Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[MrsPTTC]

Kendra it's good to know someone else with a colicky baby due to bf, not many of th around! Congrats on your dream job!

Claire, can't believe DH is sniffing around again & has said that! Band aid babies don't work! I agree with DG!

Rach bless Harry, how cute! Not long til testing!

Penny coming on a treat on the formula she's 9lb 2 now, much happier & contented x

 

[30mummyof1]

so ladies that have had bfp's did you have any symptoms? I think I remember you Claire saying you were sure you weren't pregnant when you got your bfo with Poppy?!
I can't decide if my 'symptoms' are in my head or not! or if I even have any!

 

[Flowerbaby]

No Rach i had barely any symptoms with Poppy! Also as we only dtd 4 days before O i thought i didnt stand a chance! I remember getting up the morning i got my faint BFP feeling hot & sweaty and a bit sickly, also i found that when i got my BFP's around 6/7dpo i would have a day of EWCM which i presume was when my eggy implanted and maybe had a huge hormone surge? What symptoms you got Rach?? Have you tested as it is 8dpo!?! xx

Well girls ive got something too tell you all.....after listening too everyones advice and i did take it all in, i slept with XDH last night and again this morning....eeeeekkk! He came round too see Poppy when we got home from Center Parcs and was in a very flirtatious mood, and once we put Pops too bed we sat in the sun, cracked open sum beers, started too reminise then it happened, omg!! It was really really nice too be back in his arms again..but we need too keep pur heads above water as we no where near getting back together however a small step has been taken now. We taking Poppy too Whitby tomorrow so will be interesting too see how things go, hes text and said he really looking forward too it and too be honest so am i!

 

[30mummyof1]

Wow 4 days before, that is good going! Well none really, bit crampy from time to time plus backache and vivid dreams last 2 nights. Then boobs are a bit bigger and slightly achey but I get that before af anyway.
Have tested yesterday and today. nothing so pretty sure I am out. Oh wants to test together on Wednesday, doesn't know I have tested already

well thought that could end up happening...long as you are happy and take things SLOWLY! 'He needs to prove he has changed. You have got the coil fitted now, haven't you??!

 

[Flowerbaby]

I also kinda knew it might happen, especially with the way hes been the past couple of weeks with me...yes things do need too be taken really slowly, i feel quite nervous about it all tbh! Hes certainly not moving back in here yet, think we'll live apart still for a good while yet, we both just want things too happen naturally with no pressure from either side. Awww Rach no i didnt get the coil fitted i bottled it, plus i didnt want too go back on contraception as i knew i wasnt gona be getting into a relationship with anyone and knew that new man was just an one off thing...so we've had unprotected however i think i O'd fri/sat as had stacks of EWCM those days so im certain im fine, we ooopsied last night but we remembered and he pulled out today. We used the pull out method for 6 months and it worked okay for us so im happy with that for now until we decide we are defo back together then i'll go get sorted when the dtd becomes more regular! Lol!

Dont lose hope yet babes! With Poppy i didnt get my BFP til 10dpo and it was very faint, i could barely see it, so still time yet!!! xxx

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh Claire, if you ov' sat you'd still be fertile sunday!! Surely you don't want another baby in these circumstances? sorry for sounding like your mother but just saying!!

Thanks hun. I do wonder why I am putting myself through ttc again sometimes!

 

[Flowerbaby]

Ha ha okay mother!! lol, joking apart No i dont want another baby chick, but after all the TTC we went through i think id be very unlucky too have caught as i know my body too well now after trying for so long. Will discuss contraception with him when things are further down the line as im not sure what our decision will be with TTC in the future if things go well with us. Still very early days tho and they will defo be no more ooopsies as its the last thing we need too deal with at mo! x

 

[30mummyof1]

Ok, mother will not nag any further!

 

[Flowerbaby]

Ha ha, thanks for being a supportive friend chick as all my lovely friends on this thread are! Good luck testing in morning sending you lotsa babydust, c'mon BFP!!!

 

[MrsPTTC]

I didn't get any symptoms rach, not til maybe a week after my bfp, can't remember seems so long ago now! Have you tested again?

Eee Claire bless ya, but yeah I agree with Rach you'll still be fertile! Plus, sometimes having one pregnancy kicks your body into gear, I've heard of people having to have IVF then baby #2 comes along naturally! Hope you're safe chick til you & dh or x dh can sort things out. I really wouldn't recommend using pull out method though as like I say your fertility might be different now...

How's DG & AS?

Well shit I've lost my boobies milk must've all gone & looks like my boobies have too my bigger bras are too big! but I liked them bigger!

X

 

[30mummyof1]

Yesterday was - hun, didn't bother testing today. Just feel out Good to know not everyone gets symptoms, I guess i'm just expecting it to be like it was with Harry. Thomas I wasn't trying so didn't test until af was a week late, so I maybe I didn't have any symptoms with him?
Planning to wait until sunday now, when af will be late.

Yes most boobies disappear, after each pregnancy mine have just looked worse and worse...oh has promised me a boob job after we have finished having children though. Not that he thinks there is anything wrong with them!

 

[deafgal01]

Hanging in there. I had my consultation appt with a new clinic Monday and I like that clinic so much better than the one I tried last fall so we will do rest of stuff with them. I decided to change clinic cuz I never got over the dr poking fun at my dh "so it's all your fault". It is one thing for dh to say that but it was rather unprofessional of dr to state that.

Same day I had counseling appt with dh somewhere which helped us think about what to expect day of iui and afterwards. It was really helpful.

If you want a deeper explanation or details on either one; i wrote in my journal on here. So waiting for af so I can schedule my day 3 bloods and hsg and then as soon they have all tests back I think we have go ahead so I hope we start either July or August.

 

[30mummyof1]

Glad its all coming together dg, so excited for you. Will check out your journal too

 

[deafgal01]

Btw 30 ya not out yet! You could still get that bfp!

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww DG thats great news with regards too finding a better clinic! How bloody rude was that doctor saying that too your DH its disgusting! Glad too hear things are finally coming together for you! Not long too go now then hun, c'mon af show your face!! xx

Your being really good Rach not testing til Sunday! I couldnt resist! Got everything crossed for you xx

MrsP, ive got implants and my boobs have never returned too there original pert selves after having Poppy! They now look saggier and more real i suppose ive dropped a bra size from before i had Poppy so they defo smaller, oh the joys of motherhood xx

 

[30mummyof1]

Just don't want to see another bfn Hun, that's all oh hasn't mentioned testing so guess he's forgotten! I wish i could!

Going to crack on with wedding planning now, got 2 app's for the weekend.

 

[Flowerbaby]

I know i was so obsessed with testing when i was TTC! Then when i had Pops i couldnt be bothered as had no symptoms and got my BFP! Ohhhh i sooo hope you've got it, roll on sunday! So what dates are you thinkin of for the wedding? R u getting married in a church? x

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes that was the same for me with Harry! hope it's a good sign! fx

Hoping for Sept 14' unless we go for the castle in which case it would be Nov 14' as it's way cheaper and think it'd be quite romantic with log fires etc..
Hope we can get a date booked soon, be nice to have a date to focus on and look forward too

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh no, not a church as we aren't religious. We would get married in the same place as the reception x

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww the castle with log fires sounds sooo romantic!!! How lovely! Yes be lovely too get a date sorted too give you something too focus on! x