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[daviess3]

I knew it heart! So pleased for u, I'm hoping I'm the same coz ur nausea went didn't it? My bbs aren't sore today either!! Just full!! X

 

[filipenko32]

Hi sunny, I know about amh, and bumpy please knows about it too, she is on the recurrent miscarriage thread. There are lots of ladies with lower amh than 3 and successfully pregnant, you only need one good egg! Do you get pregnant easily? Have you ever had a fsh test done? That can tell you more about egg quality I think. I'll pm you as this thread moves so quickly you'll probably miss this post! X x x

thinkin of you heart, and fili for friday

I still havent found anywhere here that will do a scan and that speaks english (in on Fuerteventura in the canaries) one more place to try and if not looks like i will have to come back to the uk, i spoke to my RMC clinic today at home, i was waiting for AMH results, which came back quite low 3, not sure how much that effects miscarriage the lady said its more to do with actually getting pregnant, but can mean the quality is low? anyone know anything about AMH test results?

I told them i was pregnant again, she said they would normally scan at 7 weeks, i'm not liking this game anymore, its really not doing my relationship anygood either, we were'nt over the last mc 2 months ago, i wanted to wait until i felt stronger but mother nature had other ideas
Trying to stay positive

 

[hopeful23456]

Awesome heart! I do think it's the nerves that mask the symptoms. So are you on the good insurance now too?

Davies- you are fine!!! Hugs to you! I just ate orange chicken and chicken fried rice, so full but want to keep eating!

 

[heart tree]

Davies I asked about the fading of symptoms and she said it is perfectly normal at this point and nothing to worry about. She said hormone levels are starting to level out and your body is just used to them now. She showed me the placenta and. The umbilical cord attached to it. The placenta is working now. They keep us on progesterone for a while longer because they aren't sure how much the placenta is feeding the baby yet so they keep you on progesterone as a safety measure. But really once the placenta takes over, the symptoms can go away. Try not to worry if you can. And don't forget, it's still so early for a Doppler.

 

[Mrskg]

Titi I'm so sorry tom hear your news xxxx

Heart that's wonderful can't wait to se pic x 2 scans in one wk I'd call that lucky lap it up lol xx

Davies x thank you if it's not sinister I think it could be pgp pelvic girdle pain seemingly only1% of women actually get sciatic but that's what a doctor will diagnose instead of pgp I think my symptoms sound like that x luckily I went tomdoc about it last month so have been referred for physio and MRI had to cancel MRI for obvious reasons an waiting list for physio was 10wks so about another 6 to wait!!! I def think it was beany's heart beat you found I'd say that rate was to high to be yours I have an elevated heart rate and it's not as fast as that x if you feel your pulse in your neck and count beats for 10secs then time by 6 you will get your heart rate x so sorry your are worrying about symptoms what we all like eh I think we are now so in tune with our bodies we notice every symptom or lack of xxx

I craved oranges with my second daughter I used to buy a bag an eat the whole lot because the thought of someone else eating them was just toooooo much for me then I'd be sick lol wonder why I never just hid them!!

I'm feeling a bit better the medium I see regularly face booked me today x I had sent her a mess wishing her a happy new yr and to tell her (well confirm to her) that I was pregnant she had predicted this pregnancy and I asked her to keep me in her prayers and she sent mess saying she knows everything will be ok x as good as she is there's still a very small % of me that thinks she could be wrong x really hoping she's right though xxxx

Oh I was thinking about 9babies last night hope she's ok xxx

 

[Round2]

Davies, it's still so early. I tried the doppler at 11 weeks and couldn't find it.

Hearty, so happy for you. When I had my scan at 9w6d the doc said my risks of mc were less than 1% at that point since I had a healthy heartbeat and bean growing on track. And that was with my history of mc, blood clotting disorder and autoimmune disease. I'd think the same stat would apply to you now too.

 

[filipenko32]

Yes that's true round, I've read that and a doctor has told me that as I asked would I always have to wait till 12 weeks to be sure. Did you have the amh test done round or am I getting you confused with someone else?!

 

[filipenko32]

Aww sorry titi, just read your post x x x x

 

[HappyAuntie]

Oh Davies I hate seeing you worry! I hate that any of us worry! I'm sure little Davies is fine in there but who am I to talk? I can't even convince myself of that!

Luckily my scan convinced me that all is ok. Heart rate is 185 and baby is measuring spot on at 9+4. It was very wriggly and kept moving about. So cute!

There is still the old blood clot near my cervix but it is small, it hasn't grown in two weeks and it isn't close to the baby. Since it is right next to the cervix it will probably keep sliding out.

