Hi Everyone, I have been stalking this thread for a few days. I am 27 (almost 28) and my husband is 28 (almost 29) we have been married for just over 3 years. I was on BC for about 6/7 years and we decided to start trying so I came off in December of 2013. We started trying right away without realizing how irregular my cycles were going to be and we just haven't been able to hit the right time until recently. I wasn't temping or using OPK's or anything until recently when I realized that getting pregnant is NOT that "easy"!!!
My cycles were running every 40-50 days but then this summer I had an 88 day long cycle. Now it seems like they are starting to regulate again (I hope), last period was 40+days. (still not normal but MUCH better than 88!!). I used OPK's last month with NO luck even though we tried right when the OPK said to. I got over that and told myself I wasn't going to obsess about it and I wasn't even going to use the OPK's anymore (too much pressure). But I folded and this month I used them again and tried about 1 week prior (not knowing my O was coming a week later) and then we also tried the day it said I had a high (not peak unfortunately) day.
Unfortunately since I'm so irregular I don't know when I should really be testing? I never got a peak fertility this month only a few days of high. I don't know if I really trust these OPK's anymore?!? I don't know much about temping though! Maybe I should just stop focusing on it and it will happen (MUCH easier said that done but I wish I could)!!
Last month they found on a CT scan for my abdomen that I had 2 cysts in each ovary. I followed up with an U/S and my OB said they were probably found "by accident" and that everyone at some point in their cycle has a cyst. She said she was not worried at all and it was SO small and completely normal. She told me to keep trying to get pregnant and not worry about them since they already looked so small and had shrunk already from the CT scan size.
So sorry for the LONGGGG intro! Thank you for reading! I have been having some cramping and mild low back pain for the past few days. Last Tuesday was the last day we tried so I don't know what that puts me at for testing day? I unfortunately broke down and tested today due to being excited about the cramping thinking maybe it was implantation but it was a BFN
This seems like a great group though, I'd love to join for support!