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Mrs r - I don't think he/she liked the doppler today! I found the heartbeat, but then I heard a sort of whooshing noise and it vanished. Found it a small distance away and the same happened! It was as if they were diving around in there. I stopped listening after that!
 
Quick update. I just got the report from my ultrasound on Monday and apparently the miscarriage was already starting. Bubs hb had started dropping and there was bleeding visible around both sacs. Still waiting on the lab results though but I'm not expecting those til next week. Looking more and more like this was an egg(s) that shouldn't have caught though and just reinforces the hyperfertility thing.
 
Good morning ladies,

loeylo, my baby does that too. LOL!!

dairy, I'm so sorry. It definently seems like the hyperfertility is the issue. It's great to know you can get pregnant so easily, but you don't want those not so good eggs getting fertilized either. I'm hoping and praying they can work around this for you. I think it will be just fine in the end. Just continue to take good care of yourself and all the time you need to heal. We're all here for you. :hugs:
 
Dairy, sorry for your loss.

3 years ago I was under a RMC, with one of the UK's leading specialists in RMC. She thought I was probably super fertile, which means that eggs that shouldn't really be fertilised were being.

Her idea was to make me less fertile! The idea being that only eggs that were meant to be would be fertilised and continue onto a healthy pregnancy.

She told me to take progesterone from OV day for 13 days. After 13 days take a PG test, if not PG stop the progesterone, if I was PG then continue taking.

I became PG first month trying this and my rainbow is 19 months old!

The progesterone won't necessarily mean you will definitely get and stay pregnant, but what it should mean is that only viable eggs will be kept, thus reducing the upsetting process of recurring MC. (I am an older mom, so the thought of becoming less fertile did concern me, but the thought of more MC scared me more!)

This could mean it will take longer to get pregnant, but when you do get pregnant it is more likely to be a 'keeper'.

Hopefully you will get some helpful advice like this from your specialist.
 
Sorry dairy :hugs:

I'm reading and trying to keep up but struggling as my attention span is zero (I always get like this in the lead up to Honey and RIley Rae's birthdays, it's RR in five days).

Any way I really wanted to say I'm thinking of you all especially Mowat and ummi. I know that when you are so close it becomes even more scary as it feels like it's right there but so far away. I hope you're both doing okay xx
 
Dan-I'll be seeing the dr in about two months and I'll see what he says about this but I'm working with my natural dr in the meantime to try and balance my hormones a bit better too. He's done wonders for me in the past and hoping he can help me this time too. I think my biggest issue though is that I'm getting pg SO fast that my hormones and body aren't getting the time they need to balance back out so everything gets thrown even more for a loop and it's just piled up over the last 2 years with my back to back losses and LO's pg. I really think this time-out from all things ttc and pg will help not only my body heal but my hormones settle too. And I think that will be the biggest help of all.
 
Dairy: time off ttc is good too for the mind. You can focus on something else for a while. Hope you'll get answers. xx

Tasha: :hugs: their birthday must be hard for you.
Thank you I'm doing good, waiting really. I saw the consultant yesterday and if still no baby by 40 weeks, they'll induce me. It's been booked in my due date, the 21st. The doctor doesn't want to take any chances. He was the one who was surprised that the other doctor wanted to induced at 38, but 40 weeks is fine by me. I would have loved to wait until baby came on her own, but I'm ok with that. Hopefully she'll come before that.
 
Dairy, from your ticker I can see you are still nice and young, so have plenty of time to sit back and let your body sort itself out.

I know it will be difficult to take time out, because, if you were like me, you just want to get on with things as soon as possible, but time is on your side.

I was 41 at the time of my second loss, so unlike you, time was not on my side. However, a week after my 42nd birthday my rainbow arrived.

Look after yourself, get your body rested and in perfect condition for when you try again and you will get another rainbow. (I have 4 DC - my 2 youngest are both rainbows)
 
Dairy -- you're right to take time to heal and to consider all the medical information before you try again. Be good to yourself.

Mowat -- anything doing with those babies? Haven't heard from you in a couple of days.

Tasha -- :hugs: Anniversaries are hard, no matter how many years have passed. Thinking of you.

Me, my nausea's still MIA and I'm well past panic now. First ultrasound is in a week, my plan is to hold myself together until then.
 
Tasha thinking of you on your anniversaries.x
Dairy look after yourself.x
Invivo my nausea has gone after a nice few days of it last week. Thankfully bsck to school tomorrow which will keep my mind of it!
 
Tasha - lots of luck for your scan on Monday, thinking of you at this difficult time :hugs:

IVV - good luck for your scan next week :hugs:

Ummi - hope your little one gets a move on :hugs:

Dairy - I hope the time out gives you a chance to heal both emotionally and physically :hugs:
 
Tasha- Thinking of you, and good luck tomorrow.

Ummi- Ahhh, I'm glad you're rolling so well with the punches. That final last stretch is so hard. But you're being very sensible about needing an induction.

Mowat- Are the twinnies here yet? I'm just hanging out on labor watch for you! :)
 
We lost our beautiful baby girl :cry: My placenta came unattached on Wednesday (8th), I was induced on the 10th, and delivered her in the early hours of April 11th, also my birthday. I still can't believe it. The placenta abruption was caused by the schs.
 
Oh my goodness, Radiance, I'm so very sorry. How terrible for you and your family. You're in my thoughts and prayers, and you have my deepest sympathies. :hugs:
 
Radiance I am so sorry to read this having suffered an abruption myself

You just don't expect an abruption to happen 'to you' once you get past 20w, did your anomaly scan not show that the placenta was coming away. How many weeks were you hun?

My abruption was concealed and revealed and it still didn't enter my head I might be having an abruption as I didn't have the pain that often goes with it even though I had lots of blood

Your very lucky, an abruption is extremely dangerous so for you to be delivering 3 days after it becoming detached is remarkable. Did you just bleed internally?

Massive hugs xx
 
Radiance: I am so very sorry. You're in my thoughts. There's just no words for it. :hugs:
 
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