It definitley is difficult and I re-located whilst on Maternity leave late last year so was unable to transfer within the company I worked for!
I think it's daft how the government don't make it easy for us mums to return to work especially with the cost of childcare etc.
I have however started working for myself at home and am building my business, it maybe worth you looking down the similat route - Direct selling.
I wasn't sure at first but there are many different companies out there and if you do look into it, it's more a case of choosing one that you feel comfotable with and can relate to the products and be passionate about.
I choose the company I work for due to the family friendly products and the fact it's new to the UK so gives me huge potential to grow and the fact i love the products which sel themselves means i don't have to worry about 'selling' them.
I work it around my little girl and can work it how i want as there are so many different ways to sell and the flexibilty is fab.
I'm nor sure if this informaiton will help but just though I would suggest it as another option to look into, especially with the job market the way it currently is - more and more are considering this line of work.
If you would like to know more about the company I work for please just ask and i'll be happy to send some info but otherwise i hope this has helped a little and wish you well with everything and hope you find something suitable asap
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