They told me that I graduated from the clinic today. This was the team of specialists who I privately paid. I can now just start seeing a regular OB/gyn. I have my first prenatal appointment on Friday and just found out they do an ultrasound there too! I'm obviously going to do it, but 2 in one week is a bit excessive.

Thanks all for putting up with my craziness. I know it's PAL normal but good lord, I can be such a damn mess!

Pics much later. I'm going back to work now. xoxo

xoxo

 

[croydongirl]

Heart - SO PLEASED for you!! I can't wait for Thursday until my scan. I had my first OB appointment today with the nurse practitioner who just took a long, detailed history and then a bunch more blood work. Next week I go back and see my actual doctor and get an ultra sound. I was supposed to go this Friday but I moved it so we will get a scan this Thursday and next week!! I am addicted. I want to keep it up as long as possible!

Ladies- My symptoms have been lessening too. My doctor told me that 8-9 weeks is the hormone peak and then things even out so the lucky pregnant ladies will notice a decrease in some of the less fun symptoms as our bodies adjust. I am sure everyone is doing fine. But we are PAL and allowed to be freaked out as much as we want!! ha ha

Ok, time for my second lunch...

 

[daviess3]

Thanks for ur words ladies, I feel better to no we all feel the same an everyone's symptoms are lessening! I have just come downstairs on the sofa! As my hubby is snoring so loudly I kicked him!! Nothing!! I can feel myself getting stressed at him coz I'm worried!! I swear if I made it past this stage I will chill out!! Pls pls!! Anyway going tk try an sleep an see if I can wake up feeling different! X

 

[petitpas]

Oh heart, I am so pleased for you. This really was a milestone to pass. Your baby is snuggled in there and growing well I love that you saw your baby wriggling - I bet that was a first for you

Davies, try not to worry. The best would be to put the machine away until right after your next scan. I didn't find the heartbeat until 10+2 and it took me aaaages. I think I was very lucky to find the exact square mm and right angle to catch ducky. They are so tiny and burrowed so deep at that point.
Out of curiosity, which doppler did you get?

 

[Round2]

Yes that's true round, I've read that and a doctor has told me that as I asked would I always have to wait till 12 weeks to be sure. Did you have the amh test done round or am I getting you confused with someone else?!

No, I don't have AMH problems.... that I know about. Just my thyroid, AI and blood clotting!! Think that's enough for me!

 

[filipenko32]

Did you actually have the amh test done Round?

 

[Tasha]

Can I join you all in here? I got my BFP tonight at 11pm (UK time) which was some where between 11-13dpo.

For those of you that done know me I have three earth babies; Morgan he is seven, Naomi-Mae is six and Kaysie Blossom is three. I also have Honey who was born sleeping at 36+6 on the 16th May 2007 and Riley Rae who was born sleeping at 24+3 on the 15th April 2011. I had seven first trimester loses between August 08 and September 10, had another first tri loss in June 11 and one in 2nd December 11. So including Riley Rae, that is ten loses in a row now. I am terrified. I will start my medications tonight.

 

[heart tree]

Thanks Pip, this was a milestone and you're right, I've never seen a baby wriggle in my belly before. It was amazing!

Croy, I'll put your scan date for Thursday. They are addictive even though I hate the time frame leading up to them. I can't wait to hear how wonderful yours is!

Isn't it interesting how a lot of us have the same ups and downs of our symptoms at the same time? Did anyone ever read the Red Tent? Women used to have their periods at the same time. We have our pregnancy symptoms and lack thereof at the same time. Love it!

Davies, I can't wait for your next scan and know it will be perfect.

I ventured to the First Tri thread and found a pretty great thread started by a nurse. https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnan...-debunked-new-411-pg-23-check-out-ladies.html
I read all pages of it last night. There is some really great stuff. She's on bed rest now and not answering any more questions, but she's very reassuring about a lot of the stuff we worry about. She lives somewhere near me. I can't wait until she's back online so I can pick her brain.

One of the things she said was that drinking water was super important in the first tri. She said it can help decrease cramping and also can give the baby more amniotic fluid. So drink up ladies. She said a gallon of water a day is ideal. Oh my bladder hurts already just thinking about that!

 

[Tasha]

Forgot to add a picture

 

[Round2]

Did you actually have the amh test done Round?

No, I don't think I had that one done. I had a pile of tests after my 3rd loss...but I don't think that was one of them. Up until my 3rd loss I had never had any problem getting pregnant. I think AMH affects your fertility.

 

[heart tree]

Tasha of course you can join us and congrats! I've seen you around on other threads. Those are some gorgeous pink lines. Here's hoping it's a sticky one this time.

 

[Round2]

Welcome Tasha. What an unbelievable journey you've been on. I wish you all the best. That's a beautiful line for 11DPO!