positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[staceyj83]

Lol twin boys

Le hope she leaves soon

 

[mommapowers32]

Sorry I was MIA again ladies and I will be again thus weekend I was out of town with my mom and dad and ds. Hubby stayed at home and guess who oed while out of town this girl!! Grrr however sign spotting my cramping was a couple days before o and I had a surge in appitite and high energy. Lol this Thursday - Sunday I'm gonna be in Sc for a wedding I'm moh shores happy about that we are gonna stop ttc till after august I have another wedding and a cruise that I'm going on so it would be nice to enjoy those Yummy drinks!! It's a bachlorette party cruise.

I'm still reading the last few days to catch up with everyone

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Will its been more on the right side it got so bad i had to take a pain killer oh hubby would love that he has baby fever BAD!

well I guess those can be considered ovulation pains then. I so hope you guys get it during this trial run. I mean you did dance the night before the positive opk, so it is possible you could get a bfp. AND I hear that women are really fertile after having a recent birth.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

my dh thinks he's a psychic. he already told one of our friends that once i get pregnant, its going to be a boy and everybody keeps saying they have a feeling we are going to have twins which is weird because dh and i are both the last of our generation and its a high possibility for us to have twins because none of the people in our generation had them Oh my Lord, what if that does happen?! The first time we get stationed and I end up pregnant with twins I think i will pass out

I wouldn't faint, but I would cry like no tomorrow. That's twice the blessing, twice the fun, twice the love, twice the excitement.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Well I thought AF was out the door, but she's holding on for dear life. She can leave any minute now. I'm a bit sick of her with all the bleeding I'd already had and now she was about gone this morning, but is here with a light flow now. It's not a lot, but making it to my pad and bright red, so I changed my chart to "light"... Grrrr... she'd better be gone tomorrow!!

L.E. you might have to go on her, so she can get the hint!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Sorry I was MIA again ladies and I will be again thus weekend I was out of town with my mom and dad and ds. Hubby stayed at home and guess who oed while out of town this girl!! Grrr however sign spotting my cramping was a couple days before o and I had a surge in appitite and high energy. Lol this Thursday - Sunday I'm gonna be in Sc for a wedding I'm moh shores happy about that we are gonna stop ttc till after august I have another wedding and a cruise that I'm going on so it would be nice to enjoy those Yummy drinks!! It's a bachlorette party cruise.

I'm still reading the last few days to catch up with everyone

Sorry you missed it. But hey August isn't too far off if you think about it. Plus you will get to drink all the umbrella drinks you can handle. I hear you on the sign thing, I had the appetite surge and energy boost also. I can say that I am sleepy at this point. can't wait for bed time. Made myself stay up all day without taking a nap.

 

[L.E.]

Momma, You didn't get your temp raise yet, so you could still be in the running if you BD (or did you not temp while gone). Glad to have you back for a little!!

MzSwizz... You can send those twin genes over this way if you don't want them! My cousin has twins, but I think it's from her hubby's side. I can't think of anyone else in our family history with twins so I think I don't have much of a shot at that. We've even done some family tree research a while ago, going back a couple hundred years even (like to the 17 or 1800s I think) and I don't recall any twins on my side or DH's side. Maybe my cousin "stole" the only twin gene lol.

Fngrs, I agree.... I would be so thrilled with twins... Now more than 2 and I think I would be fainting haha but still happy. I figure with 2- you have 2 arms to hold them and 2 ummm... nursing stations lol... Plus I think it would be harder being a first-time mom having twins. DS is getting to be such a big boy and good helper, I think he would be great with twins! And you have 3 helpers at home. Sigh... now you ladies have me dreaming!

And yes, I'm about to use my ninja skills to get the witch out of here. Maybe next bathroom trip I will threaten her and tell her that Spotty will go to the pound too if he stays around!!! I have to wait til I go to the bathroom because DH will certainly lock me up if I start talking to my period!!

 

[staceyj83]

We dtd last night to hehe couldnt help our self being careful is no fun and its nice to have my sex drive back it went on vaca while i was pregnant just found out a friend is pregnant with number 3 and she doesnt know if she wants i know what i want to hit her up side head but at the sametime i understand her reasons

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Momma, You didn't get your temp raise yet, so you could still be in the running if you BD (or did you not temp while gone). Glad to have you back for a little!!

MzSwizz... You can send those twin genes over this way if you don't want them! My cousin has twins, but I think it's from her hubby's side. I can't think of anyone else in our family history with twins so I think I don't have much of a shot at that. We've even done some family tree research a while ago, going back a couple hundred years even (like to the 17 or 1800s I think) and I don't recall any twins on my side or DH's side. Maybe my cousin "stole" the only twin gene lol.

