sethsmummy
mum to 3 beautiful boys
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kalyrra - lol i said that to her hun.. i just looked straight at her and said its not going for free "ooo mates rates then" i laughed and said its going nowhere for less than £50 since its costing me £100. Like you say i cant afford to fork out all this money then just give it all away... not a chance.. I will be making money back to go towards christmas or birthdays or something like that.
Jellycat - omg hun thats awful how they just took baby off of you! I hope you put your foot down this time and people respect your wishes... especially dh.. he should be putting across the same wishes as you! When i had Seth i had no visitors for 2 days.. i had told in-laws they were not allowed to the hospital but my folks came down on the sunday and took me home. As soon as my mum walked into the room her words were "gimme" lol but i didnt mind she looked so proud and id had by 1 day bonding with him. I wont be having anybody around late.. if people are still here at 7pm they will be asked to leave. I just cant believe they would just walk off with baby especially when you were still trying to establish breast feeding! My MIL didnt see seth till he was 3 days old.. and tbh shes not seen a lot of him since lol we do not get on.. and id rather she came nowhere near Ethan when he is born bbut no doubt i will have to put up with a visit. But to say im having a section they can just wait a while before they come. I'm not having them up until i can get around easily and deal with Ethan by myself.
No she has one friend who has a baby and thats it. I lived over 100 miles away when i had seth so she didnt see me through pregnancy or until he was a few weeks old.. and even then it was only once. We moved back up scotland when he was 2 months old. Even with his things she was like "ooo your keeping them for me aren't you"... and i said no im selling them to whoever wants to buy them actually or i gave bits away to people/family who needed them hense why i have so much to buy this time round. She has other "friends" who are due babies but she doesn't see them a lot. I cant wait till she finally manages to get pregnant and i hope she has someone thats as in her face as she has been with me. She thinks she is owed everything in life.. her and her boyfriend are like that. I'v lost count of the amount of times they have come to visit and stayed well past tea time so if we have had a take away we have had to buy for them too... and not once have they bought one back in over a year! So now we just don't even bother offering them one. They both live with her mum and she kicks off about giving her mum £100 a month towards bills and things... Her bf gives her mum nothing towards bills yet they have both lived together there for years. They spend all their money on their cars.. her bf is sometimes real nice and buys a lot of seth.. infact he spoils him which makes her jelous. lol imagine being jelous of a toddler! It's going to be even worse with Ethan here as once Ethan is old enough he will probably spoil him too. She has never been faithful to her bf and has cheated on him with 4 other men, including married men with pregnant wifes!! I'm afraid she is in for one hell of a shock when she finally moves our or her mum kicks her out with how much life actually costs. If shes gonna moan about handing over £100 a month for bills... i cant imagine what she will be like paying out 2/3 times that much just for rent!
argh sorry that turned into a right rant.. i guess she has been more annoying than usual lately
respect to you laides if any of you read right through that lol.
Miwi- did you get your breakfast made huni? xxx
Jellycat - omg hun thats awful how they just took baby off of you! I hope you put your foot down this time and people respect your wishes... especially dh.. he should be putting across the same wishes as you! When i had Seth i had no visitors for 2 days.. i had told in-laws they were not allowed to the hospital but my folks came down on the sunday and took me home. As soon as my mum walked into the room her words were "gimme" lol but i didnt mind she looked so proud and id had by 1 day bonding with him. I wont be having anybody around late.. if people are still here at 7pm they will be asked to leave. I just cant believe they would just walk off with baby especially when you were still trying to establish breast feeding! My MIL didnt see seth till he was 3 days old.. and tbh shes not seen a lot of him since lol we do not get on.. and id rather she came nowhere near Ethan when he is born bbut no doubt i will have to put up with a visit. But to say im having a section they can just wait a while before they come. I'm not having them up until i can get around easily and deal with Ethan by myself.
No she has one friend who has a baby and thats it. I lived over 100 miles away when i had seth so she didnt see me through pregnancy or until he was a few weeks old.. and even then it was only once. We moved back up scotland when he was 2 months old. Even with his things she was like "ooo your keeping them for me aren't you"... and i said no im selling them to whoever wants to buy them actually or i gave bits away to people/family who needed them hense why i have so much to buy this time round. She has other "friends" who are due babies but she doesn't see them a lot. I cant wait till she finally manages to get pregnant and i hope she has someone thats as in her face as she has been with me. She thinks she is owed everything in life.. her and her boyfriend are like that. I'v lost count of the amount of times they have come to visit and stayed well past tea time so if we have had a take away we have had to buy for them too... and not once have they bought one back in over a year! So now we just don't even bother offering them one. They both live with her mum and she kicks off about giving her mum £100 a month towards bills and things... Her bf gives her mum nothing towards bills yet they have both lived together there for years. They spend all their money on their cars.. her bf is sometimes real nice and buys a lot of seth.. infact he spoils him which makes her jelous. lol imagine being jelous of a toddler! It's going to be even worse with Ethan here as once Ethan is old enough he will probably spoil him too. She has never been faithful to her bf and has cheated on him with 4 other men, including married men with pregnant wifes!! I'm afraid she is in for one hell of a shock when she finally moves our or her mum kicks her out with how much life actually costs. If shes gonna moan about handing over £100 a month for bills... i cant imagine what she will be like paying out 2/3 times that much just for rent!
argh sorry that turned into a right rant.. i guess she has been more annoying than usual lately
respect to you laides if any of you read right through that lol.Miwi- did you get your breakfast made huni? xxx
I'm being a bit rubbish with my replies but I'm reading everything and wishing you all well - I'm just too grumpy/sick/tired to say anything constructive lol. Xxx
Dont you worry about keeping up with replies hun just concentrate of keeping well 
wanted to wish you ladies a happy holiday. 
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that sounds good USAF 
glad he is doing better with it hun. 
got to sleep then had to go pee... repeat cycle.. so 5:30am hit and i thought fk it im up lol. Thought id check all my ladies first before i go start peeling potatoes. Seth didnt goto sleep till 11pm so its going to be 8/9am before he gets up. the wait is going to kill me lol xxxx
