone on other threads before and actually asked a question and been completely overlooked, that's quite harsh! But I am sure nobody here means to ignore anyone, it's just when I come on I do particularly look out for certain users, e.g. those due really near to me, my bump buddy, or those who've had similar pregnancy issues to mine etc... that's only natural I think.
I do always try to say that I hope *everyone* is ok. I'm sure everyone on here does care about everyone else, it's just hard to find a comment to say to everyone x
That has happened to me quite a bit too. Makes you feel like crap, but oh well. Especially if it is really important to me. I understand completely what you are saying!
Yeah, I think it is noticeable that *some* do stick to each other with due dates closer to each other, & those who are bump buddie but we are all November Sparklers & only a few weeks apart therefore we should all be responded too if possible.
Those closer to their due dates have experienced some things already that those of us due towards the middle and end of month are just getting to and the advice is appreciated when given.
Please No hard feelings though anyone. I personally will make sure I don't overlook anyone especially since I am the one who brought it up!
It feels good to get that all off of my chest and I hope that everyone who comes in this thread will feel important!
I'm sure everyone feels overlooked at times. I guess I never really notice when I am....its so normal for me to be over loooked even at work or around my family. Im immune to the hurt feelings! hehehe.
Anyway I hope everyone is doing well!
Ahhh Hon!
DF - I can understand the strong movements. Although she isn't hurting me all the time, sometimes I am like wtf? That is ridiculously painful! I feel like she must be huge or something, as I don't remember Joseph ever hurting me!
Something kind of funny to share! This morning my OH woke me up just to ask if her movements ever hurt. I was up against his back and she was having a jolly time kicking at him. He was like, "I just wonder, because they kind of hurt my back!" I am sure he was exaggerating though, lol. As I hardly acknowledged any movement while I was sleeping.
Men! Over-exaggerating!
Maybe if I am having a girl these ones are going to kick ass! Should hear me ouching and gasping on the sofa its like a scene from alien! I wish the camera on my phone was better i cant capture it at all. I asked santa for a good camera for xmas i think we need one for them moments to come.
df I know exactly how u feel
movements hurt so much now and I have a giant butt sticking out under my ribs
x
April, sorry ifnu have felt left out Hun
I suppose now everyone has so much goin on we are very me me me at times!! But it certainy is never intentional or personal to anyone. I know I sometimes do it too, write a me me me post and not respond to everyone, but on a thread as busy as this it will happen at times.
I often come on on my iPhone so find it hard to name check cos it's a pain!! Like now, I haven't read your whole post either but hope all is ok. I can catch up properly when I get on my laptop later
afm, nothing to report here, was gonna bake a cake but only had one egg so will have to wait till tomorrow now. And I still feel like I'm gonna drop a bowlin ball any minute x x
Yeah, I am on my iphone a lot too and it is hard to respond to multiple posts on it. Cake sounds so yummy! I made a Yellow Cake with Chocolate Frosting last week!
Did not last long!
i keep getting kicked in the bladder and getting the sudden feeling i'm going to pee, i havent yet tho! and my goddam OH has just made himself a salami sandwich and it smells AMAZING [i'm a veggie
] my mouth actually started salivating. even the feta and grape sandwich he made for me isnt enough to kill the craving
Feta & Grape!? I might have to try that! I am about to make me a Peanut Butter & Banana Sandwich! Mmm!
I get head butted in the bladder and near pee to!
william is eating dry wheetabix, he was at that this morning and now again, he seems to like it that way. Will not take with milk. Must think its like a biscuit, but it is a biscuit to says on the box. I just cant imagine eating a dry one.
Is that a Cereal?? I Love Dry Cereal!
hiya all
heres my bump one at 32 weeks and 4 days the other at 36 weeks and 4 days x
You are adorable! Love the bump!!!
im not sure chella, maybe the consultant just wants to have a chat?? ive seen a consultant after each scan
I must admit ive enjoyed these few extra scans as got to see her few more times, and worrying a little less.
Least i know where i am with the last few weeks, have so much going with oldest aswell as shes suffering bullying at school so thats a major stress doesnt help with pregnancy hormones.
Dry weetabix is meant to be nice so ive heard, some ppl eat it with fruit too and yogurt xx
BULLYING!!!
