OH's secret twitter account!!!

[wavescrash]

Oh and the newer iPhone's do come "pre-loaded" with FB and Twitter but you have to connect your account to it first and then it'll put the app icon on your screen. So he had to go in and set it up/create the account and actively use it.

 

[loverguts]

Hmmm. I think whether or not it comes pre-loaded with twitter is kind of besides the point. Her OH has a secret twitter account either way!

I don't think i could hold it it for the rest of a holiday, if im angry then i just have to get something out, but i understand why it would be better to.
I would be really upset at something like this. More due to the comments. If it was just a boring account then its not so bad but to be writing things like that is wrong!

 

[ifoundmysoul]

he doesnt even have to accept anything on twitter for you to see, you just have to "follow" him.
So he wouldnt know even if you just used it to monitor him. Remeber to follow some other people first or he might wonder why you are only following him! x

if she used her own name he would know as he would get an email to say so an so is following you

 

[Sunshine12]

Twitter comes pre-loaded to the android phones. The only kind of phone I will use is android and my BIL works at a cell phone store.

I have an android and its not preloaded. I think it depends on your network and where you bought it etc.

OP, I personally dont think its a big deal whatsoever if he has a twitter account and he hasnt told you unless you have spoken about it already and he has specifically said he doesnt. (I have one and dont think my OH knows cause its of no relevance.) If it has been discussed in the past I would come straight out and ask him why he has a twitter account and actively using it and hasnt told you. I wouldnt follow him on it or anything like that as thats totally underhanded. Its surely not that big a deal anyway is it?

Re. the facebook thing, if you want a facebook account you should open one. If my OH told me I wasnt "allowed" one Id hit the roof!!

x

 

[Trying4num2]

id confront, i wouldnt be able to fake it and have a nice time.
I must say, those comments dont sound good.
other option is to set up a fake one of your own, use a fake piccy, tweet him and see where you can get it to go....Im a suspicious person! lol x

I think this would be a great idea. But...if you did find something suspicious confronting him would be harder as he will probably get annoyed you've been sneaky-rightly so if he is being suspicious.

If it was me I would confront him, I can't keep anything bottled up. It may be he just lavishes the attention but it's worth him knowing telling someone else they're good looking/good picture would upset anyone's other half!

I hope it all sorts itself out! Big hugs! X

 

[SummerLily]

if my other half had the cheek to hide something like that from me and talk to other women like that - id be just as sneeky and delete it without him knowing about it !!

BRILLIANT.

Delete the app from his phone.. and/or account.

He can't mention anything cos he's not meant to have it

exactly !! and its not like he can even blame you for it !! what a sneeky sausage ! give him some of his own back hun! x

 

[pooch]

it's not preloaded like someone else said, and i would not be able to keep my anger inside! i would confront him about it then go set up one of your own.

 

[Blizzard]

I hope everything's okay! Xx

 

[sannod]

A friend of mine found her partner on a dating website so she set up a fake account and started contacting him. She then used the information later to prove his intent to step outside of the relationship when filing for custody and support later. He felt pretty sheepish when he realised he was caught and he actually changed his ways for a bit. unfortunately men like that never really change. I've been with one for too many years and no matter what they say they crave the attention.

Sorry for your struggle, I truly understand but just do the best you can for you and babes.

 

[no drama mama]

I've had one Android phone where it is preloaded and one where it's not. But yeah, besides the point. Him blowing it off by saying it's preloaded is a major embellishment and I would have knocked his ass out just for that alone.

 

[MrsQ]

Hi hun I agree with above my ex was v secretive and was on swingers sites etc and would convince me even when I had seem them with my own eyes that he wasn't on them!

I have no idea about twitter it confuses me. But if he's got one fine if ur "allowed" to have fb account too but to be commenting like that to other women us below the belt!

Good luck in whatever u do. X

 

[eulmh82]

get yourself a FB account and if he comments say well you're on Twitter - what's the difference. Personally though I would have it out with him right now as I'd sit there seething and wouldn;t have a good hol anyway

 

[Loz0912]

U know what pisses me off about this the most??

It will be my fault for looking on his hone!! The cheek of it! I wasn't snooping, and actually found most of the info when I googled his twitter name later on...not that I should have to JUSTIFY MYSELF

The same thing happened when I was PREG with DD! I found emails on his laptop from a girl at work.... And he kicked me out for lookin on his laptop!!!

 

[eulmh82]

But they shouldn;t have been on there!!! It happened with my ex and he said i shouldn;t have been looking at his phone - well there shouldn;t have been anything for me to look at!!!

 

[ilove3baby]

I agree.. I dont think I would take this so lightly but thats just me. I would be raising hell...wouldnt he do the same if it were the other way around?

 

[lisab1986]

U know what pisses me off about this the most??

It will be my fault for looking on his hone!! The cheek of it! I wasn't snooping, and actually found most of the info when I googled his twitter name later on...not that I should have to JUSTIFY MYSELF

The same thing happened when I was PREG with DD! I found emails on his laptop from a girl at work.... And he kicked me out for lookin on his laptop!!!

How dare he?

I would pack his bags and kick HIM out! Emails to tramps at work and now a secret twitter account...i know what he would be having for his evening meal!!!!...his testicles!

 

[wavescrash]

They always turn it around and make it your/our fault. My ex did the same thing. No, I shouldn't have snooped but he shouldn't have been hiding anything and what he did is worse. I don't know how to get around him blaming you but you need to decide what you want and what you'll put up with.

Obviously having children changes things so I can't just say "If he gets made and kicks you out, so be it... you deserve better." But you DO deserve better and someone who isn't hiding things like that especially if they're telling you that you're not allowed to have a FB account. Personally, I wouldn't put up with it and would hightail it outta there but only you know what you want to do.

Good luck :/

 

[luckybreak]

I would set up your own account and send him a friend request or just click on "follow" it will tell him u know and u know everything he has written! Send me his twitter name and I can tell u all he has said before he deletes lol when he tries talking to u just say not now I trying to think which photos I have that will make u glad to wake up to! And walk away! The lies and hiding is what is wrong here the comments just add salt to the wound. sorry!

 

[Gemini85]

i my experience, ive never felt the need to look without feeling like i needed to for some reason! x

 

[Loz0912]

I've got 2 days of hol left, then DD b'day on Friday, then on sat, I think I'll go stay at my mums (again.....!)

It's always me who has to leave as it's his house, DD thinks it's brill goin to grandmas, and I'm very strict about not arguing in front of her so at least she isn't too shaken by it all.

I'm 16 weeks pg, I have a 4 year old. I just can see how I would cope on my own?