positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[FngrsCrossed]

L.E.

It's three hours of undisturbed sleep. But that doesn't mean if you wake and turn over, or wake to look at the clock. As long as you can go back to sleep that's all that matters. A lot of women (myself included) don't notice a dramatic temp difference from waking and going back to sleep. I am a light sleeper, if I hear a creek I will wake. I have had success with charting despite popping up in the middle of the night.

You made me feel better about that temp drop. Thank you so much. What I figured happened is, I got hot, as I usually do and uncovered myself close to the time I temp. So I am going to stop temping. I am so done with that. That isn't even a good thing to temp like that after a +...

I went to a christian clinic today and did an hpt there and got a Dr. referral. So I won't be going to my usual Dr. The Dr.'s office I will be going to has high risk Dr.'s located inside the office. So no need to be referred by my Dr. anymore. So here is my test, and I will admit I have now confessed out loud to myself I am indeed pregnant!! So maybe now I will add my ticker?! I have allowed myself to get a little excited. First appt 4/6/12!!!

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. for temping..you suppose to have 3 huors of uninterrupted sleep which means sleep for 3 hours straight. And i know what you mean about cervix check. It does seem like the vg takes different forms at times. It made it too difficult for me sooo i stopped doing that

Fngrs-Yes you better put that ticker up woman! And your lines are definately getting darker.

AFM, soo i was bored and started messing with the temps again and realized that once my temps are 97.91 and higher and stay that way for 2 days straight..then I will get my crosshairs on wednesday yay

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Lighting was bad on my pic...but it is darker in person!! Plus she reassured me that my lines were fine as far as intensity. So I am good to go ladies, I am feeling better. Plus she prayed with me for a HH9M and a safe delivary and for DH and I to be able to enjoy rearing this child. defo feeling better...sleepy, hungry, hurting boobies and back...But A-O.K.

Now it's time for you ladies to get the big O going so we can scrutinize those hpt's!! I am ready and rid of my line eye, to give good scrutinizing!!!

 

[mzswizz]

Atleast your mind is at ease and you can now enjoy your pregnancy And im definately positive that i o'd yesterday so whether i get my crosshairs or not...i know for a fact that it was yesterday just because of the MASSIVE temp drop yesterday.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Crosshairs are always good!!! I used to tinker with mine too MsSwizz! to see what was going to transpire. You know I think it helps with timing BD'ing a little better. So if it's possible to get those crosshairs in the next few days, then you can BD more than once! Your Dh seems to have more energy than mine, lmfo with mine I risk a tap out if BD'ing goes on too many days in a row!! Now BD'ing is no longer the case thank GOD!! It's now fun again!! yay!! dtd yesterday for fun, and saw a spot of blood...soooo he isn't going to be able to get any for a while. I think it's because he hit my cervix! Hurt like the devil! I yelled ouch!! So I know that's what that was. He is quarantined though! Until I see our bean on a screen!

 

[mzswizz]

we would've dtd on ov day if we were home. but we spent the night at his mom's house so we can watch over her until her sister came over so we wasnt able to dtd yesterday. But the 2 days pre-o we dtd more than once on those days So hoping that should cover the bases

 

[mzswizz]

Currently, Im on cd26. And I am confident im 2dpo today. My temp this morning was 97.98 yay Now I just need tomorrow's temp to be above 97.91 and I will get my crosshairs I go back to work tomorrow and I get off around 2:15pm which is great because I don't enjoy staying there until closing. I totally forgot to say that DH bought a new car like two weeks ago We love it...Well because it was the car I always wanted (2007 Scion TC). It's perfect. But now my car needs to get fixed It is not driving correctly and is making some disturbing sounds so I have to get that done asap so my car doesn't give out on me. Well, for the past few days..I have been having a small amount creamy cm soo im pretty i o'd because it looks like soon..it will be the dry spell compared to the large amount of watery cm i was getting in the previous days before ov. Well atleast now I know when I o'd this cycle. So now its time for a countdown. I will be testing on April 6th which I will be 12dpo by then. I will test with the ic because I only have the cb digis and dont want to use those until I know for sure. So 10 more days before testing yay. This time around..Im going to actually wait the 10 days Hoping to get a positive this cycle. I've been trying sooo hard. God please bless us with our own LO

 

[L.E.]

mzswizz, I see your temp went way up!! Woohoo!!

 

[mzswizz]

yes im super happy. finally in the tww

 

[L.E.]

