positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[FngrsCrossed]

Your temp is still good. And there aren't any clots so progesterone would probably help. Yes they are all in heaven together. But this one is going to stay put!

You know I was at the BBQ the other day. There was a lady there, amongst us that ws talking about her pregnancies. She said "Well I am going to be honest, I am a pill head." "I took pills with all of my kids and they are fine." This is because I was offered a drink and refused because I am temping and TTC. I was almost too through. I don't know if they realize how fragile life is, and a pregnancy is even more fragile than anything. So I am with you, I don't understand it. I have had 2 early m/c's and a second tri loss. I have never been one to experiment with drugs but I couldn't imagine doing that while pregnant. Popping pills to no end? Putting that in my babies body? I think my cervix is incompetent. I had a Laser surgery to remove cancer after my DS1 (in 2000) I started having problems with preterm labor after that. Now we are at the keep losing babies stage.

This can still go well Stacey I just know it can. With prayer and diligence on the Dr.'s part it can. Those suppositories are better than the pills. I am going to keep praying for you and little baby. I have Faith if nothing else. And I know this situation can change.

 

[mommapowers32]

Oh no stacey! I'm praying for you hopefully ob can figure someting out. Hugs!!

 

[staceyj83]

the only open is at 4:15 till then take it easy and keep my feet up i just keep praying to god to let my baby be ok i have not always been the person or the woman iam today but i have never done drugs or drink while pregnant my sister did both with both of her pregnancies with her very first pregnancy she called me and told me she wanted to lose the baby because she wanted to drink and about 3 days later she got her wish i know one girl that didnt even know she was pregnant till her 5 month because she was to busy getting high when she took a test she went to have an Abortion thinking she was a month or 2 when they did the sono the lady told oh we cant do it she asked why and the lady because you are 5 months pregnant with a boy

 

[mommapowers32]

the only open is at 4:15 till then take it easy and keep my feet up i just keep praying to god to let my baby be ok i have not always been the person or the woman iam today but i have never done drugs or drink while pregnant my sister did both with both of her pregnancies with her very first pregnancy she called me and told me she wanted to lose the baby because she wanted to drink and about 3 days later she got her wish i know one girl that didnt even know she was pregnant till her 5 month because she was to busy getting high when she took a test she went to have an Abortion thinking she was a month or 2 when they did the sono the lady told oh we cant do it she asked why and the lady because you are 5 months pregnant with a boy

That's so sad why would anyone do that ... I had someone do that, but I convinced them to.not abort and to give the baby up for adoption bc they weren't in a spot to.have a baby they were homeless etc.

Keep taken it easy and I'm praying for you and little baby.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

the only open is at 4:15 till then take it easy and keep my feet up i just keep praying to god to let my baby be ok i have not always been the person or the woman iam today but i have never done drugs or drink while pregnant my sister did both with both of her pregnancies with her very first pregnancy she called me and told me she wanted to lose the baby because she wanted to drink and about 3 days later she got her wish i know one girl that didnt even know she was pregnant till her 5 month because she was to busy getting high when she took a test she went to have an Abortion thinking she was a month or 2 when they did the sono the lady told oh we cant do it she asked why and the lady because you are 5 months pregnant with a boy

Yes, please take it easy. I wish they had an earlier opening, but a late opening is better than no opening at all. When I tried to get one at the Dr. it was ages later before they gave me an appt. I lost the baby by then.

I can't imagine wanting to lose a baby. Was she the least bit phased by it or not. I am sure she has to have some sort of regrets. I guess drinking has never been that important to me. I figure the only thing I am missing is a hangover and headache the next day. If and when I do have a drink it's usually very light and a special occasion. I don't have drinks on a regular basis. If I drank, and i mean really drank, I would probably be drunk for years as opposed to how others would sober up by the next day. I will have wine with dinner at a restaurant sometimes, or a glass of wine for a birthday. But nothing more.


