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PAL after Recurrent Losses - come join us!

Hope everyone is ok.

A week ago today I went into triage as I wasn't feeling her move quite as much as normal, I've had a few episodes of reduced movement where everything was ok but I wanted to check and had a feeling something was not right, I'd had a couple of nights where I didn't feel her much at all during the night.

Little Blue's heartrate kept temporarily dropping to 100/90 on the CTG, then going back up to normal. The hospital decided to start induction that evening as the front of the cervix started opening and they were concerned about the reduced movements, things moved really fast. They thought it would take a couple of days but the first stage worked too quickly and I was getting more than 3 contractions in 10 mins, her heartrate kept dipping more often when they put me on the CTG. They decided to send me to delivery to break my waters as I was 2/3cm dilated after a couple of hours. When I got to delivery they decided to do a emergency c-section, she then had a prolonged decelleration of heartrate and the alarm started going off, they gave me a spinal block but it didn't work quickly enough so they did a general as they couldn't wait another minute. She had the cord around her neck and as she dropped down it had been putting her into distress.

Little Blue made it, she's on the mend now after several days in the neo natal unit and we are all home. She's so tiny she is pretty confused about feeding, only 5lbs but she's so beautiful and I feel like the luckiest woman in the world. I really think she wouldn't have made it if I hadn't had gone in that day. Tasha, I cannot thank you enough for sharing your story about Orion, I really think that without that and the sticky post about the importance of checking for reduced movement where the OP went in for reduced movement and ended up with a crash section as her LO's heartrate was 60, I wouldn't have been so vigilant and she wouldn't be here today. I read my notes today and it says section due to immediate threat to life of woman or fetus, it really makes me realise how serious things got.

Thank you so much for all of your support ladies, I couldn't have got through PARL without you!

NDH - congratulations! Lovely family photos :)

Hope - Oscar is a lovely name :). we got the angelcare 701 in the end.

Loeylo - hope everything is good with you
 
Blue - congratulations on your little girl! So glad to hear that Little Blue made it through all the distress & trauma. Looking forward to hearing what you call her :)

Lovely pics NDH.
 
Blue, just wanted to say that your story took my breath away. I'm so glad to hear she is thriving now. I started this thread 3.5 years ago so I could get through my anxious filled pregnancy with friends who felt the same. I'm so thrilled you found this thread, met other ladies and in essence saved your rainbow's life from the connections you made here. What a blessing. I had a 5 lb 2 oz girl and I will tell you that as a 3 year old, she is now in the 97th percentile for height. It took her a while to catch up and she was confused with eating as she was a 34 week preemie, but it will all come together. Massive congrats to you and yours. My girl was also my 5th pregnancy after four losses. Here's to number 5!
 
Blue - Congrats on your new addition!! I'm sorry her entrance wasn't the easiest and good for you for listening to your instincts. I hope feeding becomes easier as time goes on.
 
Congratulations blue. Glad you trusted your instincts xx
 
Wow blue that is super scary but glad you are both doing better now!!

I am hopefully going to be induced on Tuesday. My back is agony and she is giving me really painful jabs so I don't know if things are happening or if it is just a coincidence.
 
Congratulations blue. Am so glad you are both OK. X
 
Good gor you for trusting your instincts Blue and congrats on your baby girl. glad you are both home snd doing well.
 
Oh wow blue, I'm so glad that you trusted your instincts and your little girl is here safe and sound. I'm really glad that Orion helped you and your little rainbow.
I'm having an emotional sort of day (hope nominated me for an award and o was short listed, tonight is the award ceremony) and now I've started crying again, so happy for you. Much love to you x
 
Thank you ladies :). You have all been amazing! I'm crying again now, I've been doing that a lot the last few days, I can't believe she's here and ok. She's lost a little weight after day 5, we have midwife tomorrow to check how she's getting on. We have called her Ellie, when I work out how to put a pic on I will. Tasha, good luck for the awards ceremony :). Loeylo - good luck for your induction x
 
Congrats on your little fighter Ellie, Blue. Sounds like she had quite a dramatic entrance into the world...it sounds like your medical team was on top of everything, and acted swiftly, and appropriately. Thank goodness for those gut feelings, too, eh? Again, well done to you both. I hope you have a speedy recovery. My first c-section was rough, and my second (only 17 months later) was a breeze!

Tasha! Wow! Congrats on the award!

Hope - I forgot to mention to you earlier that I have an Oscar too! My son is nearly 14 months old. I love that name. Such a classic strong name for a boy! <3

Loeylo- Good luck! Keep us posted on Tuesday!
 
So yesterday I had a ctg which was good but they decided to induce me today anyway. Leaving for hospital in the next half hour or so, my next post should be a birth announcement. Never thought I'd get here!
 
Good luck loeylo. looking forward to hearing your update xx
 
Loeylo - good luck for your induction, looking forward to your announcement :).

Thanks Wookie and everyone else :). She isn't gaining weight quick enough but the midwives are looking after us. She's struggling to breastfeed as she's so tiny. We'll get there in the end, I'm just so happy she is here and doing ok. x
 
Blue blue - I struggled with Oscar weight , he lost 14% by day 5 and we ended up in children's a&e. he was so tiny (5lb 12) and couldn't latch to my breast

I ended up pumping and bottle feeding him for 3 weeks and then we Finally managed to get him to latch. It was so painful but I persevered and he has boobs all the time now apart from once a day where he still has a bottle so that my OH can feed him

I've been able to leave him for 6 hours today and took my
Pumping machine with him, we have a freezer full of breast milk so he had that today whilst I was out

What did Ellie weigh?

Good luck loeylo, I look forward to hearing your little one has arrived safely

Xx
 

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