Hey! I would love to join the FB group! I tried the link but it didn't work.
Soliel - In my opinion, it isn't so much about how big the baby is but how big the HEAD is! LOL Abby was in the 95th percentile for her head and needless to say, I had a 3rd degree tear! (not as bad as it sounds, I'd take that any day over c-sec) but i really think it is all about the head. I have also heard a lot of people say how they estimated the babies to be either too big or too small and they were way off. As long as you and baby are healthy at the end, that is all that matters. Good luck to you! IT is an amazing experience when you finally get to hold them and see that it is actually real and wasn't just a dream!