LouOscar01
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My OH has got it into his head that I am only with him because I want a baby.
He seems to think that because I want a baby, he isn't enough. He doesn't understand that having him and having a baby are two completely different things and of course my desire for a baby cannot be sorted by anything other than having a baby!!!!!!!!!!!
He thinks that as soon as I have a baby I won't love him any more and that I won't ever want to spend anytime with him.
It's making him feel that he isn't ready for a baby because he doesn't want to lose me. Thing is I just cannot wait much longer. I spend all my free time being down because there doesn't seem to be a light at the end of the tunnel. My baby date is non existent now.
I don't know how to prove that I can love him AND a baby. HELP!!!!!!!
He seems to think that because I want a baby, he isn't enough. He doesn't understand that having him and having a baby are two completely different things and of course my desire for a baby cannot be sorted by anything other than having a baby!!!!!!!!!!!
He thinks that as soon as I have a baby I won't love him any more and that I won't ever want to spend anytime with him.
It's making him feel that he isn't ready for a baby because he doesn't want to lose me. Thing is I just cannot wait much longer. I spend all my free time being down because there doesn't seem to be a light at the end of the tunnel. My baby date is non existent now.
I don't know how to prove that I can love him AND a baby. HELP!!!!!!!