OH doesn't want to dtd anymore :(

[lovemybubba]

I've been "trying it on" most nights lately, and he's been shutting me down. earlier I had enough and burst out with "you just don't fancy me anymore" *que tears* lol
He said he does fancy me but knowing the baby is bigger now is putting him off.
I know some men do feel that way, and I sort of believe him, but I also don't. I don't feel attractive and am worried if he'll feel the same once baby is here. What with things being different downstairs for a while after birth.

In the beginning he was flat out trying it on with me all the time, and it was me who didn't feel like it.
I can't get him to want me and it's frustrating.

 

[minties]

My OH and I both feel like this during sex, once I am pregnant that's it, neither of us can get in the mood knowing that there is a baby there. It's nothing to do with you or how you look (you are stunning anyway, from your avatar!), it's just a grossed-out-by-baby thing.

 

[Kitteh_Kat]

Maybe try some sexy little lingerie pieces?

I'm sure he doesn't find you unattractive, and things will return to normal after birth. Maybe he's just worried about hurting the baby and doesn't want to admit it?

 

[lovemybubba]

My OH and I both feel like this during sex, once I am pregnant that's it, neither of us can get in the mood knowing that there is a baby there. It's nothing to do with you or how you look (you are stunning anyway, from your avatar!), it's just a grossed-out-by-baby thing.

Thank you. It's really nice to hear that point from a lady's point of view. I do know it's just the fact there's a baby in my belly, I think my insecurities are just coming out.

 

[lovemybubba]

Maybe try some sexy little lingerie pieces?

I'm sure he doesn't find you unattractive, and things will return to normal after birth. Maybe he's just worried about hurting the baby and doesn't want to admit it?

I was thinking of doing this, but then I'm worried I'll try and he'll still turn me down, it'll be really embarrassing.

 

[AndreZZ]

My OH and I both feel like this during sex, once I am pregnant that's it, neither of us can get in the mood knowing that there is a baby there. It's nothing to do with you or how you look (you are stunning anyway, from your avatar!), it's just a grossed-out-by-baby thing.

I think this is really normal. This is my 4th pregnancy and every time I've been pregnant thr second my husband finds out he is no longer interested in sex. It's really an uncomfortable thing for him as he knows there's a baby in there and it's just not his cup of tea.

 

[Misscalais]

Wish my DH would.
Its so uncomfortable and i just do it for him, baby in there or not doesn't worry him lol
Im sure your DH still finds you attractive it might just be a put off for him and that's ok. You didn't want it in the beginning for your reasons and now he has his.

 

[laila 44]

We are the same. No sex here. I'm not really into pregnant sex either to be honest and neither is my DH. At first I thought it was me my first pregnancy, I took it really bad but now I've been put off sex myself. We actually tried when I was around 16 weeks and I have to say I really didn't enjoy it! Neither did my DH. Everything was so tight and uncomfortable. Now baby is bigger and I just feel gross. I'd rather wait until baby is born and then I can go back to enjoying it.

 

[Starlight32]

I'm not interested in sex while pregnant. It's nothing against my husband (he understands anyway); I just don't want to do it while pregnant even though I love him lots.

 

[wannabemomy37]

I can't get myself into sex since being pregnant. So much has changed with my body and I physically have issues (can't get/stay lubricated for one thing...) it's just so uncomfortable and does weird me out knowing my son is in there.
OH on the other hand is crazy about me and begs for it. I've given in maybe 4 times since becoming pregnant but we couldn't always continue because it either hurt, made me get a burning sensation, or I just plain wasn't feeling it which ruined it for him. Not to mention the last time we tried I had pink spotting (very little, only upon wiping) but it really freaked me out so I have even more reason not to have sex.
9 months isn't forever