Painful BH starting in bum/back?
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Oh wow hon so excited for you. Can't wait for a update. Hope baby comes soon eeeeeek. U got this babe 
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Hope everything is going well hon and hope baby is here.
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Hey ladies I'm so sorry if I worried a new view. It's been a really long recovery process for me and I now feel comfortable enough to post.
My sweet baby girl Kloe Grace arrived Sunday, June 27th at 1:28 am. She weighed 10 lb 5 oz and 22.5 in long. Her original estimated wait was 8 lb 5 oz. To put it lightly labor and delivery was traumatic for both of us.
Everything started on Saturday when I was getting consistent contractions. I thought maybe it was prodromal labor and that I was wasting my time by going in. It's a good thing I decided to though because by the time I got there around 11:00 a.m. I was already 4 cm dilated. The original nurse who checked me when I was registered said I was only 1 cm dilated but that's because she actually couldn't reach my cervix. After they checked my cervix they checked my blood pressure and it turned out to be really high, which was unusual for me because my blood pressure normally was really really good. After checking about three times and getting the same result, they drew my blood and it came back that I had preeclampsia. My doctor decided to break my water and induce labor to get my little peanut out as quick as possible. After they broke my water I waited a couple hours for the anesthesiologist to come and give me the epidural before receiving pitocin. Around 7pm I reach 7 cm dilated and things started to slow down. When I finally reached 10 cm dilated baby girl started to get stressed, she was face up and not moving down. We had to try a bunch of different positions to get her to turn. On top of that my epidural was wearing off and I was in a lot of pain. After about an hour maybe a little more the doctor reached in and tried to turn her a little bit. Once that was done I had no choice but to push. I didn't expect to be pushing for two and a half hours. It was the most excruciating pain I've ever experienced. I was exhausted and worried that I wouldn't be able to make it through. They did suggest a C-section but because I don't have any help to take care of my babies I had to push through it. I couldn't allow myself to get a C-section unless it was an emergency. I was finally able to get her head through and almost passed out twice from the pain. Just when I thought it would be over and she would be here her shoulder got stuck in my pelvic bone because she was too big to fit & turned face up. The doctor ended up having to break her arm to get her out. When she was finally out she was pale with purple lips and not breathing. I waited for over a minute and a half which felt like eternity to hear my baby cry. She was in shock from the delivery. I was able to kiss her before they took her to make sure she was alright. As for me, other than being traumatized I didn't tear or hemorrhage, thank goodness, especially since my DR basically had her arms up there trying to help me get her out. The only thing we could do for my baby girl's arm is wrap it up with an Ace bandage to stabilize it. She is in pain, the Tylenol seems to help a little so she can sleep though. She is breastfeeding well, which I am very thankful for. It's been a couple days now since her birth and a tough recovery for the both of us but we are both doing well. She is beautiful and healthy. Although the experience was traumatizing, I'm so happy that she's here. I have my postpartum appointment tomorrow to check my blood pressure and I'm going to make sure to tell my doctor how thankful I am for everything that she did for us.
I am still in shock that I made it through, the pain what is excruciating especially since I had to push for so long. I was so exhausted. The nursing staff that were there to help me through it were absolutely amazing. I couldn't have asked for a better medical team.
My sweet baby girl Kloe Grace arrived Sunday, June 27th at 1:28 am. She weighed 10 lb 5 oz and 22.5 in long. Her original estimated wait was 8 lb 5 oz. To put it lightly labor and delivery was traumatic for both of us.
