positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

Fngrs... we were posting at the same time, so I just saw yours. If they expect you to be there a while, then I would assume they're running tests or ultrasounds or something on you. Nothing like telling you that then making you wait the weekend. Are you still bleeding? How long did it last or how long has it lasted so far?
 
Well no good news from me so far today... Just tested with FRER and BFN. :( Last month I got my barely there line at about 10/11 dpo so I think either I didn't O or I didn't conceive. I have increased cm today that is watery (had been creamy)... so I guess I need to buy more OPKs and see what's going on. When I got my bfp, though I had increased watery cm at 10/11 dpo too, so who knows. Ugh.



well keep me posted, FRER is not my friend anymore! lol If your test were here I would shake it positive for you. I have a way of intimidating pregnancy tests and making them positive. I am a wise gal you know, and part of the hpt mafia. We scare hpt's +!!! Need me to scare it?! I will! :haha:
 
Fngrs... we were posting at the same time, so I just saw yours. If they expect you to be there a while, then I would assume they're running tests or ultrasounds or something on you. Nothing like telling you that then making you wait the weekend. Are you still bleeding? How long did it last or how long has it lasted so far?

yes it's very light not spotting light but light.
 
LOL I know I just saw that you posted while I was posting that we posted at the same time. haha Well I only want you to shake my test positive if I get a sticky bean to go with it. No false positives please. :) At least the bleeding died down some. We all know bleeding is never considered good in pregnancy but it doesn't always have to be bad. My friend bled and spotted off and on the first 9 weeks and is currently 19 weeks, so you never know. Hang in there. Oh and from the earlier post... being strong doesn't mean no crying. Sometimes we just need a good cry. Sometimes there are no words to say and the tears just flow. Praying for good news for you Monday.
 
Hoping you get good news on monday Fngrs. And i had a friend like that. People just dont know that people are.made for each other but geez we arent perfect.

L.E. dont worry either way...you will get your bfp soon.
 
Thanks. Make that 3 bfns today lol. I have issues... If I have pee-sticks and a "good sample" to use it on, then I will use it. I was feeling so hopeful last night so today was such a let-down. I'm going to try to get some OPKs tomorrow and maybe some hpts while I'm at the dollar store. Ok who am I kidding? If I buy OPKs I will definitely buy hpts too lol. Once we get money in our acct (hubby got paid today), I'm going to order me a bunch of Wondfos again. They're so much cheaper than Dollar Tree and they have worked for me for the most part. Since I'm a POAS addict with wacky long cycles, I need to have lots of test and ones that are really inexpensive!! Oh and today was CD50... sigh.
 
L.E. :rofl: I know what you mean about having those sticks and a good sample!!! Heck if you have both then why not?! They go together hand in hand! So I will shake your test positive and it will be a sticky bean when I do. If only I could stop shaking mine positive when the bean doesn't want to stick. Next time (if no good news on Monday) I am going to have a good firm talk with the little blastocyst. sometimes intimidating a ball of cells can work! :rofl: So that's my plan intmidate the blastocyst and my hpt...I can see myself now telling the poor baby, if you don't stick you are sooooo grounded until further notice!! Little bean needs a GPS to find the right location to implant!

CD 50...(sigh) I know you are so exhausted by now. I think I would be the same way if not a little angry. last cycle was my longest yet...I thought ovulation was never going to happen. And that fallback rise was a doozie too. It confused things really bad.


Thanks msSwizz, I hope Monday has something good about it. It's my favorite day of the week anyway. I have opted to leave out the progesterone this cycle. At least if bean decides not to stick (if it isn't still there right now) then I won't feel like I am going to bleed to death. today is spotting, and defo only pantyliner worthy. So it's leaving.

