*October Bumpkins*2014* 43 Babies Born!

I'm leaving... Had a blighted ovum (first diagnosed at 7+1 weeks), didn't see the baby though the gestational sack was already 22mm. And no heartbeat, no yolk sac. Checked in 3 different clinics. All doctors said that I had to have a D&C. The operation went well, I was 8 weeks at that point. So sad. That was my first pregnancy, I was so happy... Now I'm devastated. Back to planning in 5 or more cycles...

taquito0523, sorry for your loss. Let's hope that our babies are in heaven now.

:cry: I am so sorry. I just went through this two weeks ago. It's so heartbreaking. I also had a blighted ovum but we did see a sac and cells. I was 9 weeks 5 days when I found out and 10 weeks 5 days when I miscarried naturally.
It's absolutely devastating and I wish no one had to go through it. Praying for you both. Our October angel babies are I'm heaven together now. :angel: here to chat if u want. Finding the TTC after loss threads very helpful.
 
Thanks everyone.
Just back from scan and baby is amazingly all ok. I have a placental heamatoma sp? They is a pocket of blood at the edge of the placenta, and its slightly come away from the uterine wall. That's what caused the bleed.
I am so relieved baby is ok-it's a miracle as I lost so much blood.
I've been told to relax the next few days.
Off to bed now as I havent slept for ages. Hope this post makes sense

Xx

Oh my gosh I was terrified reading this. Thanking god everything is ok with baby. Hope you get some rest and take it easy for awhile. Sending you lots of hugs! :hugs: your baby must stay healthy and growing. Mine did not make it but yours has to.
 
so I had my 12 week scan this morning... baby was measuring at 12+4 with a hb of 163
 
I ordered my doppler last night as the midwife was able to find the heart beat at my last appointment. Hopefully this will help with not worrying so much in between appointments.

Yay for all the great scans and Welcome to the new ladies!
 
Yay zebadi!

Welcome andrealove!

So for the last week or so I have not really been able to find baby, I was freaking out! Once I caught the heartbeat sortof, so soft and faint I wasn't 100% sure it was baby because it wouldn't register on the doppler. Yesterday was more of the same, couldn't find it all day. So last night I drank water until I was near to bursting and finally found it, with no question!! It was about an inch and a half higher and to the right instead of the left! Thank God! I guess the uterus has left my pelvis! Lol. I am so relieved I have felt like I was floating, despite the fact that I am sick :( :)

Hope everyone else is doing well!
 
Wow. So much to catch up on!
Welcome new ladies and thanks again for everyone's kind words of support. I'm resting up as much as the kids will allow! Bleeding seems to have stopped for now. But I'm obsessively checking!
Will add new ladies now :-) lovely to have more bumpkins x
 
Kel21-glad you found the baby on the Doppler-they can be so good at hiding!

CntryGirl-you'll have fun when you get your Doppler, it can get addictive to listen to them :-)

Zebadi-yay for having your 12 week scan! Sounds all good with a great hr too :-)

Jm-hope your doing well-you on your vacation yet? I forget when you were going!

La Mere-glad you feel reasurance after hearing the HB-love my Doppler these days.

SisterRose-you had more idea than the first doctor I saw! Sch is scary, but I know what you mean about being prepared to bleed-horrible though. Let's hope we don't have to go through it. It was a frightening experience..I'm sleeping with my legs crossed lol

Starbrites-hope your sickness gets better :flower:

Jcliff-awesome news you had a good scan :-)

Laelani-hope your anxiety eases. Try to relax lovely.
 
I had an appointment with my OB yesterday for an unrelated pregnancy issue, but since I am prenatal I still get a US with every visit, so I got to see baby yesterday! I didn't get any pictures which is fine, I'm glad to just have the reassurance that everything is okay in there, especially since the husband and I are telling our family next weekend! I'm super excited for that!

I've been having more trouble staying asleep lately, but I'm not sure of that's baby's fault or extra loud snoring husbands fault!
 
Thank you, Yo_Yo :) I am so glad to hear that the bleeding is seeming to be coming to a stop! It's so scary at the sight of even the tiniest amount of blood, red or brown! I hope it stops completely and you can have some more peace of mind.

Congrats to all the ladies with great scans and those who got to see baby!! Hope everyone is doing well!!

Oh random side note, lol. It was a while back when we were talking about journals. The link to mine i in my signature if anyone wants to take a look. :P
 
Eeeeeeeeek scan in the morning :-) and as it's private my girls can come too! My eldest keeps saying one more sleep till we see the baby. Love her!!
 
Good luck with scan ljo1984! Will be great for your girls to see the baby!

La Mere-will check out your journal :-) its a lovey idea to write one, and one day you can look back at it and remember things you would forget!

Mushymilkfor2-how nice you got to see baby on scan-always out your mind at ease
 
I'm due October 19th! Would love to join this group! Had my 2nd ultrasound with babies heartbeat of 154! :flower::thumbup:
 
Can children not go to any NHS scan?

They didn't mind my 2 year old coming, but it really does vary area to area. The previous hospital with dd2 had posters everywhere saying no children will be allowed in.
 
Thanks I will have to ask my MW or ask my DH to FB message his old neighbour who is now a MW working in my area.
 
Mushymilk im having trouble sleeping too! Hubbys snoring has been irritating me a lot more than usual lately and I cant get to sleep. When I finally get to sleep after midnight the twins stir heaps which wakes me up. Hubby has been nice and taking both babies at 5 - 5:30 am and leaving me to sleep till 7 ish so I do get a couple of hours uninterrupted at least.
It's enough to get me through the day :p
 

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