Thanks ladies! Was thinking the last one looked a smidgen darker. I usually do a gradual darkening, but last cycle I went from fairly light to dark positive in the span of one day, so it's possible that will happen again.
We DTD Saturday and were going to yesterday but I had so much to do when I got home both for my grad school and for work (lesson plans and stuff) that I was working up until almost bed time and by then I just wanted to crawl in bed and sleep and so did DH. Neither of us has slept well since last week, and we're both exhausted.

Thinking I'm going to try to BD tonight. My preseed should be here today, and I wanna try it out anyway.

Plus I won't be working as late today (I hope).
I'm technically supposed to be NPNT from now through January, because if I get pregnant now I will have a due date that makes me miss the first month of school (not good for a teacher) but I am in a "I don't care anymore" mood because I Just want my baby!

So I'm still doing the OPKs and tracking, because I like to POAS

but I'm probably not going to go crazy if neither of us is feeling up to BDing. At least, that's what I say now.
I did stop my Vitex for now, I figured I wanted to see if my body would have regulated itself since the bc and now is the best time to figure it out since we are sort of taking a break, and I'm thinking that is what is making O so late. My O on vitex is around CD16, last month was CD21 (month after a CP, so that was expected). Hoping it will be in the next few days. Before Vitex it was around CD28!
junemomma how does one tell that their ovaries are swollen? I've never heard that one before.