I jsut don't get not knowing that you are 5 months pregnant. I know their are women out there, But when you period goes MIA, high or not it should be noticed. And then the other things like the growing stomach, and fluttering feeling. Not everyone has nausea, but everyone feels the flutters at some point. If your stomach is fluttering and your neer actually have the gas to explain it then that means something is up.

kinda off topic:
I am also not the woman I used to be. I wasn't a "bad girl", but I wasn't and still am not a saint. I just never did the "drugs" thing. I have seen people on them and that was enough for me. I saw how stupid they looked and how they made some really poor choices, and knew for a fact I wasn't interested. For goodness sake I don't even have a tattoo...lol neither does my DH. I did think about it before. I even thought about getting my babies footprints on me after the loss. But I didn't. Felt convicted so I didn't do it. I have nothing against tattoos, some that I have seen are just amazingly beautiful; and have meaning. I feel like if a person is going to get one then at least let it have some sort of real meaning. My SIL has on on her shoulder blade. I love it...it's music notes (a G-clef and F clef) the F-clef is upside down. It makes it look like a music note love heart. She sings and loves music, so it has meaning. Plus it's not huge, it's simple and girlie.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Well TCOYF has given me a CL...97.5 All of my temps are under the CL, so maybe that is a good sign. So I guess the egg will be following soon. I am hoping for a positive opk today. Not getting my hopes up. I wouldn't be surprised if those Wondfo's don't give me a blazing positive. I used all of my Digi's Gosh I have got to be one of the most impatient, glutton for punishment, and dopy women in the world. I knew better than to use my digi's..I really did, but did I quit while i was ahead? NOOOO....Thought the Wondfo's were telling me a lie....Now I could really use a digi and don't have even one to speak of. I guess I will have to wait for DH to get off and bring some to me. Which means I will have to save my pee if the Wondfo isn't really dark. I will say that my digi's have had a dark strip along the side, but it hasn't been a full fledged blazing positive. Just the dark strip on the side that stays even after it's dried. I used my microscope and got Full ferning (again). Which is making me question the other ferning, maybe that was partial ferning...

 

[staceyj83]

nope she didnt care at all and the other she didnt even look pregnant and said the baby had not moved as for her af she had PID at one time so she didnt get af like she should have she would goes months without it so she didnt think anything of it she lived right next to me at the time i would never had guessed she was pregnant and i saw her everyday because her little girl would come over to play at the time she hadnt had af for 7 months she said the only reason she took one was because she did start feeling nausea she now has a cute little to who she does love very much i have never been a drinker my self every once in a blue ill have a drink as for tattoo i do have them i have 17 of them i dont have dumb ones mine all have meaning to me i have a rose with tears for my son my first pregnancy i lost then on the back of my neck i have a heart that is half pink and half blue with the years that i lost my babies i have dd#1 name on me with a big heart and i have plans to get DD#2 names on me with a monkey hanging off of it because we call her are little because she hung on when i was pregnant with her at my first sono the doctor said it looked like i had ectopic pregnancy again i went home and cried and prayed went back to have my hcg retested and it had jump to over 6000 so to high for that and that is what im worried about this time to if i wear the right clothes you cant tell i have any at all but i think of tattoos the same way i think of art dh has 4 he just got his 4th one yesterday as a birthday gift he got alices name put on him

 

[FngrsCrossed]

nope she didnt care at all and the other she didnt even look pregnant and said the baby had not moved as for her af she had PID at one time so she didnt get af like she should have she would goes months without it so she didnt think anything of it she lived right next to me at the time i would never had guessed she was pregnant and i saw her everyday because her little girl would come over to play at the time she hadnt had af for 7 months she said the only reason she took one was because she did start feeling nausea she now has a cute little to who she does love very much i have never been a drinker my self every once in a blue ill have a drink as for tattoo i do have them i have 17 of them i dont have dumb ones mine all have meaning to me i have a rose with tears for my son my first pregnancy i lost then on the back of my neck i have a heart that is half pink and half blue with the years that i lost my babies i have dd#1 name on me with a big heart and i have plans to get DD#2 names on me with a monkey hanging off of it because we call her are little because she hung on when i was pregnant with her at my first sono the doctor said it looked like i had ectopic pregnancy again i went home and cried and prayed went back to have my hcg retested and it had jump to over 6000 so to high for that and that is what im worried about this time to if i wear the right clothes you cant tell i have any at all but i think of tattoos the same way i think of art dh has 4 he just got his 4th one yesterday as a birthday gift he got alices name put on him

Well that's sad she didn't care. And as far as the other one glad she eventually found out. Or she could have been on an episode of I didn't know I was pregnant, giving birth in a bathroom.

I think of them as art also. 17 is a lot. you have a high tolerance for pain then! My other SIL got one on her foot. She was biting her phone to death it hurt so bad. I was trying not to laugh at her, she was going cross eyed and red in the face. She has had it filled in with more color a couple times, but she wants another one. She got that one when she was pregnant with my niece. Tattoo artist didn't know she was pregnant. She is a little overweight, so he probably figured she was just fat. If I were to cave and do it, I would get it on my side in a stepping design. So that would be to left and two right feet. And a whole lot of pain. lol

 

[L.E.]

