I am getting worried at the levels of stress I am being put under right now. OH seems to have gone on meltdown, just spent the weekend drunk, his family are on the verge of throwing him out - he can't explain why he is doing this. I have told him this is going to split us up. He said he is drinking more because he has lost his job (got made redundant last month), I told him to man up and do what other people do, get out there and make the effort. So I have had a terrible weekend, I get home yesterday morning and get a text from him saying his dad has thrown him out, then later in the day I find out he hasn't - sick of it all. I have told him it is making me ill and if he doesn't sort himself with a job by the end of this month and stops wasting his money on booze, we are over. He then came up with a stupid idea of buying an off road motorbike as a 'hobby' to keep him occupied and stop drinking, oh yes buying something that costs more than drink when we have a baby and a house to pay for, great idea! So I went round this morning, I ended up crying and he said he is sorry and knows he will end up losing me, why can't that be the kick up the bum?? He said he loves me and baby but if he did he wouldn't be drinking! I know years and years ago he had a problem when his ex cheated and they had a bad split, but I honestly thought he was over all that and was ok again. If he turns to drink at the slightest hurdle, how will he cope with a baby? Seriously? I am worried the stress he is causing me will hurt baby. I am getting anxious symptoms like palpitations and headaches. I get more anxious when we aren't together wondering what he is up to. Just so sick of it. What am I going to do??