PAL - February 2013 rainbow babies

[waiting2012]

So very sorry Lily.. Prayers hun that all will be ok!

 

[Sarena]

So sorry to hear that Lilylee. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[waiting2012]

Debzie-such wonderful news about the scan hun... That bit of blleding around the sac- could be subchorionic bleeding.. It sounds scary, but 99% of the time there is no problem... I'm sure your consultant was right-nothing to worry about!
Perpetualmomma-I hear ya about school and the house... We have a small place too and when Wes enlists in the army later this year- we know who will be taking over his room after the first few months.....lol my hubby just redid his student loan and pell grants, but is searching for a fulltime job now instead.. I feel bad cause he wanted to get his Baschelors in Geology or something like that lol
and cant now..
Mrskg-got your message on my 2ww thread- congrats hun! Very nervous.. My ob/gyn wont see me until I reach the 12th week-his crappy policy.. My reg doctor will see me until then..so thats some comfort...
Told my hubby yesterday about pg-he made me mad on Fathers Day..lol..
Sorry for the space below..on my phone and it sucks!



We have not toold mour youngest yet

 

[debzie]

Lillylee so sorry hun I hope Lo is just hiding in there. Keep us posted hun. x

Thanks ladies for all the kind words about my scan. I am still worried about the bleeding. As I am still cramping a lot. Hope these three weeks fly by.

Hello mrskg. Welcome bump buddy. X

 

[Mrskg]

Hi ladies just read through whole thread an I'm biting the bullet an joining x since debzie & waiting outed me

Lilylee I'm so sorry you didn't get good news today x we will all understand if you like us to make a new feb thread x

:wave: debzie & waiting x

Bit about me x I 35 I have 3 daughters 18,14 & 5 x i have had 5 mc's since last july x 1mmc 3xchemical an 1mc x

My last loss was on 17th may I've had no af in between an got my bfp last week think I'm due 21st-23rd feb x I'm trying aspirin & progesterone this time x imwill bet an early scan at 9weeks epu won't do it before then as we saw hb in jan at 8+5 there was a problem with the sac growing that time x I got 2-3 on digi on Sunday never got passed 1-2 with my chemicals so that's one hurdle over but got 3+ with jan loss an it still went wrong so I know this doesn't mean much but taking it as a good sign for now I'm waiting on more digis coming hoping to get 3+ x

Symptoms nausea sore bobs tired & funny feeling in leg had this before an not sure if it's a pregnancy or mc symptom so that's a bit worrying x just trying to take it day by day x

Sending sticky all round xxx

 

[Sarena]

Hi All,

Sorry to be all negative and worried but i'd love input on below-

I got my Beta Hcg levels tested yesterday and they're 78. they will be retested tomorrow. technically I was 4 weeks 3 days yesterday, but i've been testing positive on early tests since the 5th. I've back pain and clearblue conception tests went from "2-3 weeks" all last week to "1-2weeks" for the past 3 days. I have a light clear to yellow/beige mucus type discharge.(TMI i know) Does this sound like the start of MC?

For my chemical last month, AF came without delay or pain. For MMC last year i had tablets and all sorts of problems, including A+E visit. I get the feeling every MC is different.

Has anyone had back pain? Is 78 an ok beta hcg level? I am worried its happening again and would rather know what is to come.

 

[AllMacsNow]

Sarena,

I don't really know what to say. I know that when I had my betas tested for my chemical, it came back 25, and they told me they like to see at least 100, BUT what's important is watching the rise. On average, it should be doubling every 2-3 days... so if its risen by tomorrow, then hopefully all's well for you.

Back pain is ok, and so is your discharge, I think, sweetie. I've got my fingers crossed for you. If you need anyone, we're here, no matter how things turn out for you.

 

[Mrskg]

Sarena x I won't lie digi going down has never been a good sign for me x all my losses have been different even my 3 chemicals x Got everything crossed for you xxx

 

[waiting2012]

Sarena-the hardest thing Ive learned to do since my losses, is to put the hpts do and enjoy today for what it is. The thought of another loss is always there but I dont want to know its coming by some pg test.. Good luck hun.. & at this moment I hate to say but what Mrskg said is exactly what I was thinking..

 

[debzie]

Serena I too dont wIant to bring you down but normal hcg levels at 4 weeks are 50-100 then by 4+3 they should be 100-400. Are you sure about your dates??? It is not the individual number that matters but the next test to see if it is doubling. I hope your 2-3 was just a fluke and thats why you are seeling the 1-2 now. I have everything crossed for you hun.

I have had backpain both low down and in the middle I had this with my mmcs too and so it is a worrying sign for me. I asked about it on Monday at my scan and the midwife said it is a normal pregnancy sign too. The excess progesterone and relaxin make your ligaments and muscles in your back move this can cause pain.

Hello mrskg see you could not hide from me any longer.

