positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mzswizz]

L.E. im really hoping you ov later than you thought and you end up with a bfp. If not then hopefully the doc will give you answers to what is going on and will be able to guide you to your bfp.

Fngrs-yes i am sooo tired of testing early just to spend alot of money on tests and keep getting bfns all the way up to my af due date. So i understand what you mean. And about the females i understand too because my friend had a n abortion last year and this time she is 3 mknths. Of coursr im happy she is keeping the baby but at the same time i found it upsetting that i wanted a baby and had m/c then havent gotten pregnant since. But i know one day it will happen to us. Even though we want it to happen sooner rather thsn later.

AFM, i am 8dpo today and my temp dropped a little below coverline today. Dont know why but hoping its implantation which is causing my temps to be low. Hopefully they will increase soon. Hoping for a bfp soon. All i can do is wait. Also dh got a x ray of his neck because they think he hurt one of his nerves. They prescribed him muscle relaxers so hopefully that helps. They told him to rest for a week and now we know he needs a new job.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

MsSwizz...I wish it would happen this month, I am not getting any younger. I am 33 and Dh is now 35. I just don't understand why all this is going on with me. I went to the Dr.'s OMG!! I took right at 4 hours! I was so ready to get out of there I almost left before being seen. Then I could hear the LPN talking on the phone about how "Jenny" was not a good human being right now and how she is tired of Jenny treating her that way. then she called her mom to tell her the same thing. I sat there and listened to 2 different conversations she had about family business. And wouldn't you know she was the one that was suppose to be seeing me. So I am there waiting with no bottoms on and a paper sheet, while she goes through a whole pitty party! I was upset and showed her I was when she finally hung up and came in. I was too tired to tell her off and let her know the goverment is not paying for this visit. Thats how they treat medicaid patients...make them wait forever and then it's in and out.

Anyhow L.E. and MsSwizz, little bean is gone. she wanted to send me for another hcg, like the number was suppose to go up. but she opted not to. My ovaries are normal and uterus also. so everything looks good. The FB (foreign body) was my CL cyst. Progesterone was 19 so that is good too. I asked her DH and I could try again, she said wait 2 cycles so they'd know when I got pregnant. Well I am going to ignore her on that one . I chart so I will know when I got pregnant, and I can print it out and bring it to them so they can know. It wasn't oh "wait for medical reasons", it was wait so "they" can know when I got pregnant... Like really? they have a cycle wheel and a LMP so why in heck would I play and miss a chance to get my bfp?! H$%@ NO! I am going for it and DH agrees we should!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Hope you temp goes up MsSwizz..It's not way down there though, it's just right at the coverline. It may shoot up tomorrow, which is a good sign if it goes triphasic.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Had a whole thing typed out, but it was too heavy lol... I don't know how to delete the whole thing. It makes me put something in.

you should have posted it...it's just us on here anyway. I would have read it!! And probably commented too

 

[mzswizz]

well atleast you know whats going on now and yay for going to try again cant believe you had to go through that long wait for nothing ok temp wise..if it goes back up...when will it be labeled as triphasic?

 

[L.E.]

:Fngrs, soooo sorry you're having to go through another loss!! I'm glad though that they didn't find anything wrong. You had me nervous with them telling you it would take a while. Oh yes, Dear Nurse, let me put my hopes and dreams on hold to make your job a tiny bit easier. No thank you! That was awful of them to make you wait that long too. With my DS, the Obgyn office was really great and tried not to make you wait longer than 20 mins in the waiting room. The one I see now (we moved) is pretty good too, but I've only been there a couple times.

I was bfn as of 1:20 a.m. and I'm out of tests, so I guess we'll see. I was fairly crampy last night (enough to where I considered taking something since it was bedtime)... and made sure I had a liner on just in case it was AF. I usually don't feel very crampy until I bleed heavily so it was weird. I just ordered some more Wondfos online. They're so much cheaper. I'm completely out of tests, and unless I get some major fertile cm (even better would be morning sickness lol) in the next couple days, I'm going to try to just wait for the Wondfos.

mzswizz, sorry for your loss a while ago too! I hope you get your bfp in the next couple days!!

 

[mzswizz]

Thanks L.E. and gl to you too. I got 4 more days before finding out. im thinking about testing on the 4th. i would be 10dpo then but im thinking maybe thats too early. ohhh eager me

 

[L.E.]

You have a decent chance of bfp at 10 dpo. I would go for it, but then again I Test all the time lol.

 

[mzswizz]

i have one ic and then only 2 digis. i will test with the ic on wednesday and then if its a faint line...then friday i will go to the store and buy more tests but we shall see.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

well atleast you know whats going on now and yay for going to try again cant believe you had to go through that long wait for nothing ok temp wise..if it goes back up...when will it be labeled as triphasic?

