I have a 20 week scan at the end of the month and I'm shocked that my husband doesn't want to know the gender. He said I could find out, just not to tell him. The only reason I want to know is, so I can go clothes shopping. I think it will be fairly obvious once I start buying either pink or blue things. I guess my options are not to find out either, or I do find out, but still stick to buying green, whites, and yellows.