Hey im new. I hope I dont get verbally bashed on here but I am hoping for some advice. Firstly I am not trying to have a baby currently and until a few months ago was adament I didnt want children. Then this happened.
I have PCOS and Endometriosis supposedly and was told this several years ago. I had the symptoms of bad periods, pain, spotty skin etc. Have been on various contraceptive pills to help with the symptoms but I dont react well to the pill so I have had many gaps of not taking it too. I was told I would have very low fertility if I wanted to conceive. Thats fine, I dont want children.
At Christmas I finally had enough of the side affects of yet another pill and decided to come off it and use the persona machine as I have done before. You have to be off the pill 3 months before you can use it. Partner and I used a combination of condoms and 'pulling out' method with me saying how its all fine as I cant really have kids blah blah. Well my January period was late and very light but to be expected I thought due to stopping my pill. Februarys didnt arrive so eventually in March OH makes me do a test and im pregnant.
What is the chance of that happening? I was off the pill just under 3 weeks when I caught. We had only been together 7 months at the time and dont even live together and he didnt think he could afford it and I certainly cant manage on my own, I live in a rented room. So I had a temination in March. At the time I wanted to keep it, I really did and I have never been so upset. I still am. Please dont judge me over the termination, I did what I thought was best for an unplanned pregnancy. I thought it was hormones making me want to keep it as I never wanted children, even back when I was married. But that was March and now its July and I still wish I had kept it and now I know when the time is right I would like a child.
What are my chances of conceiving again? Was it a fluke? The lady doctor said I should keep it in case I cant get pregnant again, but I couldnt keep it. Can these health issues go away on their own? I no longer have any pains and my only symptom now is spotty skin and maybe I am just spotty.
Im 33 and thought I knew what I wanted. Now im all over the place emotionally. I cant stop crying. Then to top it off OH got a massive payrise and is now saying if this had all happened 3 months later he would have wanted me to keep it as he can afford it now.
I have PCOS and Endometriosis supposedly and was told this several years ago. I had the symptoms of bad periods, pain, spotty skin etc. Have been on various contraceptive pills to help with the symptoms but I dont react well to the pill so I have had many gaps of not taking it too. I was told I would have very low fertility if I wanted to conceive. Thats fine, I dont want children.
At Christmas I finally had enough of the side affects of yet another pill and decided to come off it and use the persona machine as I have done before. You have to be off the pill 3 months before you can use it. Partner and I used a combination of condoms and 'pulling out' method with me saying how its all fine as I cant really have kids blah blah. Well my January period was late and very light but to be expected I thought due to stopping my pill. Februarys didnt arrive so eventually in March OH makes me do a test and im pregnant.
What is the chance of that happening? I was off the pill just under 3 weeks when I caught. We had only been together 7 months at the time and dont even live together and he didnt think he could afford it and I certainly cant manage on my own, I live in a rented room. So I had a temination in March. At the time I wanted to keep it, I really did and I have never been so upset. I still am. Please dont judge me over the termination, I did what I thought was best for an unplanned pregnancy. I thought it was hormones making me want to keep it as I never wanted children, even back when I was married. But that was March and now its July and I still wish I had kept it and now I know when the time is right I would like a child.
What are my chances of conceiving again? Was it a fluke? The lady doctor said I should keep it in case I cant get pregnant again, but I couldnt keep it. Can these health issues go away on their own? I no longer have any pains and my only symptom now is spotty skin and maybe I am just spotty.
Im 33 and thought I knew what I wanted. Now im all over the place emotionally. I cant stop crying. Then to top it off OH got a massive payrise and is now saying if this had all happened 3 months later he would have wanted me to keep it as he can afford it now.