How horrible! I hope the school takes care of that ASAP!!!
no idea what pregnancy management is but it sounds handy, i wish someone could have managed my pregnancy all the way through, OH hasn't coped too well
and eeeewww...dry weetabix, children are
strange
my bum aches!
and my first wash of baby clothes is done!
I washed all of Bryelle's clothes a few weeks ago but wanna do it again!
So I don't know if you remember but awhile ago I suspected a surprise shower for me but anyways I abandoned that thought after awhile and just bought what I needed when I needed it as its not really common to have a shower for your 2nd baby especially if they are both the same sex.
Well I turned up at my aunts house yesterday and we had one a surprise shower for me and I really was totally surprised I had no idea. It was just small with only a couple of friends and mostly family but it was really nice. I got a lot of diapers and some very cute outfits and a video baby monitor which is what I really wanted but didn't have the money to buy and since my old sound only monitor worked just fine I didn't buy one for myself.
Awe! I am so glad you got a surprise shower!
How sweet of everyone!
MissMammaToBe my butt aches to its like i was kicked really hard and front of vag like the bone. Pressure pain I was told.
Mine has been hurting too! It was really bad on Friday night.
I have just read through pages to catch up
Hope all of you ladies and bumps are doing okay?
Thank you all so much for your words and support
I truly appreciate them...and thanks for updating shy
I am home...for now!!! How long it lasts is another matter.
I went to the doctor's on friday with a nasty cough, and he did a blood pressure check then sent me off to the hospital
who kidnapped me!!
My blood pressure is way too high, they have tripled my pills, and for now, it is 'just' about being controlled...I have protein in my urine, and the 24 hour collection showed right on the limit that my kidneys are coping just with the leak of protein...so it is all about biding time now. I am booked in for my elective in 2 weeks, so the aim is now to try and hold out for that, even though the pills are working so hard to control my BP and making me feel like absolute shit the consultant wants me to keep cooking her for now.
But hey, I can't complain
I managed 29 weeks with Reagan, so I am happy enough to have made it this far, and if I only have 2 more weeks of feeling like this then I can cope with that...a few night's here and there in hospital for me is a much better outcome than months in SCBU with a preemie.
So to PET...bugger off, you will not win this time
My date is exactly 2 weeks today...1st November...but shhh on FB, no one knows, am keeping them all guessing!!
The consultant weighed up the pro's and con's I guess...and for as long as she can control what is happening with me she wants baby cooking still, which terrifies me
I am of the mind she would be better off out than in having been here before...but I have to trust her word and judgement on things, she has got me this far along, obviously if things take another turn for the worse they will deliver her straight away.
I have been having constant traces on baby whilst in the hospital, and my last growth scan a week ago showed she is happy enough for now...if not a little bit docile from the effect the pills are having on me and passing on to her!!
I am glad to have a little bit of time before she comes...we are moving house this coming saturday, so I was having a panic about being in hospital whilst everyone else was going to have to do that for me as we can't pull out of the move now (mutual exchange)
Have you got an induction date yet Soph? x
Congrats on the Date Love!
I hope the rest of these next couple of weeks go smoothe for you!
No not yet! Funny as I have thought 31oct/1st November for me too! 1st nov is my parents wedding anniversary they are divorced now lol would have been 35 years!! Anyway as I'll be 38+5 on that Monday and he is looking at a 38 week induction depending in favourability we could go the same time!!
Just a waiting game for me, consultant won't commit to anything and doesn't want to induce me if I'm not ready because I increases the risk of failure and then a section. He wants me to be able to go straight On to the iv drip instead of giving me the pessaries.
This is why I have a whole pineapple in my fridge lol x
Mmm!!! I LOVE Pineapple! I read you have to eat the center of it though. I hate that part! LOL
mmmmmmmmm pineapple now thats got me wanting some of that, never had a pineapple cake thou ??? are they nice!!!
Lol bum ache, ive got dwn below ache but havin a internal today didnt help tbh it hurt,not a lover of internals but guess it had to be done. Has any of you girls got any websites for nursing bra's ??? need to get a couple asap and mothercares dont do my size x
I hope you can find a bra to fit you! I hate having huge BBs because they never have cute ones for big BBs!
Evening ladies! My feet are enormous tonight
I have such a random job, today as well as working on reception I helped deliver puppies by c-section and give a hedgehog a bath!
