kfs1-It'll go away probably tomorrow evening. I can't remember exactly, and I didn't record anything on Ffoe. Just wear comfy pants. hee hee. Sorry you're feeling yucky, but at least I warned you, right? I looked like I was 3 months prego the last time I did my IUI.
Mischief-Yeah! I always look at past charts people have, and although yours always looks pretty good, this one is eerily like your last, so let's look for a small difference because this one will be a long term success!
Sis-Oh, sorry for your boobs hurting, but I will say a little prayer for your cousin, and I'll send some
her way as well.
I forgot to tell you guys! When I was at my family reunion, I was so happy that my sister was there. Everyone was focused/surprised at her being pregnant for the 4th time that they totally ignored me. Well, not totally, but I think I only heard a few people say something about "having fun practicing, gaining another cousin, or following in my sister's footsteps." It was such a relief! So for Mischief and kfs1-You can do this...just remain calm, or make some snarky comment about getting started as soon as the party is over or starting tomorrow.
Get your
ladies because it's vent time. I am not the one to go to baby showers/bridal showers/birthday parties for kids etc...I kind of hate them. HA!!HA!! It seems that they are always in the spring or summer and I'd rather be riding, so I just say I'm busy and can't make it. It's not a lie. Well, my husband's best friend wife (we'll call her Jodi) has a best friend (we'll call her Tara) who is pregnant. I found out at the 1 yo party for Jodi's kid a few months back. Now, for some reason, I really like Tara. She's cool, fun, and nice enough. I almost thought of inviting her to OUR wedding (hubs went to college with all of them), but I don't really know her that well, and $ was tight, so we did not. After the bday party, I asked Jodi if Tara was having a baby shower and if it wasn't weird, I would like to be invited. Maybe that's weird, but that's how I felt. Jodi said that she was hosting it at Tara's house and sure, she'd let me know when the date was.
That was the end of that. My coworker invited me to a party for her 1 yo, and the party is today. I told her that hubs and I would be there. She doesn't have a lot of family/friend support, so I am trying to be a good friend. Well, two weeks ago hubs asked if he could back out of the party because he's going golfing with Tara's husband, Jodi's husband and Tara's dad. I didn't think anything of it, and was like 'You already made a commitment on that day, so you need to tell them you can't go.' Then I remembered how I will back out of a party in a heartbeat, so I changed my mind the next day. Last night we were talking and I said 'Who is going golfing again, and why?' Hubs said he wasn't sure. Then, I had a freakout moment that I got invited to Tara's shower and didn't get a gift, and completely forgot about it, had another party scheduled to go to etc...If I get invited somewhere, I always write it down and do what I'm supposed to do, so I was really freaking out at this point. I figured that since I had to go to the baby store for my coworker's baby, I can pick something up for Tara, REGARDLESS of when the shower is or whatever is going on. If hubs is going to see Tara's husband, he can give him the gift. I immediately wrote to Jodi asking what gender the baby was. I also noticed our last text correspondence was me being a freak and inviting myself to a party.
Well, Jodi writes back saying that 'Tara wants it to be a surprise, and the shower is tomorrow at 2pm if you want to come.' Wait, what?! The party is tomorrow? Oh, no ma'am. You don't invite me the night before the party after you forgot to invite me to begin with, and expect me to just show up like some loser without any plans. I told her that I already have other plans for the day, but have fun. Hubs was like 'That is messed up.' I said 'I didn't want to say anything because Jodi is your friend.' How would you guys feel? I feel like my being nice about actually wanting to go to someone's shower has kind of backfired. I usually HATE getting invited, but this one I was looking forward to and didn't get invited. HA!!HA!! My emotions are all over the place. I'm kind of mad at Jodi for being such a flake, but then I have to remember that not everyone is as responsible/dependable as I am, but on the other hand, I still sent a gift, so that was my "nice thing to do." It's just weird. /end rant.
So...when I go to the 1 yo party today, I'm just going to eat a lot of pizza, and play games with the kids that are there. It's only 1.5 hours, and it's near my house. I'll make the best of it.