Got home from the hospital yesterday, and I never thought I would be so busy watching a tiny human sleep! I guess I'll write up my birth story here.
Monday afternoon (11/3) at my OB appointment I was still only dilated to 4.5cm. I had been there since leaving the hospital at 33 weeks, but she noted that I was 80+% effaced. She couldn't figure out how I wasn't progressing any faster, especially since she could feel that the baby had dropped significantly. She stated that she couldn't medically intervene with an induction until 39 weeks and asked if I wanted her to "stretch things around a bit" with my cervix to see if it would help. I said, sure, go for it! I knew 37 weeks was still considered early, but after 5 weeks of not knowing when labor could happen I was ready! I left with almost spotting or pain, but started feeling pretty crampy that night.
Tuesday (11/4) I woke up still feeling the cramps, but nothing major or painful. I went shopping with my dad, then my sister, and went to an Aunt's house to pay my respects to my aunt that had passed. There were so many babies there, I told their moms to keep them close to me to keep my hormones going! By this time the cramps were becoming fairly regular, and I had a feeling my OB's sweep had worked. I texted my husband to grab the bags from home before picking me up from my parents' house just in case.
DH showed up at 3 PM and we decided to go to L&D. I still wasn't in any pain, just discomfort. I was checked and excited to hear that I had progressed to 5cm and 90% effaced! I was getting admitted! Then, all of a sudden, BOOM came the contraction pains. Holy COW. In 3 hours, I went from 5cm to 8cm and completely thinned out. I was still in the triage unit, and they had to hurry to get me to a birthing room. I quickly received my epidural (the 15th that day!)and was told I had stalled out at 9cm at about 10:45pm.
The Dr. on call finally decided to break my waters to get me the rest of the way there. I immediately felt the need to push. The hospital was so busy, though, that they were trying to keep me from pushing because there was only 1 nurse available to be in my room!
It took about 10 minutes for a couple of other nurses to come and by that time my epidural had nearly worn off. I got another dose, though the anesthesiologist was initially against it since I was supposed to feel the pressure. I said, I feel the pressure still but I also feel the friggin' pain!! I started pushing just as he administered the next dose.
The resident helping me push noted that my baby was having a hard time passing under my pelvic bone and that I needed to push harder. I pushed for nearly an hour before she finally passed under. By that time the Dr. on call had finally found her way into my room. It is never fun to hear "this patient is losing a lot of blood, we need to get this baby out soon because this isn't looking good". They brought out dropcloths and a LOT of rags to try to keep my bleeding at bay. As she started to crown, my epidural was wearing off AGAIN. The anesthesiologist couldn't believe that the meds were wearing off as fast as they were, but I could feel the burning and stretching that her head was causing. I received my 3rd dose of medicine just as the shoulders were passing through. FINALLY, after an hour and 45 minutes of pushing, my little girl found her way out into the world! Somehow, even with the amount of blood I lost, I only suffered a 2nd degree tear and required one stitch. Because I could feel pain, they also had to give me a shot of numbing medication as they sewed me up. I didn't care, though, because I was holding my baby girl and all was right with the world.
After delivering Kella, I was informed that she was facing the wrong way for most of the delivery, and instead of looking down, her head was craned upwards. That was why she was unable to pass easily under my pelvis. She received a really nasty looking bruise on the front top portion of her head that still hasn't gone away. My OB was not happy about that one, and said that they allowed me to stay dilated without interfering for way too long. My blood loss wasn't enough to keep me over the amount of time we needed, and so we were released the next day!
Many people have commented that I went through a pretty harrowing experience, but honestly I feel that it went really well! I've been up and about with little pain, and feel blessed that I'm able to rest at home.