so mad at hubby! today is cd 14. he is going away until sunday. i took my nephew to my moms so we could dtd and he left the house! and told me stop bugging him about it. i quit. i'm tired of begging him. i'm not taking the clomid next month. i'm too stressed out about it all. he pretty much threw this month out the door. we haven't dtd since cd 11, which was prob way too early. i hate men!
Hey, I so understand your frustration!
My DH and I, we agreed on me not telling him when it would be the day to DTD as we didn't "get things to work" (if you know what I mean
) when he knew. Maybe your hubby feels put under pressure a little as well? Men sometimes cannot handle having to BD because it's the right time.
I tried to explain to my DH, that month after month I swallow pills that are not exactly healthy but necessary since I don't ovulate by myself. And that there are many reasons why we don't get to BD right before ovuation - the LO we already have, business trips, me or him getting ill.... and that considering these things, it makes me feel so hopeless when then, he comes along telling me that he doesn't feel like BD'ing today, or that he want's to watch tv instead etc.
So, DH telling you that your DH doesn't feel like BDing and then even leaving the house, that's just not very cooperative.
And I hated when the fertility center called and told me to BD this very day - after a stressy day for me and DH. I somehow managed to get him into the mood... prepared nice dinner, put LO to bed, tried to keep all the stress away from him... and it worked.
Then... it's so difficult to keep away stress from the DH and get into the mood yourself, when in fact you are so mad because of what he's doing. Like this would be only for yourself.
I'd talk to him and also take a break with the clomid if you want that. And maybe even try to sort things out between you two. I hope things work out okay.