PAL after Recurrent Losses - come join us!

[heart tree]

Davies I'm so sorry hon. Any date related to a loss is hard, whether you are pregnant or not. Take good care of yourself tomorrow.

Jen I don't think migraine meds are good to take but I'm not sure.

Thanks for the confirmation about peeing girls! I know I don't have a UTI. It's exciting that the baby is big enough now to actually feel changes like that. I'm sure it will get old, but for now it's exciting!

 

[heart tree]

Oooh I just looked at the front page and both of our twin mamas have scans this week! Florida is on Wednesday and Hopeful is on Thursday! Twin scans. Yahoo!

 

[justwaiting]

Great scans girls. Lovely to see all the growing beans in here
Welcome to the newbies and congratulations, this is a lovely informative thread.
Davies your MW sounds so old school, you just happily listen away stuff her!!
It's kind of cool that the babies are getting big enough to cause bladder issues, in a PAL kind of way. On the other hand I hope they move and give you ladies some relief.

 

[Neversaynever]

Welcome to the newbies..sticky all the way

Happy 16 weeks to the avacodos...times flying

Bumpy...on to the second box

I'm sure your results will be fine Amanda

Jen...love the scan pic and I doubt you'll be able to take the migraine pills

Pretty...I had crampy feelings around 9 weeks and convinced myself it was bad news but it wasn't....it's the paranoia setting in as your scan is approaching

Blah...feel sick again

XxX

 

[daviess3]

Thanks just I think she is quite old school, I have seen her before when I had a blighted ovum she actually scanned me at her surgery an was lovely but are they lovely coz they feel sorry for u?
Who knows! Anyway she won't b delivering my baby anyway!

Happy 16 weeks hopeful yay we going to get a big twin pic!
Florida twin pic?
Thanks heart I'm going to do my candle today! Xx

Happy valentines day to all you ladies I hope you all get a lovely card as we all already have the best present our hubby's could give us!! X

Thinking of all my angels today an my bump to xx
Going back to sleep as been up hours! X

 

[jenny25]

Hey girls I just took some pain killers and abit later something for decongestant I feel a million times better I read my leaflet for my migraine tablets and I couldn't take them but hey ho

Paul's done a treasure trail and I'm stuck on the first one I looked in the places it would be and it's not there well my next clue x

 

[Pretty Please]

Jenny - what was the clue? Found the present?

Davies - hugs

Happy valentines girlies x

 

[jenny25]

I found it lol he got me the DVD I wanted Erin brockovich lol x

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Heya ladies

How are you all? Iv got a poorly clingy princess im exhausted shes kept us up most the night just randomly moaning

shes 2 months old on sunday! where the hell has the time gone!

 

[petitpas]

Fili, Lambs and I explored the IVF option, too. Lambs sent a few emails round but the answer was pretty much the same: with PGD they can help prevent the chromosomal losses but we need to get the reason for our miscarriages sorted. Plus, PGD doesn't come without risks. Less embryos survive the process and as a relatively new method it isn't completely foolproof.

To be honest, I don't know why your FS is suggesting IVF. Can you ask? I would be interested to know...

 

[petitpas]

Happy avocado week all round!

And welcome to the mini pee club
I get that. I try to squeeze more out but it won't come. Last night I tried and tried but was empty. I got up, went to bed and just minutes later I had to go again and managed another trickle

 

[Pretty Please]

Fil - when Is your next appointment at St Marys for bloods etc? Going under Nhs do u manage to get to see a consultant - who u seeing there? honestly raj was lovely there - really knowledgeable and really nice I can't rate him enough - maybe try and see him he explained lots of things that no- one has ever said b4 even though other guys were mc specialists

 

[filipenko32]

Pretty they are taking my bloods tomorrow! I get to see a consultant in 4 weeks. We are both thinking of actually waiting now until one clear cycle so that would mean no positive preg test till may ivf or not. that seems ages away. It's really difficult to know what to do. If we did do the ivf with pgd we would do all the treatment too. We are thinking that waiting might be a good option anyway??? How long did you wait pretty between conception and your last mc? X x

 

[cla]

has anybody bleached there hair while pregnant. im naturally very dark but im blonde at the moment so you could imagine the mess my hair is in lol

 

[daviess3]

Cla I hVe highlights bleach highlights i don't no bout in the root but I have woven highlights an there fine, but I still waited until after 12 weeks as a precaution! X

 

[Pretty Please]

Oh fil i hope u c a good consultant. Only u know honey when to start. It woild be nice if st marys gave u a result that u didnt know and u could fix with meds. However sometimes its just a numbers game unfortunately.

Its really hard decision as the stress and pressure of not being prego when u want to drives u mad intact it drives me crazy and depressed as that is all u can think of - so totally understand ttc straight away but then understand waiting too - hard one honey

I had to wait 2 months, one month for all hcg to go b4 then bloods and 4 weeks for results. (Wanted to have results first b4 ttc again and then if i would of got prego then the wait to turn it around mc again also if we would of ttc again it was a waste of money getting tested etc )Then got prego 2 weeks later. It only takes me one or 2 months max to get prego once the green light is on.

 

[cla]

Cla I hVe highlights bleach highlights i don't no bout in the root but I have woven highlights an there fine, but I still waited until after 12 weeks as a precaution! X

thanks for that you just read so many people say yes its ok and then others say no.
i might just have foils done and nothing put on my scalp

 

[filipenko32]

Thanks pretty, yeah it's the horrible turn around time that I dread! I just think now that 3 doctors have said wait and that chances are higher after waiting one clear cycle to it might be foolish to ignore that advice. I suppose if your hormones are out of whack and your first period is abnormal then it makes sense that the egg might not be the best out of that! Also I want to get the ovarian reserve testing done that they do for ivf and I can only get that done on a 'clear cycle' so would like to wait for that. We are really tempted by the pgd ivf now as I think we have a higher chance if the embryos are being tested too. It is such a hard decision though as we also get pregnant straight way so I suppose ivf is really best for people struggling with that too. But I suspect I've had 2 abnormal losses at least so I'm thinking it takes that chance away and maybe my body doesn't ovulate right to make the best eggs and some man-made hormone control might be the ticket to success!! Hubby is keen on ovf /pgd now too. Have you had 3 or 4 losses pretty after your son? Sorry I can't quite remember x x

 

[daviess3]

Fili hello my lovely I'm not ignoring ur posts I just don't no anything about pgd ivf etc do that's y I'm not commenting I just didn't want u to thi k I was rude, coz ur always so helpful to me!! Xxx

Cla I would do that think it's best to avoid scalp!! X

 

[filipenko32]

Aww thanks Davies but I never think that x x x . I'm so preoccupied with this whole thing ATM and knowing what to do for the best!! Did you have a bit of a wait between this pregnancy and your last mc or was it pretty much straight away?