Will miss it but also can't wait to have more time to rest once on mat leave.
My feet and ankles have been swelling bad!
It hurts!
Lol pineapple turnover cake is yum!! Just put some pineapple at the bottom of your cake dish, then pour over the sponge cake mix and cook. So it is plain sponge with pineapple at the bottom, yummy with cream
I have a few nursing bras but dint fit properly I don't trust the shops either as wenever I have gone and got them they never fit right. I use o work in ms lingerie so am jus gonna measure myself and get some online from that maman bebe whatever website!! Peacocks do some nice ones btw
don't even mention sex to me, the thought of doing it again acre me as have forgotten what to do lmao x x
In the US we call it Pineapple Upside Down Cake and we make it by putting a few TBPS of Butter in a glass pan and heating it in the preheated oven to melt the butter. Take the pan out and Sprinkle Brown Sugar ALL over the buttered pan. (Gives it that yummy crunch when the cake is done.) Then you take the Pineapple slices and place them pretty in the pan. Also, you put Maraschino Cherries in the middle of the slices and around them. Then make your Pineapple or Yellow cake batter and I use the Pineapple Juice as a substitute from the water to give the cake a Pineapple flavor. Poor the batter over the slices and Cherries and bake and then flip it immediately onto a pan when cake is done. YUMMO!!!
Ladies! My stomach is completely screwed here lately. I feel as if I have to go, but I am obviously a bit constipated because it isn't working out. But I have terrible gas and so my stomach feels a mess! And I know this is WAAAAAYYYY TMI, but I just don't know what to do! I am miserable!
Have you tried Maalox for the gas?
Yes, me too. Its been days I have had this problem! I am considering taking something to make me go, but almost too afraid to do that as don't want to cause a big .. mess. And I am OVERLY embarrassed to be talking about this stuff lol.
Oh goodness, she keeps giving me jabs right to the bladder .. makes me almost pee all over myself every time!!
Metamucil for the Constipation works.
oh silas sorry your feeling like that, I kinda know how u feel, having problems with my bm's lately and today been 3 times and it hasnt been pleasent. I get like a achey stomach and then just feel like I have to go.. been like this last few weeks but seems worse today so I havnt eaten anything, hope u feel better soon
Iv just been to tesco and got me some Pineapple!!
Ladies whats the scoop on evening primrose oil should I be getting me some of that?? x
I wonder if the Primrose works and the Pinapple. My doctor told me today nothing works just baby is ready when baby is ready. He was an A$$ today though and I will explain why later.
I am pretty sure its not BH, just because of the gas and everything. I know something is TRYING to happen. But I will tell you that the pressure/or the feeling of needing to poo is also a sign of labor as well. Its what pushed me to the hospital with my son. I had him the next day, after 15 hours of labor. But it really does feel like you need to poo!
Sure does feel like you need to pooh!
wow only a few hrs since Ive been on and over 6 pages!! No wonder we sometimes get overlooked ladies - we talk too much
DF - Ive ordered some bras -
for that bargain!!
Im off too bed in a sec as Im knackered after going out for a friends bday - but just wanted too update too say that I had a growth scan this afternoon and baby is spot on
so the outside measurements did mean nothing ... and she is defo a she!! *phew*!! After all the decorating we've just done and all the dresses she owns it was a relief!
Hope your all well
Lol xx
We do talk alot!
Congrats on your growth span!
Going to tour the birthing unit here tonight....kinda excited to see it.
I am taking Jace to a Big Brother/Sister Class on November 2nd and we will get to tour the hospital then too!
AFM, I'm fat and fed up, spent my first day of mat leave looking after an oxygen dependent friend who has been readmitted to hospital tonight
Please keep her in your thoughts.
Tomorrow I am having radiators moved so we can finally reboot the CH system and hopefully dry out the plaster so we can decorate and GO HOME (I inherited some money and we have renovated the WHOLE house but our "optomistic" timescales and a builder whyo took our money and ran have meant this has taken waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay longer than we thought but we are almost there!)
DD2 arrived this time tomorrow (36 weeks to the day) and I think I am subconsciously expecting things to happen but in reality I'm just feeling fat and a squidy arse in my ribs
Jo
xx
I am thinking of your friend!