Ugh, so much to read. This group types way too fast. lol
In terms of names, we haven't discussed anything yet. I've referred to the baby as baby brother when talking to my son several times, but SO has never said anything like that yet. I guess he's waiting til we get the gender confirmed with a scan. My first choice for a girl has always been Emma Lynn Morgen, but SO doesn't like Emma and it appears we won't be needing a girl's name this time anyway.
As far as I was concerned, our runners up boy names from last time were Matthew, Auston, and Liam. Liam was SO's choice and the other 2 were mine. I believe SO said he woulda been ok with Matthew, so hopefully that's still the case as it's the one I'd prefer. The first middle name will be Werner (after my late father) and then maybe let SO pick the second. I'd suggest Christopher, as it's his middle name, but we'll see.