Everything started on Saturday when I was getting consistent contractions. I thought maybe it was prodromal labor and that I was wasting my time by going in. It's a good thing I decided to though because by the time I got there around 11:00 a.m. I was already 4 cm dilated. The original nurse who checked me when I was registered said I was only 1 cm dilated but that's because she actually couldn't reach my cervix. After they checked my cervix they checked my blood pressure and it turned out to be really high, which was unusual for me because my blood pressure normally was really really good. After checking about three times and getting the same result, they drew my blood and it came back that I had preeclampsia. My doctor decided to break my water and induce labor to get my little peanut out as quick as possible. After they broke my water I waited a couple hours for the anesthesiologist to come and give me the epidural before receiving pitocin. Around 7pm I reach 7 cm dilated and things started to slow down. When I finally reached 10 cm dilated baby girl started to get stressed, she was face up and not moving down. We had to try a bunch of different positions to get her to turn. On top of that my epidural was wearing off and I was in a lot of pain. After about an hour maybe a little more the doctor reached in and tried to turn her a little bit. Once that was done I had no choice but to push. I didn't expect to be pushing for two and a half hours. It was the most excruciating pain I've ever experienced. I was exhausted and worried that I wouldn't be able to make it through. They did suggest a C-section but because I don't have any help to take care of my babies I had to push through it. I couldn't allow myself to get a C-section unless it was an emergency. I was finally able to get her head through and almost passed out twice from the pain. Just when I thought it would be over and she would be here her shoulder got stuck in my pelvic bone because she was too big to fit & turned face up. The doctor ended up having to break her arm to get her out. When she was finally out she was pale with purple lips and not breathing. I waited for over a minute and a half which felt like eternity to hear my baby cry. She was in shock from the delivery. I was able to kiss her before they took her to make sure she was alright. As for me, other than being traumatized I didn't tear or hemorrhage, thank goodness, especially since my DR basically had her arms up there trying to help me get her out. The only thing we could do for my baby girl's arm is wrap it up with an Ace bandage to stabilize it. She is in pain, the Tylenol seems to help a little so she can sleep though. She is breastfeeding well, which I am very thankful for. It's been a couple days now since her birth and a tough recovery for the both of us but we are both doing well. She is beautiful and healthy. Although the experience was traumatizing, I'm so happy that she's here. I have my postpartum appointment tomorrow to check my blood pressure and I'm going to make sure to tell my doctor how thankful I am for everything that she did for us.
I am still in shock that I made it through, the pain what is excruciating especially since I had to push for so long. I was so exhausted. The nursing staff that were there to help me through it were absolutely amazing. I couldn't have asked for a better medical team.
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I'm so sorry it was a traumatic experience. So glad your little girl is here now. She's gorgeous
I hope you both have a speedy recovery
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I’m sorry it was traumatic well done you for making it through that and what a gorgeous baby girl congratulations
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Oh goodness that sounds very similar to my 2nd baby. He was my biggest 8lb 15oz which I know is nothing compared to 10lbs wowsers girrrl u deserve a medal.
They never had to break my sons arm but he got very stuck and it was a really traumatic birth and because like u i was pushing for so long he was born purple with blue lips hands and feet and it breathing. I remember waiting and waiting for him to cry and it felt like a eternity.
When he finally did it was such a huge relief.
I new he was a big baby but I wasn't listened too.
I'm only tiny and short so it was really traumatic and extremely painful because I had just had the epidural and it didn't get a chance to work.
He was also 2 weeks over due.
All my other babies have all been 7lbs something apart from mine and dh dd she was a tiny 5lb 7 but was 4 weeks early.
I'm being induced with this one at 37 weeks so expecting another 7lb something baby hope no bigger because I never want to have to go through that again. My biggest did have a different dad tho.
Man hon u really have been through it bless you.
Please please give yourself a massive pat on the back hon. U did amazing always remember that.
She is absolutely beautiful sending gentle healing hugs and a huge congratulations
They never had to break my sons arm but he got very stuck and it was a really traumatic birth and because like u i was pushing for so long he was born purple with blue lips hands and feet and it breathing. I remember waiting and waiting for him to cry and it felt like a eternity.
When he finally did it was such a huge relief.
I new he was a big baby but I wasn't listened too.
I'm only tiny and short so it was really traumatic and extremely painful because I had just had the epidural and it didn't get a chance to work.
He was also 2 weeks over due.
All my other babies have all been 7lbs something apart from mine and dh dd she was a tiny 5lb 7 but was 4 weeks early.
I'm being induced with this one at 37 weeks so expecting another 7lb something baby hope no bigger because I never want to have to go through that again. My biggest did have a different dad tho.
Man hon u really have been through it bless you.
Please please give yourself a massive pat on the back hon. U did amazing always remember that.
She is absolutely beautiful sending gentle healing hugs and a huge congratulations
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Thank you ladies so much for the kind words. I still don't know how I made it through. I feel like it's going to take a long time to heal.
@Suggerhoney thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry you've had to go through something similar. I definitely wouldn't wish this upon anyone. It's definitely scared me away from wanting to have any more children. Maybe 5 years down the road I'll change my mind but everyone is definitely pressuring me to be done. I really hope that this pregnancy if yours goes smoothly and he won't have any trouble.
@Suggerhoney thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry you've had to go through something similar. I definitely wouldn't wish this upon anyone. It's definitely scared me away from wanting to have any more children. Maybe 5 years down the road I'll change my mind but everyone is definitely pressuring me to be done. I really hope that this pregnancy if yours goes smoothly and he won't have any trouble.
