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Ooo, first midwife appointment in an hour. I don't know why I'm so excited
Thanks ladies. Everything went fab. They've put my dates behind but she based it on a 28 day cycle and mine is 24 so hopefully the scan will put me back to where I am.
I have a bit of a predicament at the moment. One of my close friends has been trying to have a baby for the last 6 months and nothing has happened. She knows I'm pregnant and if I mention anything on facebook about being happy she gets really sarky. She wrote a status last night calling all her pregnant friends greedy. I understand she's upset and hurting but I'm fed up of being made to feel guilty. I have no idea how to go about it all.
Thanks ladies. Everything went fab. They've put my dates behind but she based it on a 28 day cycle and mine is 24 so hopefully the scan will put me back to where I am.
I have a bit of a predicament at the moment. One of my close friends has been trying to have a baby for the last 6 months and nothing has happened. She knows I'm pregnant and if I mention anything on facebook about being happy she gets really sarky. She wrote a status last night calling all her pregnant friends greedy. I understand she's upset and hurting but I'm fed up of being made to feel guilty. I have no idea how to go about it all.
I think she is being quite childish and unreasonable - 6 months isn't 'that' long to TTC (lots of us in here tried for much longer), and certainly not long enough to make you bitter towards pregnant people. She doesn't sound particularly pleasant, if she thinks it's ok to call folk 'greedy' for being pregnant. I'd be inclined to block her from seeing your statuses so you don't have to deal with her attitude
xxx
I mentioned to my OH abou blocking her from updates but he thought it was a bit petty. She's always whinging on to me about it and how unfair it is. I've tried telling her so many times that even doctors won't think about the possibility of problems until at least a year. I do feel for her as I remember being gutted month after month. I don't think it helps that she suffers from anxiety. She's always convinced shes at deaths door.
I've got my ultrasound booked for the 10th April at 2:30pm! xx
Thanks hun
I know what you mean. I can't wait to be I'm 2nd tri with lovely bumps and movement. It really is flying by though!
Are you seeing your mw next week hun?
Hope your drs app goes well ES xx
Soo exciting! You should get your scan date soon too, you're really not far off 12 weeks I'm so glad I've got one for when I'm just over 10 weeks, as they normally only give you the one at 18 weeks here
I can't wait for those reassuring jabs and pokes again! xx
Thanks ladies. Everything went fab. They've put my dates behind but she based it on a 28 day cycle and mine is 24 so hopefully the scan will put me back to where I am.
I have a bit of a predicament at the moment. One of my close friends has been trying to have a baby for the last 6 months and nothing has happened. She knows I'm pregnant and if I mention anything on facebook about being happy she gets really sarky. She wrote a status last night calling all her pregnant friends greedy. I understand she's upset and hurting but I'm fed up of being made to feel guilty. I have no idea how to go about it all.