positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[FngrsCrossed]

It's so good to have DH on board like that. My DH took this Fri off since I was going to try to schedule the SA for that day, but that's not going to happen. We may have a date or something instead on Friday.

Date night could turn out to be a wonderful thing...relaxation and conversation and kisses!!!

 

[L.E.]

I take it you're waiting to use the FRERs with FMU? Hope to see them soon!

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-L.E. and I are patiently waiting for your news. Hope you come on soon.

L.E. how are you today?

AFM, im on cd14 today and my temp is at 97.42. About the spotting......it has officially left the building So 13 days of bleeding & spotting. How do i manage sometimes Oh I forgot to tell you ladies that on cd12...i had terrible cramps and i bled heavy with clots for like 30 mins. My mom gave me tylenol and a heating pad and I laid down. After awhile it went back to light bleeding and the cramps subsided. So maybe dh and my theory was right and I do experience early m/c's when i experience long bleeds. This morning was another shocker. DH is surprising me daily now i see...and i like it Well this morning while he was getting ready for work...we started having a conversation like normally but this time HE brought up the whole ttc conversation not me Well this is how the conversation went.

DH: "So what do you want to do until you get fixed?"
Me: (figured out he meant what do I want to do trying wise until i go to the doctor and fix the issue )
DH: (waiting for response)
Me: "Nothing different"
DH: "Well, i know WE can get pregnant. I dont want to keep trying and you keep conceiving and you have to suffer another m/c." (aww )
Me: "Well, I will call up and schedule an appt and we can work from there."
DH: "Well tell him the issue and then if he doesnt prescribe the progesterone...then you tell him what's the problem and have him prescribe it" (does he sound like me or what?! )
Me: "Ok babes will do."
DH: "Ok..dang it im running late for work love you"

So as you see..from what Im use to until now..DH has completely changed. I think what changed him is he finally understands my cycles and listens to me but the major thing is...because i keep suffering from early m/c's and i need progesterone. Just like him..i dont want to go through it again sooo im glad we working on it and if we are right..then that means i have been getting pregnant with no problem like every other month or two months and since my progesterone is low...just havent been able to hold onto it. So we WILL get pregnant before 2012 ends. Thats our goal.

 

[mzswizz]

Afm, well its set. My doc appt is monday at 10:45am Also, dh came back home because they wasnt enough work for the amount of techs. He has a doc appt at 2pm. Its a follow up with the lung specialist. Oh and dh and i dtd before i had to go to work which was like 30 mins ago. Im at work now though.

 

[L.E.]

mzswizz, So glad your spotting stopped and that your appointment is so soon! Sounds like a wonderful, supportive conversation this morning!

For me, my temp was pretty good today (I guess) but I'm still spotting. Now when I say spotting, it's so little that it rarely even makes it to my liner. I still think I wouldn't have filled a pad yet in 2 weeks. If I had O'd 6 days ago, wouldn't I have stopped spotting by now? Today is CD70. r

Fngrs, where are you????

 

[mzswizz]

well the spotting is back after sex

 

[L.E.]

Oh no! Looks like we're both having lots of fun with spotting.

 

[mzswizz]

Yeah. Lets see what will happen by the time i go to my doc appt on monday.

 

[L.E.]

I'm hoping I O'd and my progesterone will increase enough to stop it, but I know that's not likely. I'm just going to see what my temps do the next few days. My opks have been light since the night of the 12th. I was hoping the 13th was O day but that's just wishful thinking I guess.

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs... I keep checking for your update. Where are you? Hope all is well.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Sorry ladies, I am just feeling crappy today...I have a headache and I just don't we did it this month. It makes me so mad, because the dancing was well timed. It looks like I see something on the Answer I took this evening, but then again it doesn't. Dh and I have been scrutinizing that test..I just broke it apart to stop the madness. Who does that eyeballing after drinking lemonade, Dr. Pepper, and water?! I am going to take one with FMU, but I don't think we are still in the race..smh I am so disappointed, but I keep TRYING to tell myself I may have ovulated on CD16...Wow the things we say to ourselves to keep our heads above water. I need to just call a spade a spade here. I dont think we did it..despite the dancing being perfect.

