Do you mind if i tag along too? I have been waiting for DH to get on board with trying for baby number 3, but he's been dragging his heels for a looooong time. Like 2 years since i wanted to start trying.
To be honest i still don't know where we're at. Our last discussion ended with us both saying that we want one thing (me a baby, him no more babies), but both of us know that if the other of us got our way life wouldn't end and we would be okay with it. We use withdrawal for our contraceptive method, but for probably the last 4 out of 6 months DH has not pulled out over O time at least once each month.
I don't want to start saying we're NTNP for definite, because we've not said that we are, but i'm thinking that since DH knows how i feel and he's not been that amazing at pulling out, then maybe he's at least not as bothered about preventing, even if he's not completely come around to the idea.
Now of course i am worried that we won't end up being able to conceive! If we have hit O 4 times and not got pregnant... BUT that was only one DTD each O time each month. When we are
actually TTC we do it TONS.
We have two kiddos already aged 5 and 3 and two that passed away as babies. I've had 4 c-sections, but they said i would be good for another after my last one. I breastfed both my kids til 12 months and 16 months. I work part time from home and i'm into photography and vampire fiction.
Oh, and I'm around 10dpo and testing negative on peesticks much to my dismay.