October bumpkins 2019

[Suggerhoney]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

Words can not express how so sorry I am. My whole heart goes out to you I wish I had comforting words to say

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

I'm so very sorry, sending you many hugs to you

 

[Sushai]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

I’m so sorry

 

[Suggerhoney]

I use the AngelSounds pocket Doppler - it’s hard to record baby’s heartbeat but if you just use it to find baby it’s great! I got mine used for $20 but I think new they’re only $35ish dollars. I’ll see if I can find a link for you.

Angelsounds Fetal Doppler

I don’t know anything about that site but there’s a picture of the Doppler on there so you know which one it is. AngelSounds has a few types of Doppler’s but this one
Thank you hon very helpful

Thank you hon

 

[Suggerhoney]

I meant 10w4d!

Got ya. That's great

 

[LadyStardust4]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

I am so sorry to hear this. Take all the time you need to grieve and recover. This is a personal journey and you need to look after yourself. When you are ready to talk about it, I recommend heading to 'TTC after a loss' as I found lots of strong ladies in there to help me through when I went through a similar thing. Lots of love x

 

[Jessie7003]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

I'm so sorry!

 

[playgirl666]

Awww 3 of us with our dating scan the same day! Wish mine was a morning scan though! Good luck though I'm sure all will be fine! Xx

thank u im 9 weeks today and just heared babys heartbeat for the 1st time on my doppler, i have been trying for the past week, feel abit better now x

 

[playgirl666]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

im so sorry to hear this x

 

[WishMeABaby]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

So sorry for your lost, hun. Take your time to heal and know that we are all here for you. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

 

[Shorty88]

Just saying goodbye. Missed miscarriage confirmed today. Have had two spots of blood, literally the tiniest amount. Panicked and booked a private scan. Should be 11 weeks. Measuring only 8 and no HB. Need to contact midwife in the morning and go into hospital. There are no words to describe the pain. It is nearly 2am and I am just lying awake sobbing.

Wishing you all the best of luck and healthy lovely babies.

I am so sorry @Baby_brain I had a missed miscarraige in Aug and know to well how painful it is. Please be kind to your self and take time to grief and heal x

 

[Sander]

So sorry Baby Brain Sending big hugs your way

 

[Suggerhoney]

Had my scan ladies but don't really want to say to much about it because I feel so bad for Babybrain.
My due date has changed to the 15th October. Will get my official date at the next scan. HB 171BPM that's all I'm going to say for now.

 

[Nolimitxox]

Had my scan ladies but don't really want to say to much about it because I feel so bad for Babybrain.
My due date has changed to the 15th October. Will get my official date at the next scan. HB 171BPM that's all I'm going to say for now.

Sounds like a great scan!

 

[Baby_brain]

Had my scan ladies but don't really want to say to much about it because I feel so bad for Babybrain.
My due date has changed to the 15th October. Will get my official date at the next scan. HB 171BPM that's all I'm going to say for now.

This comment just made me cry. You are so thoughtful. Please all be proud and happy about your wonderful healthy babies. I will never be upset to hear about healthy pregnancies. I would never wish this sadness on anyone.

I have had the worst day ever. EPU need to scan me to confirm MMC before giving me any help or options as my scan was private. But they won’t give me an appointment until Monday. I spent all day today in the ER and EPU and had bloods, urine test and an internal. Absolutely no bleeding now. Cervix is closed.

Because the private scan was abdominal and they couldn't get a very clear picture (due to section scar tissue and tilted uterus) the EPU kept saying not to worry until I have had an internal scan with them. I think trying to give me this hope and then making me wait 5 days for a scan is the most cruel sick joke.

I have no hope. I know that there was not a hint of a HB.

I have cried so much my head and eyes hurt. I have been physically sick from the shock and thought of the waiting. My whole family has spent all day trying to find someone anywhere that will scan me (needs to be NHS for them to accept it as proof and offer me medical management or D and C).

I have had to call work and say I don’t know how long I will be off for. I feel in limbo. Have to keep going for my LG but just want to curl up and give in.

 

[Sander]

5 days?? Oh I’m so sorry that is unbelievable. Why could they not do a scan today?

 

[Baby_brain]

5 days?? Oh I’m so sorry that is unbelievable. Why could they not do a scan today?

Because the early pregnancy unit doesn’t have a sonographer today. I know, it is just insane.

 

[Suggerhoney]

Oh baby brain bless you sweetheart I just want to give u a huge hug. I can not believe they are making you wait, why are they never very sensitive to these things. They shud get you in strait away and not force you to wait that's horrible.
Sorry my comment made you cry sweety I just didn't feel it was right to talk about my scan when ure going through this I just cudnt. Please know that u are in my thoughts and my prayers.

 

[Nolimitxox]

Monday is too far away. I agree with you in the fact that it is a cruel and sick joke to make anyone wait. I carried my son for an additional two weeks hoping for a natural mc until I couldn't bare it and went in for the medical procedure. keep calling you just never know when they will have an opening. I'm so sorry. Can you opt to go to the ER and say you're spotting? Usually that warrants a scan.... Either way this is just aweful to hear. I truly feel for you.

 

[Baby_brain]

Monday is too far away. I agree with you in the fact that it is a cruel and sick joke to make anyone wait. I carried my son for an additional two weeks hoping for a natural mc until I couldn't bare it and went in for the medical procedure. keep calling you just never know when they will have an opening. I'm so sorry. Can you opt to go to the ER and say you're spotting? Usually that warrants a scan.... Either way this is just aweful to hear. I truly feel for you.

This is what I did. Went to ER and explained the situation and that I am in a lot of pain (true) they sent me to EPU and EPU just said come back for your Monday appointment.