Stacey, I really hope it's just a random bleed for you! My friend bled and spotted and I think even had some clots the first 9 or 10 weeks and is about 36 weeks now. Hugs and prayers, and I hope you get good news at the doctors!

 

[L.E.]

For me, either I have progesterone issues, weak ovulation, or I never O'd. I'm still leaning towards not Oing, but we'll see. My cm pattern looks appropriate on my chart, but I've really had a hard time knowing what to put. While there has been white to it all but a few days, most days it has been very watery too. Sooo I don't know. Plus I never had the positive opk. I thought temping would give me more answers, but so far it only tells me that I'm not pregnant. This might be my second time having "fake O" temps.

 

[staceyj83]

yes i do have a very high tolerance for pain anyone who can play on facebook while in labor and not have any pain meds them can take a lot of pain no one believe me till i post a pic of me standing up play on my phone my sister had bleeding with both of her kids i have had bleeding in the past but that was with the 3 pregnancies i lost yea she is lucky now she will test once a month just to make tho af does come a little more normal for her now as for now no spotting last time i went to the restroom watch now that i said something it will be back i told dh if i lose this baby i cant try again im just not that strong if it happens on its own ok but no more temping or opks or watching for o signs

 

[staceyj83]

For me, either I have progesterone issues, weak ovulation, or I never O'd. I'm still leaning towards not Oing, but we'll see. My cm pattern looks appropriate on my chart, but I've really had a hard time knowing what to put. While there has been white to it all but a few days, most days it has been very watery too. Sooo I don't know. Plus I never had the positive opk. I thought temping would give me more answers, but so far it only tells me that I'm not pregnant. This might be my second time having "fake O" temps.

they say to chart your cm with the most fertile quality of the day so say you start with creamy cm then later you see you have watery cm you would chart the watery cm not the creamy because watery has the most fertile quality hope that helps

 

[L.E.]

Oh yea and this morning my basal thermometer and regular digi matched, but my quick-read was way higher...I'm just going to trust the my basal thermometer is right, but it's still frustrating that they can't all agree...

 

[L.E.]

Well it's creamy and watery together is the issue... TMI but it will look watery all over my fingers, but under my nail is white, sometimes thicker, sometimes thinner, but it went to a little less of it all, but started picking back up yesterday and there has been quite a bit now... Just took an opk and it is still very light. If I didn't O, my body could at least be kind and O soon!

My friend was very fortunate but she did have (I think) 7 previous losses and a lot of health problems and a DD who is 7. Soooo previous losses and blood don't always end badly. For me, though, the only time I had bleeding was with my chemical. With DS, I did spot one bathroom trip for him but that was it and I think it was a tiny bit. Hang in there, Stacey. I hope the bleeding stays away.

 

[mommapowers32]

I spotted with Tanner after dh and I bd ... It was a heavy amount to your cervix could just be really soft .. my bf had a placenta sub corionic bleed and it heald on its own.

My opk is a little darker but not positive. Oh well.

Tattoos I love I have none because I'm chicken but my husband has a flag sleeve and another one on his atm. I'll be getting one that makes the music note heart the treble clef and base clef I was in band and face so music is apart of my life

 

[staceyj83]

im hoping like heck its not bad i know the bleed isnt from bd because we havent dtd in a few days im trying to keep my hope and faith

 

[FngrsCrossed]

I spotted with Tanner after dh and I bd ... It was a heavy amount to your cervix could just be really soft .. my bf had a placenta sub corionic bleed and it heald on its own.

My opk is a little darker but not positive. Oh well.

Tattoos I love I have none because I'm chicken but my husband has a flag sleeve and another one on his atm. I'll be getting one that makes the music note heart the treble clef and base clef I was in band and face so music is apart of my life

I had one with my DS2...scared the heck out of me. The blood just reabsorbed back into the placenta and he was fine.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

im hoping like heck its not bad i know the bleed isnt from bd because we havent dtd in a few days im trying to keep my hope and faith

I am glad that you haven't seen anymore. We are keeping hope with you. Just keep chillaxin' with the feet up.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Ladies i am soooo confused with these opk's. I swear I need a digital! I can't tell if they are positve or not. I think I am at the beginning of my surge. If I had a digi I could look at the stick and tell where I am....here are my pics. In the second pic you can see the thin dark strip down the side on the test line. They look equal to me for some reason, which makes me think my surge is on it's way up.

 

[staceyj83]

very close i would say it will be pos tomorrow