Ladies I hope for good news for you ladies really soon...it's time for all of our sticky bfp's! TTC is exhausting...why is it so easy for teenagers? They have irresponsible sex and they get pregnant in no time. Is it because they don't want to get pregnant? Hey I know we should pretend that we don't want to get pregnant and then maybe we will.:rofl:
 
I'll go first..."omg I so hope I don't get pregnant, my mom is so going to kill me" " I am only in the 10th grade if I get pregnant then I am going to have to drop out and get a job, but my BF says he loves me and if I loved him them I would do it." I think I am just going to do it, I love him and we will probably get married after graduation anyway.

Well heck I believed myself on that one...So maybe now I will get pregnant, and stay pregnant with no problem.. :blush: Of course I have almost always had issues while pregnant. Preterm labor seems to be my hobby! I hate it!!! ok now I am going shopping to make myself feel better. BTW: starting my own business too, that's been exciting! :)
 
Starting a business must be exciting. what type of business? And if only we dont think about it...we end up pregnant. That would be a big slap in the face after we tried hard :haha:

L.E. hopefully you get some answers soon.

Afm, im 6dpo today. Im at work having a bad day. But once i get home, it will be better. Cant wait to get a new job. Dh is feeling much better. And i dont notice anything different in me so im thinking im out this cycle but we shall see.
 
Fngrs... lol yes you should have a talk with the current (hopefully) beanie about scaring you, and any future ones. That would be so nice if our bodies and beanies did what we wanted them to! It's funny that you should mention the whole teen pregnancy thing. I typed out a rant about it yesterday but refrained from posting. Just found out that someone I know has baby #2 on the way... The first one is 1 1/2 I think and the mom and dad are all of 19 and 20 at most and are split up. I am already a great-aunt at the ripe old age of 29 (was 28 when she was born) from my then barely-19 yr old nephew and his ex-16-yr-old girlfriend. My cousin wasn't young, but her first was an oops baby with another guy 3 months before her divorce was final and her 2nd one was on the first try with the same guy. She wasn't sure she wanted another but did it for him and they were split up a couple months after he was born. They hadn't dtd in 8 months before their one try for the second!
I'm only on my 3rd (long) cycle since my Provera period started Oct. 31, but my heart has been really hoping for another for 3 years, and I've been using opks for 17.5 months now.

And this month is driving me crazy!! I honestly was a little surprised at the negative hpts so far. I had several days of crampiness, some heart burn, and today my bbs have been a bit sore... like my bra really bothered me and it was wonderful taking it off lol. I don't know if it's just because I wore it a lot today, or what. I'm a SAHM so the majority of the time I don't wear one, but sheesh sometimes I wear it most of the day and it never bothers me this badly.

If I O'd on the 19th I was 12 dpo today so I'm feeling like either I didn't O at all, or it was more like the 21st (when my opks really went negative). Or I could just be welcoming AF in a few days.

mzswizz, I'm sorry to hear you had a bad day at work. I hope you get one that you really enjoy! Don't feel out yet, 6 dpo is likely too soon to have symptoms. A bean could still be making it's way down to implant still. :)

It's after 2 a.m. and my brain is mush so I'd better stop posting while I'm making any sense at all lol... otherwise I'll just ramble.
 
L.E. maybe its possible you o'd later than you were suppose to so you can be earlier than 12dpo. FXed hoping that's what is really going on. :thumbup:

AFM, im 7dpo today. my temps are a little low but still above coverline so thats good. DH and i dtd today and we both are off yay :happydance: We had a nice little bubble bath together this morning and it felt great. Not really any symptoms over here yet other than I felt very hot this morning after waking up ahours later after taking my temp and when I took the temp a 2nd time to see if im hot or not..it quicky shot up to the 99 degrees F so i just turned it off because i knew it was going to go past 99.5 and I would have to discard it. So I dont know what that was all about. I even took a cold shower because i was sooo hot :shrug: But other than that, Im feeling pretty normal. Cant believe im 7dpo already :shock: 5 more days before testing. Hoping my temps go up as well.
 