Well if it goes up higher than the others then it will be triphasic. but today looks like it could possible be an implantation dip. I hope it goes up tomorrow. As long as there isn't any spotting or anything you are still in the running

 

[FngrsCrossed]

:Fngrs, soooo sorry you're having to go through another loss!! I'm glad though that they didn't find anything wrong. You had me nervous with them telling you it would take a while. Oh yes, Dear Nurse, let me put my hopes and dreams on hold to make your job a tiny bit easier. No thank you! That was awful of them to make you wait that long too. With my DS, the Obgyn office was really great and tried not to make you wait longer than 20 mins in the waiting room. The one I see now (we moved) is pretty good too, but I've only been there a couple times.

I was bfn as of 1:20 a.m. and I'm out of tests, so I guess we'll see. I was fairly crampy last night (enough to where I considered taking something since it was bedtime)... and made sure I had a liner on just in case it was AF. I usually don't feel very crampy until I bleed heavily so it was weird. I just ordered some more Wondfos online. They're so much cheaper. I'm completely out of tests, and unless I get some major fertile cm (even better would be morning sickness lol) in the next couple days, I'm going to try to just wait for the Wondfos.

mzswizz, sorry for your loss a while ago too! I hope you get your bfp in the next couple days!!

Yes L.E. they had me terrified for nothing!! The wait alone had me thinking ok something so desperately wrong. I called 3 people while i waited because I was just terrified. My DH had to work so I went it alone, and was sorry I did when I had to sit there wondering so long. This office is a new one, my usual Dr. wouldn't dream of making anyone sit in the office for that long. I am used to the normal 15-20 minutes. Then I saw the LPN and not a Dr. Plus to listen to her family issues...She went on and on about Jenny so much that I was going to tell her how she needed to shut up and talk about her problems after work and in the privacy of her own home. She understood the look when she came in though. I was upset and gave her the ugliest look I could. And she apologized and told me how she was having family issues...Like I care Not being mean I-J-S!!!


It's amazing how we use our sticks up. I have read reviews about Wondfo where the ladies were upset because they wouldn't be able to use them before the expiration date and they had ordered so many. lol Well you nor I are one of those women. I used all 50 of mine and had to go to the store to get more of a different brand. lol lol I just don't understand how they couldn't use all of them. Why not start testing at 5 dpo if you have 50?! Well I hope it isn't AF she is a thorn in all of our side! I would so appreciate if she would let me get my bright, beaming, shining BFP and just take a 10 month vacation. Then I think she and I could have a better relationship I would welcome her back after that!!!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Ladies I am ever so proud of myself...I haven't bought any opk's!!! Yay! How is that good you ask? Well for one I have been sleeping better at night not stressing over taking and opk, plus I can drink liquids alllllll day long and not worry about watering my urine down and getting a false negative opk. So I am truly going temp only to predict ovulation. Well CM and CP too...But you ladies get what I am saying.

Do you ladies think because of the miscarriage that Ovulation will be delayed again?! Oh Jeez I don't want that again. My temps are pretty low right now, so I think it possible that I won't OV on CD15 or later.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Don't test yet MsSwizz..in case its and imp. dip then its going to need about 2 days after the dip to get hcg going really good. I know you can do it, you have more self control than the 2 of us... I hope some of that has rubbed off onto me

And L.E. is going to make me get on Amazon and get Wondfo's with that comment about ordering more Darn-it!!

 

[L.E.]

Don't test yet MsSwizz..in case its and imp. dip then its going to need about 2 days after the dip to get hcg going really good. I know you can do it, you have more self control than the 2 of us... I hope some of that has rubbed off onto me

And L.E. is going to make me get on Amazon and get Wondfo's with that comment about ordering more Darn-it!!

LOL Sorry. If you can just do the temps that would be great. I ended up taking my thermometer back because it just wasn't accurate. I don't think I'll be temping unless we magically get on a schedule and I can fall asleep at night most nights.

It's nice being able to drink as much water as you want all day long! I used to always have clear pee, but since TTC, it's darker because I'm usually limiting fluids. I hope I'm not doing any damage. I end up drinking more at night, which is why FMU is never concentrated for me and I don't test with it.

 

[L.E.]

If I did O, it was 3/21 at latest. The 2 months I O'd I started spotting at 12-13 dpo and bleeding on 13-14 dpo. So today would be 13 dpo at latest. I guess we'll see what today and tomorrow brings but I'm thinking I didn't O. I definitely haven't BD a lot but I've mostly dtd enough to where there would at least be a chance in case I randomly O'd.

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-the funny thing is another woman said it can be an implantation dip today too. I hope so. And a m/c may delay it or maybe not. Cant really tell.

AFM, im 9dpo today and my temp is still low. Im just awaiting for test day so i can test and see what happens. I just noticed that lately i feel hot and im very irritable. Hopefully, my temp rises tomorrow and hopefully this means a bfp this cycle.

 

[L.E.]

Hoping you get your sticky bfp mzswizz!

Fngrs, I agree...It's hard to say if you'll O later or not. For me it's definitely delayed but I don't have a normal cycle as it is. I looked it up and it goes either way.

 

[mzswizz]

thanks L.E. hopeful for a temp rise tomorrow.

 

[mzswizz]

just an update...im having super light pink spotting and mild cramps. hoping its IB.

 

[L.E.]

sounds promising, mzswizz!