 

[Mrskg]

You caught me debzie

Sarena what worries me too is the fact you've been getting bfp's for a fortnight hcg would be higher by now x big I know only to well how you are feeling for me being half prepared helped xxx

 

[Diamonddust]

Hi All,

Sorry to be all negative and worried but i'd love input on below-

I got my Beta Hcg levels tested yesterday and they're 78. they will be retested tomorrow. technically I was 4 weeks 3 days yesterday, but i've been testing positive on early tests since the 5th. I've back pain and clearblue conception tests went from "2-3 weeks" all last week to "1-2weeks" for the past 3 days. I have a light clear to yellow/beige mucus type discharge.(TMI i know) Does this sound like the start of MC?

For my chemical last month, AF came without delay or pain. For MMC last year i had tablets and all sorts of problems, including A+E visit. I get the feeling every MC is different.

Has anyone had back pain? Is 78 an ok beta hcg level? I am worried its happening again and would rather know what is to come.

Sweetie try and be calm, did you take the digi at differant times in the day? X

 

[flutterbaby]

sorry to here the bad news today ladies wish i could help but i know nothing of yolk sacs and hcg level to you tho


phoned the doctors today can't get me in til july 3rd joke my booking in is supposed to be 8 weeks not the doctors appointment then a 3 week wait til booking i'll drive myself crazy till then i'm sure

 

[Sarena]

Thanks everyone for input and support. Even when its not positive news, i always like and appreciate the truth. Its weird but even though odds are totally against me based on signs I'm still thinking maybe it will all be okay-denial i know. Afraid to give up all hope until i get AF or result from Doctor. I'll be in touch when i get result of next test.

 

[Mrskg]

Sarena never give up hope it's all wee have to cling to

 

[Lucky4]

Lily- I'm sorry your scan wasn't good- you should still hope for the best but prepare for the worst. I know what it's like to have to wait for that week fir another scan. This happened to me, then at 8 weeks there was a tiny fetus, then I had to wait another week, by 9 weeks the scan showed no change and I had erpc . The baby had trisomy 2 which was why not developing properly. It was a nightmare because I kept hoping for those 2 weeks. I hope this isn't the same for you, try to stay strong

 

[saysib]

So sorry for the news at your scan today Lily, like the others I have everything crossed that it was just dificult to see today.

I had a scare over the weekend after some pain in my left side. I went to the dr hoping they would give me some laxatives (as I have IBS and thought for sure I just needed to go) and they sent me straight to EPU convinced I was having an ectopic. EPU werent too worried as I'd had no bleeding, but I had a blood test and they booked my scan for this morning. I was supposed to do a 24 hour repeat blood test, but they called and said my numbers were nice and high so they didnt think I needed to bother going back - not sure how they could tell things were ok or not from one set of bloods alone, but she seemed very positive. Had the scan today and baby is in the uterus, measuring 6 weeks (3mm) and the tech saw a heartbeat I know things can still go wrong, but both my mcs were before 6 weeks gestation so I'm daring to be hopeful, plus I feel like crap which is apparently a good sign.

 

[waiting2012]

I was wondering how many people know of your pregnancy? I have been sitting here pondering on whether I should let my parents know.. They live in Kansas, we are in Texas and my dads health is not the best, my mothernlaw-I can not stand and yet this bean is due around her birthday not that I expect this PG to suddenly bond us..my husbands aunt and her family make me feel aweful because her daughternlaw has had managed to have 3 successful pgs without tycoon in the last 6 years with the most recent born this past March..Jason says they don't think bad of me, but I'm sure they wonder why we keep ttc to only have loss after loss. I want to remain positive but between finding out others are facing loss and my ob appt is so far away.. I feel a bit guilty for worrying about something so trivial yet happy for what today has brought so far for me. I know that telling people just means that many people to tell when its lost and I don't know if I could take so many "I'm sorrys" over again or the not feeling comfortable around the hubby's family. Sorry if I'm rambling I'm sure its. Just the hormones.

 

[waiting2012]

Excuse my phone.. it autocorrected some of my words.

 

[flutterbaby]

I was wondering how many people know of your pregnancy? I have been sitting here pondering on whether I should let my parents know.. They live in Kansas, we are in Texas and my dads health is not the best, my mothernlaw-I can not stand and yet this bean is due around her birthday not that I expect this PG to suddenly bond us..my husbands aunt and her family make me feel aweful because her daughternlaw has had managed to have 3 successful pgs without tycoon in the last 6 years with the most recent born this past March..Jason says they don't think bad of me, but I'm sure they wonder why we keep ttc to only have loss after loss. I want to remain positive but between finding out others are facing loss and my ob appt is so far away.. I feel a bit guilty for worrying about something so trivial yet happy for what today has brought so far for me. I know that telling people just means that many people to tell when its lost and I don't know if I could take so many "I'm sorrys" over again or the not feeling comfortable around the hubby's family. Sorry if I'm rambling I'm sure its. Just the hormones.

i'm not telling anyone after the mc in fed ill be telling people when i know for sure its a sticky bean i dont think my mom could cope with a loss again