OPK positive 5 days in a row?

[carlywarly]

Awh hun I'm sorry about the tests! And sorry about the mini breakdown Yeah, hopefully it's due to the new batch! Also, did you use fmu with 14dpo test too? Same(ish) concentration? I did notice that your temp went down yesterday too...I really hope that's nothing...I'm sure not though - it isn't a significant drop. You do right testing every other day. Sending big and hopeful wishes!! Stay right where you are lil peanut! xx

 

[BabeAwait]

Yes carly I always use fmu for hpt
s. My temp went below my coverline today fx it's
a fluke

 

[BabeAwait]

I am very sad to report that I have suffered from a chemical pregnancy today. The past four days have been the happiest and scariest time of my life. I will be absent from bnb for an unforseen amount of time. When the time is right I will be back to update and continue with my ttc journey. I wish you both beautiful progress in the time I am gone. You both are amazing women I consider friends

 

[carlywarly]

Awwww nooo Michelle! I am so sorry :'( I was scared this was going to happen - with temp slowly going down. You take all the time you need hun! I have had 4 chemicals and a miscarriage in all the time ttc. I am here if you ever need to talk. Just know nothing you did/didn't do affected this tragedy...I struggled for a long time to come to terms with that.

I will add, and you may not even care to consider (sorry if I'm poking my nose in) but you are more fertile after a chemical. I got pregnant twice after 2 of the chemicals. Sending lots of healing and so sorry xx

 

[sarahuk]

Ah bless ya thanks hun - you really are a pick-me-up aren't ya Sarah!! No Isaac's donor retired a couple of months after I gave birth. It was a big blow because he had promised us siblings I still send him updates from Isaac though - We were devastated at first but we have dealt with it. It's a pain in the butt....especially when it only took 2 cycles with him before. So far we've had 9 cycles of blah. lol

And thanks I love his name too hehe. I think you picked lovely names too! I actually would really have liked having the name Lucas if my best friend didnt have a little one called Luke xx

We started with Luke but changed to Lukas as my friend was called Luke and it was confusing Matt every time I said Luke was on one...he kept thinking our baby had relationship problems hahah.

What a shame about the donor!! There no way you cant tease him out? Did he ask to have updates before you had him? xx

 

[sarahuk]

Iam so so so so sorry to read this Sometimes takin time away is the way to heal but remember we are here for you when you feel you are ready to come back.

I know it feels like you will never find a way through it but eventually you find the strength to TTC again.

Oh Carly, just to throw a spanner in the works with temps... went below coverline with my first pregnancy!! You just cant trust temps post Ovulation if you ask me lol. XX

 

[carlywarly]

Sarah lol at bubs having relationship probs haha...can see why that'd get confusing though. Yes we agreed on updates...also if Isaac wants contact when he's older too - that was very important for us. Just hope he doesn't screw us there because I'll be livid! It's the least Isaac deserves. I have asked him if he'll reconsider numerous times - just last week even. Unfortunately he said he's made promises he can't go back on. There would be too much to lose he said. I appreciate him being honest with me, and accept he cannot.

I know what you are saying about temps...you can get a lot of duff ones and stray ones. I know lots of things can bugger it up. They haven't let me down yet, I always know when ov is coming and when it's happened (within a day or 2) and when af is on her wicked way. Know they can be buggers tho and throw an erratic temp out every now and again lol :/ xx

 

[wantingagirl]

Carly did it all hey figured out. How are you getting on?

I usually don't test after positive opk so I can't really say Hun xx

 

[carlywarly]

Awh hey hun, how are you doing?

The 5 days of +opk was just one of those things I think - nothing came of it eexcept delayed ovulation and af :/ xx

 

[wantingagirl]

Awh hey hun, how are you doing?

The 5 days of +opk was just one of those things I think - nothing came of it eexcept delayed ovulation and af :/ xx

Jeesh how annoying Hun! I got 2 peaks after my d&c but I don't think I ovulated got my af af like 3dpo. I'm ok more good days than bad but I miss my baby terribly. Now it seems all I see is pregnant woman and people keep having conversations about having another but obviously they don't know! One of my other losses anniversary is coming up end of this month. Great timing huh. Where are you in your cycle? Sorry I haven't been on the group lately will come back soon just haven't been able to get back into things too much yet xx

 

[carlywarly]

Awh hun I'm so sorry Rip to your angels...I must say your avatar is really lovely xx Sorry you didn't ov after the pos opks aswell! Hope it comes this cycle x

Awh it's so hard when people don't know, with mine it wasn't hidden as I'd shared our news when we found out we were expecting - so everyone knew when we lost...it's got to be harder in a lot of ways when people don't know You take all the time you need hun and I'm always here too xxx

 

[wantingagirl]

Thank you hunni I know you are. Pm me if you want to add me on fb if you have it. As sometimes I'm not on here sometimes I am.