Fngrs, I agree.... I would be so thrilled with twins... Now more than 2 and I think I would be fainting haha but still happy. I figure with 2- you have 2 arms to hold them and 2 ummm... nursing stations lol... Plus I think it would be harder being a first-time mom having twins. DS is getting to be such a big boy and good helper, I think he would be great with twins! And you have 3 helpers at home. Sigh... now you ladies have me dreaming!

And yes, I'm about to use my ninja skills to get the witch out of here. Maybe next bathroom trip I will threaten her and tell her that Spotty will go to the pound too if he stays around!!! I have to wait til I go to the bathroom because DH will certainly lock me up if I start talking to my period!!

My grandmother is a twin. My Dr. thought I was having twins with DS1 because he was measuring big. But only 1 in there. I was terrified, because I don't think at that time I would have known what to do with two babies. heck I learned as I went with one. lol yep 3 helpers here, and DS1 is 14 now so he would be even more of a help, he likes babies. The other two would be just as helpful, they probably wouldn't want to put them down. then add DH in the mix, and wow, poor kids wouldn't get any rest. Just like the poor kitten we had. Yes I said HAD, because they don't know it, but they killed it. :/ I didnt have the heart to tell them they killed it. I think it was too young to be without it's mom, and all they wanted to do is hold it, and trade arms with it, and give it milk. I discovered it dead, and Dh hurried along to get it out of the house. we told them we let it go back to it's mommy, because it pee'd on my floor. Horrible excuse but they bought it. I think we are going to tell them when they are adults thinking about that kitten, I think they would love a baby to death!!! NOT GOOD!

As far as that talk goes...you are going to have to wait until you are the only one around to give her that good stiff reprimand and threaten her about spot. Because your Dh will really think you have lost it and you will be committed. And I for one will be lost without you on BnB, not to worry though, I would go in their with water guns blazing and bust you out. then we may both be in there, stuck, and refusing happy pills I could see my DH trying to figure out where I am, and then understanding very quickly that I belong there. lol lol lol

AF must've forgotten about those letters eh? Or maybe she is that angry that she has decided to be disrespectful and ignore it.

btw: I should have played the toxoplasmosis card when it came to the cat, but i had to think fast. lol

 

[FngrsCrossed]

We dtd last night to hehe couldnt help our self being careful is no fun and its nice to have my sex drive back it went on vaca while i was pregnant just found out a friend is pregnant with number 3 and she doesnt know if she wants i know what i want to hit her up side head but at the sametime i understand her reasons

There just never is a reason to kill your baby. no matter what the circumstances are. If god can make a way for 2 kids he can make a way for a third. If she understood how if feels to struggle to get pregnant, lose a child 2nd tri, and then lose 2 more after that she wouldn't dare dream of not keeping it. If she doesn't want her blessing then I do. I wake up every single day and see all of the things we bought for our son. The stroller, carseat, clothes, blankets, bottles, pacifiers, and everything else. ALL UNUSED. The most surreal thing in this life has been the loses. I will never again take for granted a HH9M's. Or a single pregnancy. You can't undo abortion, and the I imagine the pain would last til death. Encourage her to keep it. Tell her what we go through on here. Tell her my baby lived 8 days, and lost 2 babies after that.

 

[staceyj83]

She knows we had a long talk and she was there for all of my loses and she knows its a hard road she has always been there for me i told her i believe there is a reason god gave her this baby and to think long and hard before she does anything she said she would she seem to be feeling better when we were.some talk i dont think she would really do that tho

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs... haha I can see you breaking me out of the looney bin with water guns LOL.

Stacey, I would seriously adopt her baby if she wanted to go that route, and I'm sure there are a lot of other people that would too. I've looked into it a little before and it is soooo expensive. I guess people think you have to be rich to be a good parent. I love babies!! Well and bigger kids too, of course.

Fngrs, I finally did an "advanced search" 2 nights ago because I really wanted to learn more about your loss without being insensitive about it and making you repeat it all. I found an entry you made and read the thread. Of course I was in tears and told my DH about it yesterday... just heart-breaking and I'm so sorry for your loss! I always had that fear the entire pregnancy with DS. Especially after the baby shower (27ish weeks), I had his room all set up, the clothes hanging up, and thought how awful it would be to not get to bring him home. So while I can't say I know what you went through, I can maybe partly imagine it and I'm sure it is something you never fully get over. I know I finally told my sister about my chemical the other day and it was all I could do to hold back tears, and I only knew about that baby for about 3 days before I started bleeding. I really hope you get your forever baby soon!!

