Cuz that post above was at like 4:30am and I was typing one handing while NAK'ing, I didn't get to go into how much I love flylady.
It seems like a bunch of crap in the beginning. I briefly visited the site upon a recommendation from a friend. Here I am, up to my eyeballs in dog hair, teenage clutter (nailpolish, iPods, CLOTHES, hair brushes and hair thingies) my husbands stuff, baby stuff... mountains of laundry, mountains of dishes (did I mention that a teenager can go through every single dish in the house in less than 24 hours!?!?!?).
I love to cook, I like to keep a clean house, the dogs sometimes make me nuts as they're like 3 more little toddlers. I'm nursing and taking care of baby...
I knit and quilt and sew, but I don't have much time left for those things that I like to do...
So I found flylady. She says "put your shoes on."
I'm like "shoes on? I've got all this stuff to do! How am I gonna get through all of it!?" XXXX friend said you were a lifesaver, and you tell me to put my shoes on?
Then she says "shine your sink".
Now this isn't as hard for me. I loathe waking up to dishes in the sink, dirty water in the sink or dishes drying on the counter. This one made sense to me as it is nice walking into a fresh kitchen in the morning to make coffee.
Flylady starts one thing at a time. Most of the time in 15 minute intervals. Decluttering is a big point to the system. Almost all of us has too much clutter and it makes cleaning confusing and overwhelming. But they don't make you do everything in one weekend... You'd burnout and then you wouldn't keep up with your stuff -
I want to mention here, that their stuff... the main flylady system they talk about is FREE. Now they sell calendars and cool cleaning products etc to make their money - but the 'how to get your life in order' information is FREE.
- anyway, clutter makes confusion.
She has you first make a control journal. Write down daily tasks for morning noon and night. Simple things to take CONTROL of your stuff. Everyone's is different and unique and stylized to your individual schedule and family life.
I don't ahve a control journal yet - I have to get one.
For the deeper stuff, Flylady works in weekly zones. Kitchen, bedroom, dining area, etc. Each day in the zone is ONE deeper cleaning task. As you work thorugh the system and hit the zones, after a few weeks you'll have a house you can ALWAYS welcome company to. You're happy to have people over. You aren't embarrassed about your environment - kids have structure, and hubby is happy he has a happy wife
It's really hard not to jump in this thing with both feet - but they caution you against this to avoid burnout. So I'm reigning myself in and doing only what they suggest. I'm a lot happeir to be honest - I'm not stressed, I'm making little changes that others in my home are taking into consideration...
I wished I had gotten into this schedule PRIOR to having a largish family and all that entails. It would be easier to add a few tasks here and there.
I subscribe to the daily emails and their nice for a little reminder to do this or that... I have the kid one sent to my DD and I made her a jr. control journal for herself.
BTW, they have a whole section on menu planning and grocery shopping etc.
Anyway, I guess I could go on and on and on. This really is a great thing to get involved with.
Hope that helps!
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