Maybe I am just complaining because my head hurts and I am constipated. :/ tomorrow will be better...I will be better, even if I have to fake it girls, I promise.


L.E. looks like you Ov'ed or something. Looks like you could be on 7dpo or something. Your chart is doing its thing lady.

MsSwizz...glad you got your appt set up! Can't wait til' you get your progesterone and get a chance to talk to Dr. So you guys can have it for the egg this month.

Ladies I am going to have a test or two in the morning for you. A FRER I promise, doesn't matter if it's bfn or not, I am going to post it. I thought I was going to go cross-eyed looking at what looks like it could-be-might-be-wants to be- something-of a line-or evap... I mean I literally went cross-eyed. The back of my eyes are killing me! :S (sighs) I will have it tomorrow though. My chart is still weird enough. Don't have a clue what my body is up to. one more high temp and it's Really Triphasic...Not impressed though. doesn't mean I am preggers...means that I am not 50/50 on pregnancy...I would be 55/45... Like ooooh wow!! Big deal, it can be triphasic and I can be NOT pregnant... :/ Gosh I am feeling so snazzy!! Maybe I should have taken that nap today...Ok gotta shower now...

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, glad to see you! Sorry you're not feeling well. Your chart looks great to me and you're only 8-9 dpo, so still really early. I can't wait to look at tests tomorrow. I haven't stared at one in a few days, so that will give me my "fix" lol.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. im with Fngrs. It does look like you o'd so fxed for you.

Fngrs- sorry you feel crappy. Cant wait until you come on today so we can get our fix at looking at hpts And your chart looks good so i wont say you are out just yet.

AFM, well cd15 for me. My temps have been pretty stable. Which is good. Still having spotting. Dont know why so will let my doc know on Monday. Yesterday was nice. DH and I went out with my SIL and her two kids for her birthday. We had alot of fun. And just so happens, my snotty boss was there and I didnt even notice. I was telling my SIL about how terrible she was to me etc and then i only noticed her when she was leaving with her family and they were like 2 tables across from us. So hoping she didnt see nor hear me But all was well. Today im off so i get to relax finally. So we shall see how today goes.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Morning laies, woke up super early... here are my tests..nothing major looks like bfn's to me...(sighs) so i am out..AGAIN!! Maybe I am 9dpo today but I am not really sure if that correct, I may be in fact 10dpo and out. AF needs to just show her ugly face so we can get this over with.

 

[mzswizz]

fngrs wait a minute! look at your last chart and your current chart..last cycle you had an implantation dip at 9dpo and got a positive at 12dpo and now it looks like you can be having your implantation dip now so that means you can still be in!!!!! Implantation can occure between 6-12dpo so you're not out yet.

 

[L.E.]

I agree. You're so not out yet, Fngrs. 9-10 dpo can still be implantation. Your temps still look good. Time will tell, but I know it's awful to see bfns. I don't see lines on your tests (except maybe an antibody strip), but it's too early to throw in the towel. I know I was really feeling out right before I saw my bfp in Feb. Hope today is a better day for you!

Mzswizz, Oh my I hope your boss didn't hear. But then again maybe you won't have to put up with much longer... or even better- maybe she heard and will be nicer! Hey wishful thinking never hurts.

My temp stayed up today but didn't go up anymore than it was. I figured if I did O, then I would stop spotting. Of course I just assumed the spotting was related to progesterone. Should I be worried about it just yet?