So exciting for you! Now if only I knew for sure where I was at in this cycle... all I know for sure is that today is CD48 and I had 2 bfns today at (maybe) 9 dpo and my opks are still negative. I felt crampy off an on the past couple days with yesterday being the most often/noticeable, but other than that (and a headache all day yesterday), I feel pretty normal. These long cycles are awful! I shouldn't complain too much because it's better than bleeding all the time like I used to do!!

 

[L.E.]

My brain is in TTC over-drive as usual so I'm going to try to take a couple days off peeing on sticks and looking things up. Keep updating if you're on here, but I'm going to try to avoid getting on here during the next couple (2 or 3) days too. I'll be so excited to read the updates when I get back on.

 

[mzswizz]

Cant wait for you to come back from your break L.E. I understand what you mean though because sometimes I need to take breaks myself to just get away from stressing over ttc so a break will do some good. And I like/dislike long cycles. Like because dont have to worry about bleeding for awhile...dislike because it takes forever for something to happen.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Congrats MsSwizz on OV....well if you clicked my FF ticker I am sure you have seen the outcome. I had to go to the hospital last night. I finally gave in to DH and my mother. I have been passing blood clots nearly the size of my little palm. I took them with me to the hospital, so the nurses would actually believe me. I was bleeding on the floor..in puddles. And their was a stabbing, ripping, and burning pain on the right side of my uterus So this morning after 8 a.m. is when I was told to come in for an ultrasound so check if bean is still there or if bean may be in the tube. I don't think I cn take hearing "in the tube" that would just kill me. So DH and I will be doing that this morning. Plus I have caught some sort of cold...it's awful I haven't been sick in ages.

Somehow I knew I spoke too soon and got excited too soon. I know this isn't the truth or right, but I told DH it's just easier to believe that I never was pregnant, because this hurts entirely too bad. I will keep you ladies posted.

Hopefully MsSwizz you will get your bfp this cycle and it will be sticky. Keeping my fingers crossed for you and L.E.

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs Oh no. Hoping everything goes well with you. You deserve a sticky bean and it will come soon i know it Feel better and keep us updated. I know the feeling. When i m/c early i just wished i wasnt pregnant that time because right when i found out..a week later i m/c'ed. It hurts but we are strong women and can handle anything.

Well, its back to work for me. Atleast I get off at 5:30pm today. I ended up not going to work yesterday and i had a blast because my two friends came over and we ate pizza and went swimming in the pool. We laughed and just had a good time. I'm off on Friday so most likely we will hang out again. Also, my friend decided to keep her baby this time around and she showed me her 12 week u/s The baby is adorable. Cant wait for my LO. DH and I had an argument but we talked it out and went to bed peacefully. The argument happened just because of lack of communication and misinterpretation. But we worked it out. I have creamy discharge today and im 4dpo. Had a sharp pain...sort of like AF cramp on my right ovary last night. So i turned on Dance Central 2 and danced it out which worked because after a few songs..it was gone. My temp is still up so thats good also. Other than that..im doing good and feeling good.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Went for my u/s today...technician told me she couldn't tell me anything. I understood her position from a legal stand point. she couldn't answer any questions I asked or anything. so no matter what I saw on the screen I couldn't ask what's this or that?! sucked not being able to ask. My Dr. appt has moved up to Monday morning, so I will get the answers then I guess. Being in that dark for that many days is not fun. Tech said it would only take the radiologist 30 minutes to read my u/s DH and I wanted to wait around for results, but doubted the radiologist would say anything either. so we left. they did a regular one and a vaginal. I did watch what she was typing in and saving...One thing i did notice was "RT Ovary/FB". I know RT is right...I looked up FB on the internet under radilogy terms and it said Foreign Body. What does that mean? my right ovary has a foreign body? I am going to of course investigate this more via internet so there is no surprise on Monday morning. I like surprises but not the kind that happen at doctors visits. Those are not good surprises!

Yea we women are strong, I wish I didn't have to be strong though. why can't I melt for a little while? this sucks so bad.

I am glad that your friend decided to keep her baby. babies are a blessing. And if she really went through what we all go through on here she would understand why keeping it is the only choice. Just look at us all, we are struggling and praying to get pregnant. We would welcome a baby with open arms. A lot of women on here would sell a leg and arm for a baby...I can say I don't blame them either.

Glad you and your DH worked everything out. My Dh and I have our moments too. No one can say that they don't have arguments and have the perfect marriage or relationship. That is a lie if they tell it. We are different, human, and capable of being annoyed. That's every human and even animals are like that. I am just glad is straightened out.

 

[L.E.]