It all sounds promising for you, mzswizz! Well today could be 11-13 dpo so either I'm out (bfns today) and AF is showing soon, or I haven't O'd yet. I'm not sure which is more depressing. These long cycles are so disheartening... not as disheartening as constant bleeding, though. O'ing around CD27 last month and conceiving on only my 2nd cycle had me so hopeful that I'd do it again this cycle, and here I sit at CD52 with just BFNs in front of me and no idea what's going on. I think I'm going to give it a week or so and then go ahead and pay the money for the semen analysis so I can start Clomid. At least then I should O before CD20. That would be amazing!
I know I also need to get my rear in gear and lose some more weight. I know they say even 10 lbs helps but honestly the first 50 had no bearing on that. I've gained some back but I started Oing after I'd gained a few back anyway, so I don't know what effect it would have. I have a lot more to lose. However, with my son, I weighed about what I do know when I conceived so I know I can conceive and have a successful pregnancy at this weight. I know people who were successful and they weigh a substantial amount more than I do.

Anyway, sorry for blabbering... Just in a ranting sort of mood. :/
 
Fngrs... lol yes you should have a talk with the current (hopefully) beanie about scaring you, and any future ones. That would be so nice if our bodies and beanies did what we wanted them to! It's funny that you should mention the whole teen pregnancy thing. I typed out a rant about it yesterday but refrained from posting. Just found out that someone I know has baby #2 on the way... The first one is 1 1/2 I think and the mom and dad are all of 19 and 20 at most and are split up. I am already a great-aunt at the ripe old age of 29 (was 28 when she was born) from my then barely-19 yr old nephew and his ex-16-yr-old girlfriend. My cousin wasn't young, but her first was an oops baby with another guy 3 months before her divorce was final and her 2nd one was on the first try with the same guy. She wasn't sure she wanted another but did it for him and they were split up a couple months after he was born. They hadn't dtd in 8 months before their one try for the second!
I'm only on my 3rd (long) cycle since my Provera period started Oct. 31, but my heart has been really hoping for another for 3 years, and I've been using opks for 17.5 months now.

And this month is driving me crazy!! I honestly was a little surprised at the negative hpts so far. I had several days of crampiness, some heart burn, and today my bbs have been a bit sore... like my bra really bothered me and it was wonderful taking it off lol. I don't know if it's just because I wore it a lot today, or what. I'm a SAHM so the majority of the time I don't wear one, but sheesh sometimes I wear it most of the day and it never bothers me this badly.

If I O'd on the 19th I was 12 dpo today so I'm feeling like either I didn't O at all, or it was more like the 21st (when my opks really went negative). Or I could just be welcoming AF in a few days.

mzswizz, I'm sorry to hear you had a bad day at work. I hope you get one that you really enjoy! Don't feel out yet, 6 dpo is likely too soon to have symptoms. A bean could still be making it's way down to implant still. :)

It's after 2 a.m. and my brain is mush so I'd better stop posting while I'm making any sense at all lol... otherwise I'll just ramble.


All I have to say is wow...Don't you just love to hate how easy it is for a woman to get pregnant (or teen) and they end up not together?! Crap how fair is that?! That's what eats me...I am in aw about what I read just now. Why can't it be that easy for any of us!! :growlmad: Ok so I have pretended to be a teen, and now I will pretend to be divorcing my DH!!:dohh: I will do that right now while he is standing here...lol Ok he says ok we are going to divorce and he says he loves me and is going to bed :rofl:

Long cycles are the absolute worst!! Maybe you did OV later when your opks went negative. :happydance: Hope you danced like you have never danced before and get a + hpt. I feel you on the sore boobs...why the heck are mine still sore?:shrug: if you look at my chart my temps rose, peaked, crashed and burned to pre-o temps. Tomorrow is the Dr. appt. :shrug: guess we will see how that one goes I am so eye-rolling right now its a shame. Who the heck packs a snack bag to go to the Dr.?!?!?!?! She said bring snacks and a jacket! what the heck?! Oh God I hope I don't die of boredom in their! If I never post again just know that's what happened!! :rofl:

Dh and and I went to dinner and a movie with my brother and SIL. So much fun, and much needed for the both of us. Didn't care for the movie much (wrath of the titans) it wasn't as good as clash of the titans. So I say wait for it to come out on DVD and keep your $15.00 ($7.50x2). Dinner was awesome though.

