OH's secret twitter account!!!

[chachacha]

Wow, this is a really odd situation. I'm guessing the reason he won't 'allow' you on social networks is because he's worried you'll be on there flirting like he has been! It's usually the most controlling, suspicious ones who turn out to be up to no good themselves.

If you do decide to leave, try not to worry right now about being on your own. Being happy and stress-free is the most important thing for you and your kids. You can figure out the practical stuff later.

 

[Noirin]

i found out my husband had facebook a week after we got married and went onto see him tellin big trampy girls how theyre the most gorgiz girls in he world, so ofcourse i told him i wanted a divorce and it was over lol but we sat down and worked it out, it hurts i know and its a big betrayal but yas need to sit down and have it out, best of lucky sweetheart xxx

 

[MummyMandi]

so sorry to hear that hun hope ur dealing with it ok

 

[fizzypop]

Erm... Why is it your fault for looking?! I hjave a twitter account that my DH didn't know about, but only because it is insignificant.. He can look on it whenever he wants, I have nothing to hide.

The best thing you can do is talk to him hun.. If he goes mad then clearly he is feeling guilt.. It might be that he doesn't see it as significant? Although flirty tweets are not appropriate.

Like someone else said, I have a twitter account that I never use.. You're welcome to use that! Xx

 

[Loz0912]

Wow, thank you all for your responses!

I'm still at a bit of a loss.... My head hurts so much! I just keep crying, I feel so hurt! I can't wait to be home, I think I'l stay with my mum this weekend, see how that goes!

Thank you to everyone whi has taken the time out to support me... Much appreciated x x

 

[Mommy2be20]

Wow, thank you all for your responses!

I'm still at a bit of a loss.... My head hurts so much! I just keep crying, I feel so hurt! I can't wait to be home, I think I'l stay with my mum this weekend, see how that goes!

Thank you to everyone whi has taken the time out to support me... Much appreciated x x

Sucks that your trip has been ruined either way I hope staying with your mum gives you a chance to clear your head and get your thoughts together! Thinking of you hun xx

 

[kirsteen]

Confront him as soon as you can! thats really out of order, my other half text a friend "hey sweet ...blahblahblah" the other day and even though I know there is nothing going on or anything I still wanted to scream at him lol .. though thats just me being crazy.

 

[petitpas]

If you keep crying and holding it in you are punishing yourself when you really don't deserve it. Get it out in the open with him right away. If it is just stupid banter on a Twitter account then that is something you can work through. It's not nice but it isn't as if he has a real life girlfriend on the side.

As for him not 'allowing you' to have a Facebook account I really don't understand how you can let him make such a decision for you