I couldn't stay away any longer. I really wanted to check in and see how you are doing. Fngrs Crossed... I'm soooo sorry to hear you're bleeding at all, let alone flooding. I hope and pray it's a cyst or something else not harmful to the baby. Is there any chance you can call in and get some answers tomorrow? With my chemical, I had to wait out the weekend for my lab results and it seemed like torture. Had you done any more FRERs?

Mzswizz, yay for relaxing and enjoying the 2ww! It's good that you and DH work it out right away. My DH and I don't fight-fight...as in we never yell or are mad more than an hour or two, but of course there are disagreements here and there.

For me, I can hardly think of anything besides testing tomorrow. With a bfn on Wed, you'd think I'd be more hesitant, but I just have to know. I've been a little crampy the past 3 or 4 days or so. I cleaned a lot today and my back is sore and tonight my bbs were a little sore, but that could be from the cleaning. Oh and the BBQ sauce I had on my chicken seemed super-spicy like hot wings, even though it's just the regular sauce I always have... Usually just tastes sweet. And I have heartburn. I remember feeling like I was going to see AF before my Bfp with my son, so the crampy feeling has my hopes up. I'll just feel foolish as usual if I see a bfn tomorrow. At least I should know in the next 1-4 days whether or not I O'd on the 19th.

Hoping for some answers for all of us soon!

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-i hope you get your answers soon because i just hope its nothing harmful to baby. You should test and see what it says. And yes she is happy since she made her decision so im happy for her. Also, yes nobody relationship is perfect so i would slap someone if they said that

L.E.- cant wait for your update tomorrow. Sounds good with the symptoms. Hoping they lead to a bfp.

Afm, im 5dpo today and have my fallback temp. Dh and i are off today. Yesterday dh went to the doctor because he had pain in his arm and shoulder and he found out he hurt his tendon so he had to wear a sling yesterday and take it off today but put ice on it. He is doing better. Also i had an interview yesterday so hopefully i get any job that God bless me with.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

I couldn't stay away any longer. I really wanted to check in and see how you are doing. Fngrs Crossed... I'm soooo sorry to hear you're bleeding at all, let alone flooding. I hope and pray it's a cyst or something else not harmful to the baby. Is there any chance you can call in and get some answers tomorrow? With my chemical, I had to wait out the weekend for my lab results and it seemed like torture. Had you done any more FRERs?

Hoping for some answers for all of us soon!

I haven't taken anymore FRER's, I couldn't take seeing that stark white area that would probably be there and that lonely line. I have to wait it out also. When I called the Dr.'s office yesterday (like the tech told me to do) I told the lady in the front that I had had an ultrasound done, and I asked her if I could call back for the results she told me they'd give them to me on Monday at my appt. She also said that it would be about 2 hours I would be in there, and for me to bring a snack and waer a jacket. I was thinking for Pete's sake why would it take so long to see a Dr.? 2 hours in the lobby?! Is she kidding?! I know if she said it she isn't kidding. So I am planning to take a word-search also. Too bad I don't crochet... And too bad my laptop is broken...

I am not sure what the heck that FB (foreign body) could be. If it's a cyst ok, that's normal we get those every month. I don't think that baby is still in there. Not with all of that blood. It couldn't be in there still. If it is woooow! I would be impressed! She did measure something round. I just couldn't really tell what it was. And it's worse when you see something on the screen and you aren't allowed to ask what it is...

 

[L.E.]

Well no good news from me so far today... Just tested with FRER and BFN. Last month I got my barely there line at about 10/11 dpo so I think either I didn't O or I didn't conceive. I have increased cm today that is watery (had been creamy)... so I guess I need to buy more OPKs and see what's going on. When I got my bfp, though I had increased watery cm at 10/11 dpo too, so who knows. Ugh.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

You'd be surprised at the women that would try to make another woman believe that her relationship is perfect. I "had" a friend like that...she must've thought that my DH and I were some angelic couple sent from the heavens! So she would try to make her and her Dh sound like they were some sort of soul-mate goddess couple. I think me DH and I mesh well we are the same yet different. We don't argue often, but when we do, WE DO.

However, I eventually got to see her and her DH in action one evening. We were having a BBQ at their house. It was awful to see that. She storms off on foot down the street after cursing him lower than low, and her DH turns to me and says "see this is what she does, all the time". I was thinking, oooooooo.k. why would she lie to me and try to make things look perfect...I knew better when she said it, but still be real about it. I guess she just looked at us and how be behave with each other and Assumed that we are something we aren't and that's PERFECT. I ended the friendship years later when she disrespected my mother and wanted to fight her...Yes she got drunk and wanted to fight my mother!!! smh smh smh...(sigh)