chella
mummy of 3 & 1 angel x
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Thanks for all your support over paranoir, I am positive baby ok now am concerned something will happen in labour and I will lose Leo. That paranoid wont even write his name on christmas gift tags etc. Was never like thios with my other two.
DF is there any other group you could go to to meet any friends. I must admit I have work friends but no one else but has never bothere me at all. i have always been a loner!!!
Good luck to Vanilla to all the moon rubbers i'm there with you all. Have seen a few threads previously where it has worked!!!
I dont want to go to these groups, there arnt any in my area anyway and I have no transport. They are all the same full of nosey bitches that cant except any parent who does something different and their kids are always nasty to mine. William is nice and wants to play their kids are hostile and selfish. Glad he dosnt mind though as I think he will have to get used to that sort of attitude around here. Last woman I met at the hospital whos child was playing with mine started on me like I was some bad mum because my child was the youngest and didnt have a dummy or a bottle. She was appalled. Why had I never given him one oh the poor child she said. Yes they are gobby here! and my family where like that till they all up and went when i didnt listen to their advice.
Sorry to moan on and on its just peeing me off now and i am hormonal tonight. I am peed off with my judgemental stubborn bitchy mum who hasnt asked me ever how I was in my pregnancy or how anything has went I havnt spoken to her in months apart from snapping on the phone when I call for my dad. my brother i havnt spoke to in months since he insulted my son and tried to make out he was special needs or something.
My son today couldn't reach the pedals of his new jeep so he gets a plank of wood and puts it on the floor of the jeep and now can reach the pedals to drive! this is why i dont appreciate my family who dont see my son at all seeing him and making out he is stupid / he is far from it and smarter than them by the looks of it.
I shall try not think about them after baby is born and if they come and see baby or not as it will piss me off, try and get on with it I suppose.
You do what u feel is right, everyone brings their children up different, its the simular way dwn here, if ur not the same u dont fit in, shame ur family is missing out on a super lil boy and ur soon to be new baby xxx take care xx
Soph - fingers x u may not hav to hav induction as this is what i was like with ellesse my 1st, hearing about ur bag i need my bag finished off and tinks too , good luck and keep us posted xxxx