 

[staceyj83]

I told her the samething then i asked her if she knows how "a" works and how they do it she had no clue so told her told and i let her know the offices down here show you the baby first to make sure its really what you want to do it she didnt know any of that

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Fngrs... haha I can see you breaking me out of the looney bin with water guns LOL.

Stacey, I would seriously adopt her baby if she wanted to go that route, and I'm sure there are a lot of other people that would too. I've looked into it a little before and it is soooo expensive. I guess people think you have to be rich to be a good parent. I love babies!! Well and bigger kids too, of course.

Fngrs, I finally did an "advanced search" 2 nights ago because I really wanted to learn more about your loss without being insensitive about it and making you repeat it all. I found an entry you made and read the thread. Of course I was in tears and told my DH about it yesterday... just heart-breaking and I'm so sorry for your loss! I always had that fear the entire pregnancy with DS. Especially after the baby shower (27ish weeks), I had his room all set up, the clothes hanging up, and thought how awful it would be to not get to bring him home. So while I can't say I know what you went through, I can maybe partly imagine it and I'm sure it is something you never fully get over. I know I finally told my sister about my chemical the other day and it was all I could do to hold back tears, and I only knew about that baby for about 3 days before I started bleeding. I really hope you get your forever baby soon!!

Thank You so much L.E. It's been a horrible thing to go through. There are no answers why I went in labor. But I think it's because I had cancer and a surgery to remove it in the past; which has made my cervix weak. The Dr. gave up on my baby long before he passed away. That's what made it even more horrible. To feel like we had a Dr. that didn't care, and wasn't doing everything possible to save our child. I still recall his words to me, "It's all down hill from here." My baby wasn't even dieing then. So Dr. Death wrote my baby a death sentence.

I was embarrassed at first to even get on BnB and tell anyone that we'd lost our child. Felt guilty, like I could have done something to avoid it. Felt ashamed, because as a woman the one thing you are suppose to be able to do is carry a child to term. There is still a feeling of inadequacy there lingering. And sometimes I think my Dh would have a better chance at getting pregnant and carrying a baby full term than I do. Imagine that feeling..heartbreaking.

I know God doesn't make mistakes. He took my child to be with him for a reason. But I wish so bad everyday, that he was here with me; despite knowing he is in "a better place", an even better place, to me, is in my arms; where he would be kept safe and loved just as much as God loves him. DH doesn't talk much about the loss. I brought it up to him that I had a conversation with my friends fiance' about it. My Dh started crying and told me he didn't want to recap on it. He left the room and stayed in the bathroom for a while. There weren't moments that I had ever seen him vulnerable and broken before losing the baby. That was the first time I have seen him in that light, on the floor crying in the NICU and carrying the casket to the plot. I never want to see him so broken ever again. Seeing him like that made me feel really guilty, really crappy, and helpless.

But I am glad that you took time out to read it. I wish women that want to abort or the ones the murder their children in cold blood could read it also.

These children of ours are all we really have in this lifetime. They are our souls walking outside of our body. So if they are all of those things, why hurt them? Why not hold them in your arms and be amazed at God's work? Why not keep them safe and warm? Why not LOVE them like tomorrow isn't promised?

 

[FngrsCrossed]

I told her the samething then i asked her if she knows how "a" works and how they do it she had no clue so told her told and i let her know the offices down here show you the baby first to make sure its really what you want to do it she didnt know any of that

By law they are required to show you on ultrasound. It's to discourage you from doing it. the catch is you don't have to look at the screen. I wish that was a requirement also. I have never had an abortion, but I don't judge those that do. It just hurts me to know when someone does it, and I for the life of me can't seem to luck up on a pregnancy that will stick or follow through til' the end. I beg God (like so many of us on here) for another shot, but again like so many of us on here, I have to wonder if he can hear me when I pray for that. I can get other things I pray for, just not a baby. You'd swear I was an ax murderer of children or something. :/ It sucks being so close yet so far away.

