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Was a long time before he went to his grans with Darren. And since new baby on the way we wanted to get him used to it as I cant have two stuck to me all day. He is independent and dosnt seem to miss me much anwyay and only away for an hour or two. I used to think it was great as i got showers but then turned in to cleaning the whole house and being wreaked. And I have nmo one I can call and have an adult chat with . My so called bud moved far away and dosnt speak to me any more, i got fed up calling her and no answer and then send me message apologising saying she would call, that was last month and she still hasnt so i give up she is to busy anyway for me. And I dont want to go to toddler groups I get judged enough by my family, have little time for them. I was offered one of them ones that come and help me from my HV like a friend person but I was a bit peed off she had them on to me as i didnt know who it would be coming down and i didnt fancy being judged by a stranger or worse having to entertain someone i dont know because i have no friends like some loner.
sigh
The sad thing is that my OH wouldn't even consider taking Joseph off without me going along. He would probably have a cow if I seriously suggested such a thing. Of course, he doesn't go off often by himself either, so he is most always here to help when he isn't working. But it just isn't the same. Don't know what is going to happen with 2 little ones - suppose we will adjust.
I have a few friends with children, but honestly? Their kids kind of drive me insane. Sounds horrible to say, but would almost rather their kids not come around - especially if I wanted to visit after my child was gone. What would be the point? Now that I am on the worst friend to have list, I will carry on.
hey girls. it was my last day of work today and at the end of my shift i got a nice little surprise ...
they gave me £100!
i can't believe that's me finished work for 9 whole months! it's still not sunk in!
hope everyone is well xx
Thats great hon! Very nice of them! Hope you enjoy your 9 months off! (as I am sure you will!!!!)