Mommy2Kian
Kaden and Sian :)
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when i went for my detail scan, we had to see the consultant, i asked the consultant about having a private room, just because with having a 4 year old, i dont want him running up and down screaming, etc, also having a c-section i wanted comfort, we were wiling to pay.
She looked at me and said, u dont need to ask this, you will more than likely get a "private" room anyway...last thing u want is to be on a ward with women who have given birth to "normal babies" when yours might not be...
that hurt, and it's played on my mind since
it was the way she said it, no compassion or anything like im gonna get slung to one side with a none normal baby
If my baby isnt "normal" i dont care he will have all the love any "normal" baby would have. I just want my baby to get better, i want this fluid to go away, i dont want him to have an operation as soon as i have him i want to hold him and take him home.
I feel so angry sometimes!
Sorry, i have good days and bad, today seems to be a bad day
xXx
She looked at me and said, u dont need to ask this, you will more than likely get a "private" room anyway...last thing u want is to be on a ward with women who have given birth to "normal babies" when yours might not be...
that hurt, and it's played on my mind since
it was the way she said it, no compassion or anything like im gonna get slung to one side with a none normal baby
If my baby isnt "normal" i dont care he will have all the love any "normal" baby would have. I just want my baby to get better, i want this fluid to go away, i dont want him to have an operation as soon as i have him i want to hold him and take him home.
I feel so angry sometimes!
Sorry, i have good days and bad, today seems to be a bad day
xXx