 

[mzswizz]

i wouldnt worry. Usually progesterone is low in AF and pre-ov stage. Once you have o'd, the progesterone will increase. As long as it doesnt drop early which leads to an early AF...you should be okay.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Thanks a lot ladies...both of you are correct. I know that implantation can happen at 9dpo or 10dpo but I don't want to feel like I am pulling my own chain here. I guess we will see what my temp does tomorrow morning. As you can see by the open circle, the temp is not accurate anyway. Who wakes up 2 hours before time? Well I do. Just couldn't stay asleep. So hopefully this could be implantation...I just see so many women wishing that 10dpo to be implantation and get excited and it ends up not being what they hoped for. So not going to yank my own chain here. Maybe I am a too much of a realist :/ need to be a little more dreamy..I will say my boobs hurt I am constipated, sleepy (have the feeling that I would like to sleep in for 2 weeks at least), been getting headaches, and I am liking to eat (back to back). Could be nothing. But I do like the sleeping a lot. Seriously, "a lot-a lot". Dh has movie tickets for a movie tonight...I really want to stay home and sleep. But we have been planning this movie since last month. Waiting on it to come out, and it's the first day it's out. So I HAVE to go...Maybe that's best, can't sleep the month away! lol

L.E. don't know what the spotting is about. Not sure if you need progesterone or not. It so looks like you may have ovulated already. Given you have lower temps on a regular and those are higher. It just looks like you have. here is some for you!!


MsSwizz I think AF has been trying to be funny, well she isn't. Like I said the other day about unwelcome guests not wanting to leave...she is trying to drag her goodbye on longer. But we are going to help you throw her bags out the door so she can truly leave. Monthly gift my foot, whoever asked her for anything wrapped in a red bow was crazy! I don't need the gift that keeps on giving, and I am sure you ladies would agree that you could do with it leaving for 40-42 weeks.

Tell you what, I wouldn't complain about that gift if I could get my rainbow sprinkles baby. I would take my gift like a champion after that. Even with severe cramps, if she wanted to add those to it! So I am guessing I am going to wait a couple days to test with FRER. In the meantime I guess I will POA-Wondfo!!

Did you ladies know Wondfo isn't for early detection? The earliest is 1 Day after missed period. Which is what 2 days after it's expected? wow! I don't know what made me even look at the instructions like that. I already know to dip 3 seconds and wait for 5 to read. Just decided to look..and there it was! No wonder people get such light lines on them for so long. You have to miss your period and wait a day after that!


I wouldn't say that wondfo is the best test on the market. When in fact its not an early detection test, or should I say and earliest detection test. I think I may switch from Wondfo...I know you get a lot, but what's the point of peeing and scrutinizing when you will probably get a line on FRER or something else first?

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs- I know what you mean about being a realist. DH use to complain because i was always detailed and technical about things especially when it came to my temps but now im just letting everything go. I dont symptom spot anymore because im tired of dealing with bfns at the end of the day. But dont worry, we will get our bfps soon. If we all do conceive this month i think we would be a few weeks apart from each other maybe. Hmm maybe we will be team progesterone And wow that sucks about the tests. A woman from another thread is sending me a package with lots of goodies (ic's, opks, etc) so still waiting on that to arrive. I put a hold on it because I didnt want my neighbors or these stray animals getting a hold onto it. And yes we got to give her the boot because she has really overstayed her welcome. But it looks like she maybe leaving because every time i go to the bathroom..it gets lighter and lighter and also WHITE discharge is leaking out into the toilet with a hint of pink.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

well I can't wait until they get there. Your package being out in the elements and with animal and neighbors isn't good. If anything get wet or overheated it could be ruined. Especially with the sunshine since it's spring now. Even in the shade it heats up. She should be out the door in a couple of days, LETS START KICKING!!!

I can't help but be more realistic. Since we lost Masyn, I have been different. I thought my baby was going to make it out of there. He didn't, not alive at least. So now I view things a little different than I used to. I just refuse to feed myself a crock of poop...I had to m/c's and that was even more eye opening. i haven't lost Faith, but I will admit that my hope in things has diminished. I can't see rainbows and sunshine when it's raining. I can only have faith that it will stop raining and MAYBE there will be a rainbow after the rain. I mean that literally as well as not literally. If I see the sun isn't shining outside I am not going to tell myself that the sun is out. People lie to people everyday..Why should I do that to myself? Anyone on Earth will lie to me, except me...I wouldn't be the cruel to myself!