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PAL after Recurrent Losses - come join us!

Thank you tasha. I'm good so far. Just waiting for any sign of labour starting. I've got a consultant appt on Friday, I'll be 38+3.

I'm sorry for the anniversary and the bad timing of the scan. I hope you get good news in the 3 of them.

Dairy: :hugs: sorry you had such a night. I hope ttomorrow brings you reassurance.

Good luck everyone with a scan coming up.

MrsR: my LO did not want to show us at 20 weeks, she had her legs crossed! I was lucky to have a scan at 24 weeks, that's when we were able to see properly. Hopefully they were not wrong! Haha! I'm sure you can hold on 2 more weeks! It's going so fast you'll get there in no time.
 
Blue - I have a history of mmc as well which is why I get so anxious. If I make it past my next scan I will feel better I hope. I really hope the time passes quickly for you.

Tasha - the dates must be difficult even without scans. I hope everything looks great!

Umami - so close to meeting your rainbow!

Afm - feeling more confident this afternoon. Really wishing I could get a strong read on the doppler for comfort between scans. It will come I know but I struggle some days with feelings of mmc.
 
I hope you get to meet your rainbow soon umi.

Sweet scans are difficult especially if there is no reassurance for you before hand. We are all for you :hugs:

This is my scan today

https://i723.photobucket.com/albums/ww235/Tasha_Adams/Mobile%20Uploads/image_zps7cerxe2w.jpg
 
Tasha-love the picture! So lifelike, it's almost like you are seeing a regular picture...

Sorry if I'm brushing off anyone else but my mind is fried. My signature should tell the story but the lowdown is unfortunately, I lost not only the nonviable twin but the one with a hb as well. The theory right now is that when the smaller sac started to detach it pulled the baby with it because the sacs were literally touching. There's a chance something may have been wrong with both babies though too because some of the stuff that came out was SO odd and weird looking. We sent it in for testing and I have to follow up with the dr in a month or so. We'll go over the results (I'll have them sooner) and discuss where to go from here at that point. Right now though, I'm just taking it easy and snuggling my kids. Sucks to be in this position again, but I can't change it...

What hurts the most this time though and what I think will be on my mind alot in the next weeks is the fact that I saw/heard the hb literally 4 hours before things started to end...THAT makes me so incredibly sad. From hb to miscarriage in a matter of hours. Just doesn't seem right.
 
Awww, Dairy. I'm so very, very sorry once again. I hate, and I mean HATE that this has happened yet again, and this time being a twin loss. I have no other words. Please take care, and I pray it's all over soon for you. :hugs:
 
Dairy, I'm so so sorry. I hope they can give you some answers because as you say, seeing the HB just 4 hours before the loss started is really sad :hugs:
 
Tasha - Thank you, it's so nice to have people that understand the anxiety. What an amazing picture! I hope your other scans this week are perfect.

Dairy - I am so very, very sorry that you are going through this. Please know you're in my thoughts.
 
Oh Dairy, I'm so sorry. Can't believe you're going through this.

Good luck with scans everyone. Sorry for the brief update, but I'm completely fried today too. Had an ultrasound this morning and non-stress test. Everythign was good, but doctor found no progress from my exam on Saturday. Just waiting now to meet the surgeon. According to the nurse he wants to rupture membranes and do a oxytocin drip. Really not keen on the drip.

Sorry to update with my news right now. Thinking of all of you.
 
Change of plan. Admitted with cervidil. Will be reevaluated in the morning.
 
Hi everyone

Well I unexpectedly find myself writing here today, but not sure how long I'll be here for.

DS is 10 months this weekend (not sure how that has gone so quick!). Hubby and I have been toying with trying for number 2 and thought we'd try and relax and not try but not prevent either. Partly due a condom hatred - so first time we BD without protection I find myself pregnant!

I actually thought I had a period 2 weeks ago, and I even took a pregnancy test the day the bleeding started just to be sure and it was BFN. So yesterday I had, or so I thought, some mid cycle bleeding and only time that's happened before was when I had my ectopic pregnancy, so I took a pregnancy test and its a BFP (2-3 weeks in digi). ! I started progesterone and prednisolone as soon as I saw the BFP yesterday and bleeding now stopped, but I'm quite possibly just delaying the inevitable. Feel quite crampy too. I've a scan booked for Tuesday as by my books I "think" I'm 6 weeks on Friday. So feel mightily confused with ?pregnant/?miscarriage/?ectopic.

I'll have to do some catching up on here but best of luck to those due very soon. So very pleased to see Hope on here too! Hope you are doing ok.

Dairy-sorry to hear your news. I remember you from my last pregnancy. Take good care of yourself.
 
Lovely scan pic Tasha.
Good luck Mowat and Ummi.

Dairy so sorry for your losses. I hope you get some answers at your appointment xx
 
Ah mitchi, I was quite surprised to see your name pop up so soon !! Congrats

All is going marvellous, just had a scan this morning (14w4d) - growth is fine, fluid levels are fine, movement is fine for gestation, all looks perfect :) placenta is no where near my c sect scar either x
 
Dairy - I'm so sorry for your losses, thinking of you. It's really heartbreaking to see the heartbeat then miscarry a few hours later. Take care :hugs:

Tasha - that's an amazing photo!

Mowat / Ummi - good luck :)

Hope - great news about your scan :)

Mitchi - welcome, good luck at your scan on Tues.

Sweet - thank you, hope your next scan goes well and you get the reassurance you need :hugs:

I can't quite believe it, the scan went well today, I'm still on date too. We saw it kick. I've never got this far and I know there's a long way to go and a lot can happen but feel like I'm over the first hurdle. Just need to get through the second scan next week.
 
Mowat - Good luck, keep us posted!

Mitchi - I hope your scan next week shows a healthy baby.

Hope - that's great news for such a great scan!
 
Blue: that's such great news! Yay!

Tasha: forgot to say I love your scan picture!
 
Hope: I missed your post, we posted at the same time. I'm so happy for such a great scan too!
 
Blue - I missed your post as well. Congrats on the great scan. Such a wonderful feeling watching them move. In no time at all you'll be able to feel it. I'm sure your next scan will be just as amazing <3
 

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