Also she needs to know that the room is cold (not only in temp, just the vibe is all business), they dilate you cervix suck the baby out like it's nothing; and burn in it an incinerator. If you are further along, they dilate crush the babies head, pull and vacuum it out. If you are even further, they dilate you pull it out and let it die (suffocate from underdeveloped lungs and lack of oxygen) on the table next to you. It's brutal and a horrible way for a child to go. They will give her a Rx for pain meds and send her on her way. If she has any problems (infection from the procedure, severe pain) once she is out of the door and they have her money, she isn't their concern anymore. She would have to go to the Hospital. Then tell them she had it done so they can treat her properly. If she gets an infection, she could lose fertility for the future, or have to have a hysterectomy (which leads to hormone pills until the end of time). Not to mention they will give her the babies due date and every year on that day, she will think about the child that would have had a birthday on that day. Some women can't deal with the guilt after they do it. I know someone who said that she wished she wouldn't have done it. If being pregnant.giving birth isn't a threat on a woman's life, I say give birth and adopt it out to a good family. IF it's about the man not being involved, then forget him, his loss!!! Or if it's a cheating on my husband and got pregnant situation then that can be worked through. In the words of my mother, when it comes to unwanted pregnancy, "Worse things have happened."

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Happy 4th to you ladies!!!

Ok serious and deep convo this morning. lol I woke up to another sucky temp. my dad called DH and I woke early. Of course I was so exhausted that I went to bed early too. It looks like I am having some issues with my thermal shift still. I might have to cave and take the progesterone. I am going to temp one more morning, and if it's low tomorrow then I am going to have to take the prometrium. It would be even better the get a spike in temp then take the prometrium. I have never gotten a false positive opk. All the others after hae been negative. And I mean REEEALLY negative. The line was barely there. So I must have ovulated...right? These vaginal temps were suppose to be more accurate. Why aren't they? Everyone else seems to be doing fine with them, except me. What, do I need to go back to oral temps? Maybe it's time for a new thermometer. I have been having it over a year now. Or maybe I need a new battery. Of course I would have to finish this cycle out if I get a bfn, before I could change the battery. what do you ladies think of my sucky chart?!?! I think it suck and I am feeling crappy about it. :/

 

[mommapowers32]

Fngers + my mother had incompetent cervix she delivered all her babies at 26 weeks her first a still born at the age of 16 then my brother who is blind and handicapped , one medical abortion, one mc then me... All the women on my moms side of the family all have endo... So I was terrified for my pregnancy esp bc I have endo and have had two chemicals. My mother went thru bell and back to have her babies and I'm the only normal one. So I totally understand Ur feeling about abortion.

Le - I laughed so hard about fighting off the witch and breaking out with water guns oh how I needed that this morning

About my temp spike. I know it weird its been staying around the same area .. maybe I had lh surge my opk lines were the same color but the test line wasn't darker than the control line maybe ill have another surgery that's how I got preggo with ds lol

Oh today is a fun day I get to pick up our wedding pictures!!!!

 

[staceyj83]

Happy 4th ladies my friend text me this morning saying that she looked it up some more the web and she is keeping the baby and that after seeing all of the stuff on it and what do she feels like the wrost mother in the world for even thinking about it i told her she wasnt and told about this site maybe she can find someone to talk who been where she is at she just left her hubby after 8 years of him beating on her then found out she is prego and she told me her due date she said she didnt want to tell me last night cause she didnt want to upset me she is due feb 18th which is when my 2nd angel baby was due and 2 days before my bday i told her just means beanie was meant to be it did make me cry a bit



Ok not sure what this is o pain maybe but i keep having this pain/ache on my right side now if im Oing from my right side that does put us in the running to get prego this cycle its my left tube that is gone

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Happy 4th ladies my friend text me this morning saying that she looked it up some more the web and she is keeping the baby and that after seeing all of the stuff on it and what do she feels like the wrost mother in the world for even thinking about it i told her she wasnt and told about this site maybe she can find someone to talk who been where she is at she just left her hubby after 8 years of him beating on her then found out she is prego and she told me her due date she said she didnt want to tell me last night cause she didnt want to upset me she is due feb 18th which is when my 2nd angel baby was due and 2 days before my bday i told her just means beanie was meant to be it did make me cry a bit



Ok not sure what this is o pain maybe but i keep having this pain/ache on my right side now if im Oing from my right side that does put us in the running to get prego this cycle its my left tube that is gone

I am so glad that she decided to keep the baby. She doesn't need him to be a mom. And with his history of violence, she doesn't have to let him see her children at all. I hope she has incidents on record that would help her out a lot. I believe there is someone for everyone, he isn't it, the one that is meant for her will find her, and love and accept her children also.

I would say your pain is ovulation pain. I hope you get your thermal shift tomorrow and don't have to deal with what I am going through right now. :/

 

[staceyj83]

She know and she does he has gone to jail for it more once then omg i dont want it if this is what some women have every month i really feel for them is hurts like hell im thinking i should if my body works right if it doesnt im going to yell at it i dont want to wait till 6dpo to get my crosshairs again and my lp better be longer then 9 days