Hi everyone. :wave:
I don't really know where to begin
I thought everything was fine.. I have tried convincing myself that everything is ok...
I am living in Spain, away from all support except for my husband.. he is wonderful though.
Having lots of issues with anxiety.. and intrusive thoughts.
Not of wanting to hurt my baby or myself.. but constant thoughts of something happening to him or to me so I can't be there for him. The anxiety gets really bad.. sometimes I have trouble leaving the house because of worries...
we might get hit by a car, someone might grab him/take him away etc etc... I am really struggling with it all.
And.. it hasn't been easy lately because LO has been ill, teething and cranky. I find myself suddenly getting really angry and then bursting out crying..
What really clued me in to the thought that i could have PND was one day LO was really having a bad day and the thought of just putting him in the pram and leaving him somewhere just popped into my head.. it really scared me...
Why would I ever have a thought like that?????????????
also.. when he was really screaming I put my hand over his mouth to stop him.. that scared me too. because i was angry when i did it.
I didn't hurt him.. and i didn't want to hurt him.. but it scared me that I responded with anger towards my 10 month old baby.
I am just trying to keep it all together until I get to Canada in October. I have this crazy fear that someone here will take LO away if I tell them.. the doctor etc.
I am just so fearful all the time, don't trust anyone and feel anxious.
thanks for this forum.