I have been dating my current girlfriend for 5 months. The first 4 1/2 months were amazing she is the greatest woman I have ever known and is everything I have ever wanted in a woman. we're now engaged without a set date. I use to bring her flowers,food, and chocolate and she loved it But since she was about 6 weeks pregnant she has been increasingly standoffish she has stopped responding to texts, she has stopped calling, she has zero desire to hangout, she gets mad if I try to discuss our future. The past few days however have been an absolute nightmare She left Friday to visit her parents for the weekend and we had planned that I would go Sunday night and have dinner with everyone. Friday night she basically freaks out over text telling me she's stressed,frustrated, and she just needs some space. She texted a little friday night but just simple stuff I hope you're having a good day nothing affectionate,loving, or any sign that she still cares. Since Friday she hasn't told me she loves me and normally she always says i love you in the morning and at night but this entire weekend she hasn't said anything even remotely giving me the impression she loves me and it's killing me. She doesn't want to talk on the phone and she texted me about 3 times yesterday sounding like a coworker just saying things like hope you had a good day.. no baby, no i love you, nothing. she told me I was an amazing person but she needs space. I have been slightly clingy lately due to her pushing me away because I love this girl to death and she use to tell me I was perfect and her soulmate now she seems unsure and the other night she said she still thinks I'm I sincerely don't want to lose this girl...Things use to be so perfect. I'm doing my best not to contact her but it's the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life. She has told me in the past weeks that her hormones are going crazy but i don't know if this is me or hormones. Can somebody please give me some advice. is it hormones wrecking my soul-mates life? or is she trying to breakup with me but can't find the courage. I'm really really broken hearted without hearing her talk or seeing her and especially her not telling me she loves me. it's killing me. What should I do?? I'm going to not contact her until Wednesday but we work together Wednesday so I have to see her and I don't know how I should act, and Thursday morning is the 8 week ultrasound so I will see her there to and I just don't know what to do. we use to kiss,hug,hold hands now she doesn't even communicate with me at all this is so heartbreaking. Also she says I'm always serious now but that's because I can't joke with her anymore she is so serious around me and everything I say she takes the wrong way
I sincerely appreciate anybody who reads this and gives any advice it would be greatly appreciated and I'm sorry for the long post.
I sincerely appreciate anybody who reads this and gives any advice it would be greatly appreciated and I'm sorry for the long post.