OT - dd getting bullied

[zzypeg]

having worked in a secondary school, we did a few lessons in tutor time on cyber bullying, you must keep the messages and print them off. as everyone says take them to a trusted member of staff in the school and also I would suggest if the scholl doesn't help then use the police. Girls can be so nasty, I was bullied at school but am I so glad that when I got home I was away, the internet can be such a tool of evil offering kids in this situation no escape. good luck xxxx
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[v2007]

Delete everyone on your daughters friends list and then deactivate the page.

Loads of hugs.

V xxx

 

[Mummietobe]

Delete everyone on your daughters friends list and then deactivate the page.

Loads of hugs.

V xxx

I have done thats probably why she messaged me the girls got some front! x

 

[v2007]

Block as many as you can.

Girls are evil at times.

V xxxx

 

[sherple]

The cheeky little cow! I cant believe the front she has. Did the police get back to you yet? Does your dd have some close friends in her primary school she can confide in, maybe you can have a word with them and their parents at the school gate in the morning, just to let them know whats going on so she has some support at school in case the other kids say anything. Also telling her head and new teacher.
How much older is this other girl? Oooooo, im raging for you!

 

[stardust599]

What a disgusting girl!!! How old is she?

Don't know if I can help, I was bullied a bit at schoool and wouldn't say it was too long ago (I just turned 20).

I would do everything - police, school, report to FB etc. Also speak to parents but do it tactfully - don't go shouting accusations or anything - just have a little chat and say your daughter is pretty upset and having a tough time and you're worried about her.

Make sure you support your daughter too - try not to make too big a deal out of it at home - just get on with normal stuff and maybe let her have her friends over at your house a lot so she feels safer/secure but not cut off. Does she have any quite sensible/mature friends you can talk to aswell, I'm sure my Mum used to talk to my friends and ask them to look out for me and let her know if anything got worse etc. The bullying was mild and didn't last long for me though.

Hope everything okay xxx

 

[Fiore]

I got bullied pretty bad and my friends weren't always that loyal, especially in primary school. It made a huge difference to me though that my family life was normal and I was well loved, me and my mum would go shopping or I would help my dad out at his work or I would go out with my siblings. Home life was awesome, pleeeaaase make sure your little girl gets the same! (I doubt that she wouldn't to be honest )

Did the police get back to you?xx

 

[debsbaby]

I'm sorry if I am being repetitive (I haven't read the whole thread) but you can set her account to completely private and remove the ability for her to be searcheable. Now the only way she can add friends is if SHE sends a friend request to THEM, since no one will be able to search and find HEr. Set all her settings to the utmost private. Her wall, profile info, pics, EVERYTHING will only be visible to her friends (and make sure the settings are not to allow "friends of friends" to see them...ONLY friends. She can set photo albums to ONLY be viewed by certain people (like her father's side of the family)

Then delete, block and report the bully. Scour your daughter's friends list with her and delete every person that she is not well acquainted with. Tell her that she needs to get your approval before adding any friends.

My 12 year old has a facebook, and we had a couple of problems, but the privacy tools have really improved things.

 

[Newt4]

My little brother was bullied very badly all through school. He is mixed race and has really bad eczema and asthma so sometimes his leg were all scabby. He was being bullied by these jr high school kids (he was in elementary school) so I went out there and beat them up. Im not saying violence with violence is right but do you have a friend that has an high school aged girl that could stick up for her.