cherrytomato
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It's rubbish that they can't do anything sooner. I told my sister I was off to the doc this afternoon and she assumed it was to look into why the mc happened - she was staggered that it would have to happen twice more before they'd do anything.
Someone came into the office today showing pictures of their new baby...I dashed out to get a cup of tea. Luckily it wasn't someone I knew so people didn't really notice. Just upset me for the afternoon. And when I rang to confirm my doc appointment this afternoon, they told me it would be with a different doctor, so now I'll have to actually say it all out loud again. Actually saying the words sets me off every time![Sad :( :(](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/icon_sad.gif)
On the job thing Pebbles, even if you get pg really quickly you'll probably have at least 6 months of work before mat leave - though it's a lot easier to spend that time in a rubbish job if the end is in sight! When we got married people I worked with kept saying how they'd enjoyed 4, 5, 6 years of marriage before they had kids...'time for themselves'...made me feel bad that we wanted kids straight away, like we were wasting something. But really it's just different things for different people. People bring up kids with next to nothing, so as long as you're in a position to feed, clothe and love the baby, that's the main things checked off.
Someone came into the office today showing pictures of their new baby...I dashed out to get a cup of tea. Luckily it wasn't someone I knew so people didn't really notice. Just upset me for the afternoon. And when I rang to confirm my doc appointment this afternoon, they told me it would be with a different doctor, so now I'll have to actually say it all out loud again. Actually saying the words sets me off every time
![Sad :( :(](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/icon_sad.gif)
On the job thing Pebbles, even if you get pg really quickly you'll probably have at least 6 months of work before mat leave - though it's a lot easier to spend that time in a rubbish job if the end is in sight! When we got married people I worked with kept saying how they'd enjoyed 4, 5, 6 years of marriage before they had kids...'time for themselves'...made me feel bad that we wanted kids straight away, like we were wasting something. But really it's just different things for different people. People bring up kids with next to nothing, so as long as you're in a position to feed, clothe and love the baby, that's the main things checked off.