I got a high day and a pretty strong opk but not positive yet. I'm ok but scared it will take a while scared it will happen again scared to be pregnant scared not to be!!! Lol.

Fx for both of us! I didn't even tell any of my family went through everything myself while my hubby watched the kids. But luckily when i passed baby will was at home xxx

 

[carlywarly]

Awh bless you so much going through all that - It is a good thing that he was there for the most traumatic part! I was 'fortunate' (not that any part was fortunate for either of us) in that when I mc at 9 weeks the foetus was still 6 weeks. It was a fair size smaller than a 9 week one so I didn't see as much. I actually blocked a lot out - did you? I never felt pain like it until labour with Isaac too...nobody warns you about stuff like that do they

Ah sorry I'm being all morbid now - totally NOT what you need! I couldn't try for 6 months after cos I didn't get af for that long! I am sure when you are ready to be pregnant again that everything will be fine and perfect though. You'll have a fab pregnancy and a healthy happy lil person If it's this cycle then I hppe all falls into place ovulation wise hun xx

 

[sarahuk]

Sarah lol at bubs having relationship probs haha...can see why that'd get confusing though. Yes we agreed on updates...also if Isaac wants contact when he's older too - that was very important for us. Just hope he doesn't screw us there because I'll be livid! It's the least Isaac deserves. I have asked him if he'll reconsider numerous times - just last week even. Unfortunately he said he's made promises he can't go back on. There would be too much to lose he said. I appreciate him being honest with me, and accept he cannot.

I know what you are saying about temps...you can get a lot of duff ones and stray ones. I know lots of things can bugger it up. They haven't let me down yet, I always know when ov is coming and when it's happened (within a day or 2) and when af is on her wicked way. Know they can be buggers tho and throw an erratic temp out every now and again lol :/ xx

Thats lovely that he can have contact if he wants it! Though I am sure he will feel he has all he needs from his mummies its such a wonderful and selfless thing that you and wifey have done with allowing him that contact if he wants it. Thats a shame about the donor though. Sounds like maybe he is in a relationship and that his partner doesnt like the idea about there being more? xx

 

[sarahuk]

Awh hey hun, how are you doing?

The 5 days of +opk was just one of those things I think - nothing came of it eexcept delayed ovulation and af :/ xx

Jeesh how annoying Hun! I got 2 peaks after my d&c but I don't think I ovulated got my af af like 3dpo. I'm ok more good days than bad but I miss my baby terribly. Now it seems all I see is pregnant woman and people keep having conversations about having another but obviously they don't know! One of my other losses anniversary is coming up end of this month. Great timing huh. Where are you in your cycle? Sorry I haven't been on the group lately will come back soon just haven't been able to get back into things too much yet xx

I had that too...it doesnt matter were you go or what you do there are babies and pregnancy in literally everything.

It will get better though...and soon youll be the one thats stroking that bump of her own! x

 

[carlywarly]

Ah that's a lovely thing to say, thanks Sarah hun xx

Sooo...I'm on day 3 of positive opks...only on the dip sticks though, no smile as yet. Think it's just a bad batch of tests and I'm gonna see how it goes with smiles now

 

[sarahuk]

ooo exciting!!! Anny chance of a deposit? x

 

[sarahuk]

Hows it going ladies? All good here. Stuck in one of those should i shouldnt i modes. Ive had the implant in since having my son in June and its not agreeing with me. We agreed to wait till August, take it out then perhaps let nature take its course. But im having it out now on Thursday....dodge fertile window or not....that is the question!!!!

 

[carlywarly]

Ooh next step!! Don't blame you if it's not agreeing with you though. And as for dodging the fertile period...I think you know what I'd say But you need to be ready/willing. So I'd follow your on this one

AFM: Think today is finally a neg opk. I got my first positive last week Weds with the same brand as last cycle. Cbd didn't start flashing til the sat though and I ran out in the sunday. New tests came on Tues this week and been getting positive with them. Tested this morning - know I shouldn't test in the morning and I think it MIGHT be negative, but I'm not sure. Temp still low so didn't ovulate yesterday :/ My body really does hate me because that was 9 days of + opk and if it's still positive this afternoon it'll make 10. Not counting last weeks opks as positive on my chart because I think the brand is just too sensitive for me lol

How are you Michelle? I hope somewhat better...and in a happier place? x

 

[sarahuk]

Hmm that would actually make sense if you are a really strong surger. Its going to pick up the rise and keep you getting positives for longer. Maybe its time to try a different brand? xx