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PAL after Recurrent Losses - come join us!

Today is THE day. It's been an excruciating three weeks. Today we find out if the baby still has a heartbeat. In two hours. I am pretty much in a panic attack. The last three weeks have been super rough, but today is going to go just one of two ways. We will come out of that office completely broken, or over the moon happy. It's the fear of the unknown I think that has been killing me. If I know one way or the other then I can deal and move on. I'm praying for the best but expecting the worst.
Things are different this time around, still sick and way sore boobs, but speculating that this could be due to the progesterone supplement...ugh, speculating. I hate it. Please pray for our baby, and please pray I don't literally go off the deep end if the baby is gone.
Thank you...

I am thinking of you!! :hugs:

Aleeah, it's ashamed they won't listen to your needs. I feel reassurance is really important to those with losses. My Ob office saw me weekly with Athena. My ultrasound was my dating but she told me instead of making me wait until 13 weeks that I could come back for another ultrasound. My next is at 8 weeks. I really hope they will start respecting your wishes. Can you see anyone else?
 
fx for you today Drsamyjohn. I always booked my reassurance scans early in the day as I could not stand the wait and sick feeling leading up to it.
 
So I publicly announced today!! I was constantly going back and forth. I have a fear that if I share then we will lose the baby and if I don't share then baby will be fine. Totally irrational. Here is my announcement :) The sunshines represent my living children, the hearts up top represent my angels, the rainbow represents this baby, and I actually like the sidewalk crack, I feel it shares part of our story :thumbup:
 

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God is good! Tried to post the video of the little baby wiggling about but it won't work. Measuring ahead at 9.5 weeks. Heart rate 180. I am unbelievably grateful for the support of you ladies! For now, I will relax and enjoy.
 
God is good! Tried to post the video of the little baby wiggling about but it won't work. Measuring ahead at 9.5 weeks. Heart rate 180. I am unbelievably grateful for the support of you ladies! For now, I will relax and enjoy.

Thats great news! xx
 
Radiance - I had the same fears and didn't announce until 20 weeks! I love the announcement.

Dramy - that's amazing news!! Congrats!!
 
That's great news. I know from my losses and the number of scans I had that a wriggly baby is a good sign
 
God is good! Tried to post the video of the little baby wiggling about but it won't work. Measuring ahead at 9.5 weeks. Heart rate 180. I am unbelievably grateful for the support of you ladies! For now, I will relax and enjoy.

Wonderful news!! :happydance:
 
DrAmy-been so busy just got to check in and I'm SO excited you got great news! I spent all day praying for you and your scan news just makes my day. Glad you are feeling more confident now. (I'm literally grinning from ear to ear right now!)

Radiance-lovely announcement and I like the crack too. It just seems to fit. :thumbup:
 
Drsamy - congratulations, so glad your scan went well :)

Radiance - lovely announcement :)

Florida - How are you hun? x
 
Is anyone here under Dr. Quenby's care atm or seen her in the past? There's someone over on the RMC thread who is asking about her clinic as the OP is being referred there.
 
I was under a Professor Quenby at a RMC but I'm in the UK so I'm guessing the name is the same, but different people?
 
Hey all. I don't post on here much these days. I'm 7.5 wks pregnant, had 6 wk scan and seen hb, back on Weds for 8wk scan.

I've been having bad nausea, not actually being sick just a constant feeling of nausea which gets worse in the evenings. Does anyone have anything that has helped in relieving these symptoms, I've tried ginger and peppermint.

Usually the steroids have masked symptoms in past pregnancies but I have a really high HCG count in this one and it's basically knocking the shit out of me.
Obviously I'll take this over the alternative.

Need to read back when I get a chance to catch up, hope everyone is doing ok xx.
 

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