overweight and ttc

[magicwhisper]

well good luck!!

 

[comet1234]

So had my scan and the woman doing it told me I look completely normal.. went doctors today and was told I have many cysts. on each ovary I have a large cyst one measuring 9 cm and one 7 cm. My doctor then told me he won't refer me or give me any medication to help me. As you could imagine I'm devastated x

 

[magicwhisper]

i am so sorry, it is stra ge that they arnt doing anything about it maybe get a second opinion? i don't know :/

big

 

[MrsLemon]

Why won't they do anything? That's terrible??????

Can you go to a different Drs?? X

 

[comet1234]

I have called another doctor's and asked if they could do anything for me, so I'm waiting to hear back today. If not we decided to go private and hope for the best. The cysts are very very large so might need surgery at one point. Taking plenty of natural drops and doing castor oil packs and self fertility massages so hopefully I can help myself .

How is everyone else? X

 

[magicwhisper]

hopefuly you get a good second opinion

i am ok, 11 weeks today and my scan is in 7 days

 

[MrsLemon]

I had my cycle day 21 blood tests yesterday but I'm not sure there going to have much to say seeming as they were only taken 3 dpo not the 7 it's supposed to be!!

So we will have to see

Hope everything goes well comet

And I hope the scan date comes round quickly and is all good news magic

Xx

 

[comet1234]

Magic: so exciting!! Let us know how it goes

Mrs lemon: oh did you ovulate later than expected? Hopefully they can still get all the information they need
Xx

 

[magicwhisper]

I will do

 

[comet1234]

So I went to a woman doctor this time and she was lovely. Having yet another blood test and being referred to a pcos specialist. She is even doing a check on hubbys swimmers just to make sure we are not facing two problems x

 

[MrsLemon]

So glad you have found a better doctor!!

Hope some answers and plans are given that are going to give you a bfp

My Period is due in 5 days and I have no symptoms not that hopeful as Mr was poorly around ovulation and wasn't up to bDing so we didn't dance as much as I would have liked ha sorry for tmi x

 

[comet1234]

I am much more positive now I have seen her, she just seemed like she was on my wavelength and wanted us to get pregnant.

They often say no symptoms are the best! Plus your not fretting over every little twinge which is a nightmare!

Did you manage to bd at all either side of ovulation day or on it? Xx

 

[MrsLemon]

yes we did manage to ovulate on the Saturday morning and I think i ovulated Saturday night so hopefully...

ill know by next monday :s

i jsut want it so so bad :s its my birthday in 2 weeks and 11 months ago i told myself by my next birthday Ill be a mum and well.. yeh its not happened and im a bit heartbroken at the thought....aha how naive i was...

hope everything's good your end x

 

[comet1234]

Well you did perfectly timing! Having that bfp for you birthday would be amazing, wishing you so much luck .

I know how you feel, I keep thinking back to when I thought it would all happen so quick and easy. It's been a journey I couldn't of even imagined up. Some people are lucky that it just happens first time but I also think the trying brings partners closer together.

As for me : I have my doctors appointment tomorrow for bloods and a cervix check then she is referring me so that's good news! I also start my first accupunture session, as it is very recommended for people suffering with fertility issues like pcos etc. Nervous but excited!

Forgot to mention, I don't know what all your views are on psychics and all, but a while ago I got a conception reading and she told me that I would conceive or find out I'm pregnant on the 28th around November ( so either October 28th or November 28th) . Sounds silly but it really got my hopes up, here's to hoping right?
I know this month will be a pretty definite no go due to no period, but my doctor did say keep bd ing as my body can still ovulate randomly

Sorry for the long post haha!

Magic, how is everything? X

 

[magicwhisper]

i hope the doctors give you some answers!

all good for me i hhave my scan tomorrow i am excited but nervous too .... but apparently sickness is a very good sign everything is fine and i have definatly had that

i have also got bigger i have a huge bloat now i look massive dosent look like a baby bump though just fat! so far i am still a uk size 14 bottoms but i am now a 16 on top (i can fit in a 14 but i like tops a bit baggier)

 

[comet1234]

How did it go?? So excited for you!

before you know it you will have a beautiful bump! Happy 12 weeks x

 

[magicwhisper]

so happy!
we saw the heartbeat straight away, baby waved and jumped at us too
baby measured at 11+1 weeks so 6 days behind but the heartbeat was really good they said. i have another scan 0n the 6th because baby was slightly to small to do there tests ect on him/her so i get to see baby a extra time

we got a free picture because it was a bit blurey

we also announced it on fb

oh and i am off to see my family tomorrow

internet is slow so i cant upload pictures but they are on my journal!

 

[comet1234]

Ah wow so pleased everything is good! bet it was such a magical experience.

a second time? lucky you, did you ovulate later than expected then or just caught the egg on a random day?

hope everyone on fb was pleased for you and you have a wonderful time with your family today xx

( had a sneaky peak at the scan photo on your journal... such a cute wave!!)

 

[ItoyandSuerti]

Hi Is it ok if I join too?
I am very obese, (259 pounds ) I have lost about 28 pounds so far (I am in Australia so go by Kgs, but converted as everyone here seems to be going by pounds )
I have been with my OH for 7 years, living together 6. We have been been having unprotected sex for 6 years, but I have also had no period for 6 years. I had an operation 1.5 years ago to remove a cyst on my right ovary, but other than that everything is fine. The doctor put me back on the pill, so I took it for a month and I got my period on the 6th of this month, I stopped taking the pill as I wanted to let it 'run it's course' IYKWIM.
I so desperately want to have a baby, as does OH. We are starting charting with FF, so lots to take in. I just really hope this dream comes true.

 

[comet1234]

Hello and welcome! We all know the struggles of being overweight in the group but as you can see we already have one baby on the way .
Having no period for 6 years is concerning are you or have you had any tests to understand why?
Was the cyst due to pcos as this is what I have.

I'm sorry your journey has been a long one but now your charting I hope you will get your bfp .

Congratulations on your weight loss so far! Xx