Jessie7003
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Oh they'll not be anywhere near the hospital believe me! That is one thing I've already made clear and the sister that started the whole thing text me trying to explain herself but it was such a half hearted apology that I just ignored it. She couldn't even say sorry she basically said 'I got angry because your dates don't add up to me and that's why I started on you which I get wasn't fair.' I was just reading it like so where's the important apology then?! The good thing is I have the best friend group and my side of the family so no matter what baby is gonna be so loved!I agree with @Sander.. if that was me.. I wouldn't allow them into the hospital to visit the baby and make it clear to them that it is your baby and if they are not ok with you then they don't get to see the baby. I would also like an apology when it is proven to be your oh. You are at your most vulnerable right after giving birth and you don't need that negative energry in the room. Believe me I had my father in laws partner (who he had an affair with and ripped the family apart) try to call me and wanted to come visit.. I let her have it stood my ground she knows how much I hate her.. she was horrible to my DH when he was 14 and I went into mama bear mode.. best thing I ever did.. I even think FIL was proud lol