Ohemgee!

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Wow that must of been a big shock! but congrats on team pink and like everyone has said try returning the clothes im sure they will be happy to exchange xxx

 

[KiwiMOM]

wow what a surprise!

at least they realised their mistake so you knew before the baby was born!

 

[Rhio92]

Why are you so upset with the news :S ..?

Do you really need to ask this?!?! if so your a bigger idiot then i've thought for all this time!!

Any need for that?





Like everyone elsesaid, return thestuff, and swap for girly things? Or stay on just in case? x

 

[youngmummy94]

^ Its because she posts things like this all the time, questioning the OP when its clearly obvious.

 

[MummyTinks]

You must be soooo shocked!! Really hope youre able to swap anything you have got for pink stuff!

Guess thats why they always tell you its like 99.9% when they scan, xx

 

[Elizax]

^ Its because she posts things like this all the time, questioning the OP when its clearly obvious.

It's how arguments start, and we see enough of them here that's all

 

[youngmummy94]

^ Its because she posts things like this all the time, questioning the OP when its clearly obvious.

It's how arguments start, and we see enough of them here that's all

Yeah I know that, I've been here for ages as well
But when the OP is trying to get some nice things and someone goes ''Why would you even be upset? :S" it can come across as a bit, uh insulting?

 

[Nade..Tadpole]

Now now girlies

Like people have said.. Try returning things? Or swapping things for pink or neutural?
Really hope youre okay.. Bet it's a lot to get your head around
xxx

 

[Elizax]

Yeah I know that, I've been here for ages as well
But when the OP is trying to get some nice things and someone goes ''Why would you even be upset? :S" it can come across as a bit, uh insulting?

Yes it does come across as insensitive, but it still doesn't give someone the right to call another user an 'idiot'.
I'm sorry but I think it was out of order. A simple explanation of why it'd be upsetting is all it needed

 

[kittycat18]

Oh my word...
And this is why you shouldn't find out the gender! I was a bump until my reflexologist told me around 34 weeks that I was having a bump but I just bought everything neutral... I ended up having a little girl!!

 

[RaisingRilan]

Thanks for all the nice replies.

We have managed to get a lot of things exchanged or refunded etc. We are sticking with gender neutral things for the most part now. Do not want to go through any of this again.

We have decided to still name the baby Rilan as that is what we know her as.

 

[NewMommy17]

awww im sorry .

This is frustrating it happened to a friend of mines also .

 

[x__amour]

Glad you got to exchange most of the things! How are you taking the change?

 

[xxchloexx]

Oh wow , im sorry for what happened i also wonder how in this modern age they can still get it wrong! Your doing the right thing sticking to gender neutural things now! You might end up with a little boy in the end still ha. But congrats on little girl news it will be so exciting im hoping for a girl myself , doing her hair and dressing her in pretty clothes even ballet lessons! And of course she will be a daddys little girl! Hope it all goes well for you and i loveee your name choice greatt for boy or girl! Glad you didnt have to change it to suit your little princess ha