I hope you are doing well today and have a + hpt for me to jump up and down about by the morning.
 
MsSwizz sorry to hear you had a bad day too...And you temps are above the coverline. I hope they go up soon, but they could be low because of implantation ya' know. :hugs: So don't worry....I am admiring your ability to wait until 12dpo...you already know that I have been so weak and couldn't do it. This cycle if there isn't still a bean in there (I don't think their is) I said I am waiting until AF is MIA. I can't take knowing I am preggers and lose another baby to a chemical. I would rather not know at all then to know and have my heart break. So waiting isn't going to be a problem. Who the heck has 2 chemicals in a row? It's not normal! I am even scared to BD, in fear that I will get pregnant and lose it too..

But I honestly think you shouldn't even think about your temps being low. Implantation can make them do that too. So here's hoping the go up and go triphasic and end in a bfp!!!
 
It all sounds promising for you, mzswizz! Well today could be 11-13 dpo so either I'm out (bfns today) and AF is showing soon, or I haven't O'd yet. I'm not sure which is more depressing. These long cycles are so disheartening... not as disheartening as constant bleeding, though. O'ing around CD27 last month and conceiving on only my 2nd cycle had me so hopeful that I'd do it again this cycle, and here I sit at CD52 with just BFNs in front of me and no idea what's going on. I think I'm going to give it a week or so and then go ahead and pay the money for the semen analysis so I can start Clomid. At least then I should O before CD20. That would be amazing!
I know I also need to get my rear in gear and lose some more weight. I know they say even 10 lbs helps but honestly the first 50 had no bearing on that. I've gained some back but I started Oing after I'd gained a few back anyway, so I don't know what effect it would have. I have a lot more to lose. However, with my son, I weighed about what I do know when I conceived so I know I can conceive and have a successful pregnancy at this weight. I know people who were successful and they weigh a substantial amount more than I do.

Anyway, sorry for blabbering... Just in a ranting sort of mood. :/



:hugs: Just know that you aren't alone in the stress of all this. So you are not blabbering, and ranting isn't a bad thing. We have to get it out at some point. I refuse to sit here quietly and not pretend that I am not p'd-off. And neither should you. You have a right to be upset if that's the way you feel.

I say go for the semen analysis. It's better to know than to be unsure. And clomid would be a good thing too.:hugs: You have my vote of confidence sister! Ovulating earlier can only be a good thing. I hate delayed OV. :growlmad: I was thinking about losing weight too, maybe my body would be healthier.:shrug: I just thought maybe that's why the losses? I am not extremely overweight, I am at prepregnancy since the loss of Masyn. But I am not the weight I am suppose to be. matter of fact I am 30lbs off..So don't feel bad at all. I am too embarrassed to even say what I weigh.:blush:

I read that weight loss can help...How true is that? I am normally a mover and shaker..meaning when it's time to get moving I move. I seem to be a busy body most of the time.Personally I think the clomid will get the ball rolling for you L.E. I really do...I think it would be a power move and beneficial too.

There is nothing worse then praying for something so much and not getting your prayer answered. :cry:
 
I am ranting...

There are women who kill their children, abort their child, abuse their children, allow a man to hurt their child or even worse murder them. And here we are....PRAYING staying hopeful and waiting with EMPTY ARMS. I feel like this baby is far out of my reach and a mirage. I need to go read my bible and pray or something..seriously, God help me. smh

Ok bedtime I guess appt at 8:30 a.m. I am so glad I am a morning person...
 
Had a whole thing typed out, but it was too heavy lol... I don't know how to delete the whole thing. It makes me put something in. :wacko:
 

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